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Post by sizzling63 on Sept 29, 2017 20:13:16 GMT -5
I can't imagine that Sarina would invite a ~friend for Adam to spend a week on their yacht in a very intimate setting without asking Adam about it first. Whatever the situation was, I don't think I've ever seen Adam more relaxed and as joyful and happy as he was the week in Ibiza. If Sarina did invite Dana without Adam's permission, Adam certainly seemed delighted with the arrangement.A casual, "hey, we are sailing Ibiza in Sept. you guys ought to join us!" While they are all partying or on the ferry in Provincetown? That needs permission? IDG that viewpoint. IDK, lots of assumptions going on about the intimacy of that trip. TBH, I saw nothing that indicated anything more than a friendship. But then I was on vacation at the same time with limited internet so maybe I missed something. For the record, i don't care who Adam is with or how many guys he is with. I just want him happy. I didn't either, and I was not on vacation. I just didn't get the same kind of "feelz" that I get with the other but I could be projecting haha. Your last sentence...I also want him happy.
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Post by marionm on Sept 29, 2017 21:50:40 GMT -5
Adam hangs with a lot of guys there's always going to be speculation. We'll seldom know for sure what the situation is. I just hope Adam doesn't walk all over people and use them and doesn't hurt himself too much along the way...lol (do what you want as long as you don't hurt others and don't hurt yourself, as Adam would way)
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Post by phronni7 on Sept 30, 2017 0:06:06 GMT -5
Based on all of the information we have heard from people over the years, I cannot imagine Adam walking all over other people at all. That would be like he had one personality (nice, caring, funny, etc...) which people from fans to colleagues, and to his Queen family almost universally seem to note, and then another entirely and not in a good way in his "having his moments", as he frankly answered in some interview a while back when someone asked him if he ever was with groupies. And even with non-disclosure agreements or whatever, I don't care: over this many years, somebody would have come out of the woodwork if he had been treated poorly.
As to Sauli, I am likely projecting, but it seems like one of those rare connections that is fun but also layered with an aura of melancholy (yeah, I'm projecting because in all my years, I have only known one pair who seemed unable to be together and unable to be apart.)
I hated last season of AHS, too. I am reserving judgment on this one because cults are fascinating to me. But the Guinea Pig.......
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Post by lurleene on Sept 30, 2017 1:02:57 GMT -5
I think Adam is a good guy. I don't see him doing anything different than most of us did until we found our special mate even if it did not always last. But it reminds me of that Bonnie Raitt song he sang once. "I Can't Make You Love Me." Only it would be that fans can't make him love someone of their choice. He has not said anything to lead us on. He is just living his life. If we project and get invested then are disappointed, it is on us and not on him.
I knew Adam was not going to be a judge on Idol but I have no excitement about the judges they have picked. I wonder if the press will go BSC over them the way they always do whenever they thought Adam had a chance.
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Post by Q3 on Sept 30, 2017 1:12:11 GMT -5
Yes, Lyndsey! Katy was absolutely right. Adam Lambert was the best contestant AI ever had. Period. As for the judging panel, they seem fine. But I simply cannot work up any interest in watching. I'm sure there will be plenty of good singers. Always are. Same with The Voice. I'm just "singing show-ed" out. Unless, of course, Adam is part of it. I feel exactly the same way. I think that Idol + 2 Voice seasons for a few years just burned my out. Plus, contemporary hits music is really not that much about singing. I will probably only watch when Adam in on.
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Post by Q3 on Sept 30, 2017 1:15:04 GMT -5
@nprmusic: The days of major labels dictating album releases or manipulating consumer interest are gone. n.pr/2xBleNE The days of major labels dictating album releases or manipulating consumer interest are gone. The age-old formula of dropping an act's lead single, announcing a release date, then shipping said act off on a promo tour of free performances and media interviews is a dinosaur model. As artists increasingly drop albums with little or zero advance notice, the pre-announced release date is nearing extinction. "They're the enemy of creativity," as pre-eminent hip-hop producer Dr. Dre says in the HBO documentary The D Very interesting article -- thanks for posting it.
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Post by AnnAdoresAdam on Sept 30, 2017 3:54:47 GMT -5
I have a theory that Sarina invited Dana and Adam when they were all in Provincetown. And the conflict was that Sauli had a professional commitment that week of Ibiza. I can't imagine that Sarina would invite a ~friend for Adam to spend a week on their yacht in a very intimate setting without asking Adam about it first. Whatever the situation was, I don't think I've ever seen Adam more relaxed and as joyful and happy as he was the week in Ibiza. If Sarina did invite Dana without Adam's permission, Adam certainly seemed delighted with the arrangement. My guess is that she probably asked Adam rather than Dana. Kind of like "oh Adam, you should come sailing with us on the yacht - and bring Dana". (Because she'd met Dana "with" Adam in Provincetown and presumably liked him). That would make it impossible for Adam to take Sauli even if he wanted to. And I think the main cause of Adam's joy (not to downplay Dana) was simply being on vacation with Roger Taylor himself. Same as when he (Adam) phoned his Dad all excited that he was on a private jet. The vacation was the ultimate mark of acceptance for him.
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Post by lurleene on Sept 30, 2017 9:36:13 GMT -5
I can't imagine that Sarina would invite a ~friend for Adam to spend a week on their yacht in a very intimate setting without asking Adam about it first. Whatever the situation was, I don't think I've ever seen Adam more relaxed and as joyful and happy as he was the week in Ibiza. If Sarina did invite Dana without Adam's permission, Adam certainly seemed delighted with the arrangement. My guess is that she probably asked Adam rather than Dana. Kind of like "oh Adam, you should come sailing with us on the yacht - and bring Dana". (Because she'd met Dana "with" Adam in Provincetown and presumably liked him). That would make it impossible for Adam to take Sauli even if he wanted to. And I think the main cause of Adam's joy (not to downplay Dana) was simply being on vacation with Roger Taylor himself. Same as when he (Adam) phoned his Dad all excited that he was on a private jet. The vacation was the ultimate mark of acceptance for him. Sarina is a worldly woman. I find it hard to believe that she would take it upon herself to invite Dana with Adam without his consent. That would put him in a awkward and terrible position and would be disrespectful to Adam and Dana. I think they think too much of Adam to do that and involve someone they just met, even if she did like him. You can be friends with someone and not want to vacation with them around the world, especially if Adam really wanted to be with Sauli. I doubt Adam would allow someone to put him in that position. My guess is Adam was with Dana because that was who he wanted to bring at that time. If he wanted to bring Sauli on the trip he would have. Roger has met Sauli so why would they do that if they felt Sauli was that special to Adam? I don't think they would. I give them all a little more credit and believe it was a vacation done the way everyone wanted it, including Adam. So for me, I will see it for what it was (they had a great and fun vacation together) instead of trying to re-write a different version for Adam.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 30, 2017 10:22:29 GMT -5
My guess is that she probably asked Adam rather than Dana. Kind of like "oh Adam, you should come sailing with us on the yacht - and bring Dana". (Because she'd met Dana "with" Adam in Provincetown and presumably liked him). That would make it impossible for Adam to take Sauli even if he wanted to. And I think the main cause of Adam's joy (not to downplay Dana) was simply being on vacation with Roger Taylor himself. Same as when he (Adam) phoned his Dad all excited that he was on a private jet. The vacation was the ultimate mark of acceptance for him. Sarina is a worldly woman. I find it hard to believe that she would take it upon herself to invite Dana with Adam without his consent. That would put him in a awkward and terrible position and would be disrespectful to Adam and Dana. I think they think too much of Adam to do that and involve someone they just met, even if she did like him. You can be friends with someone and not want to vacation with them around the world, especially if Adam really wanted to be with Sauli. I doubt Adam would allow someone to put him in that position. My guess is Adam was with Dana because that was who he wanted to bring at that time. If he wanted to bring Sauli on the trip he would have. Roger has met Sauli so why would they do that if they felt Sauli was that special to Adam? I don't think they would. I give them all a little more credit and believe it was a vacation done the way everyone wanted it, including Adam. So for me, I will see it for what it was (they had a great and fun vacation together) instead of trying to re-write a different version for Adam. I think you are implying something that maybe doesn't exist. IDK why inviting 2 friends on a sailing venture would be weird? I just am not getting it!
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Post by lurleene on Sept 30, 2017 10:55:30 GMT -5
Sarina is a worldly woman. I find it hard to believe that she would take it upon herself to invite Dana with Adam without his consent. That would put him in a awkward and terrible position and would be disrespectful to Adam and Dana. I think they think too much of Adam to do that and involve someone they just met, even if she did like him. You can be friends with someone and not want to vacation with them around the world, especially if Adam really wanted to be with Sauli. I doubt Adam would allow someone to put him in that position. My guess is Adam was with Dana because that was who he wanted to bring at that time. If he wanted to bring Sauli on the trip he would have. Roger has met Sauli so why would they do that if they felt Sauli was that special to Adam? I don't think they would. I give them all a little more credit and believe it was a vacation done the way everyone wanted it, including Adam. So for me, I will see it for what it was (they had a great and fun vacation together) instead of trying to re-write a different version for Adam. I think you are implying something that maybe doesn't exist. IDK why inviting 2 friends on a sailing venture would be weird? I just am not getting it! That is exactly my point. We don't know the nature of Adam's friendship with Dana or who invited him. So why make the assumption that he was not with the friend or whatever that he wanted to be with? Why insert Sauli into everything that Adam chooses to do? Obviously Adam does not think it is necessary. He had nice vacation with Dana, Sarina and Roger is all we do know. It looks like he had fun so good for him.
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