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Post by lurleene on Feb 20, 2018 11:56:58 GMT -5
IMHO ,if Adam fell in love again he would have a hard time keeping it a secret.. He seems to wear his heart on his sleeve. I finally believe that Adam and Sauli are good friends who love each other but are not romantically in love.Adam is putting his desires out there... I think it was amazing that Adam and Sauli lasted as long as they did, living in different countries a lot of the time. I remember Adam saying he couldn't even have an f...g dog. Maybe his pup was a test ....... I would think it would also be hard for somebody to accept coming second to Adam's love for performing.. ... It's not easy.Adam has also said ,to paraphrase ,It's not fair to ask someone else to put up with his schedule. Hmmm maybe when Adam is in his forties life will be more settled down. It's great that he can at least talk about how he feels. That is what I think too. And because he does not say a lot no one should try to write the script of their fantasy for him. Then show disappointment in him (and voice that disappointment) because they think he is not being loyal to someone that he nor they have said is a committed relationship. Why dismiss everything Sauli or Adam have or haven't said and read into pictures and hints as some validation of your own wishes? If wishing and reading hints by fans made it a reality then Adam would be playing Judas.
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Post by sarah on Feb 20, 2018 12:54:39 GMT -5
It's so tempting, if that Vegas show becomes a reality. I wonder if I could make it down there. I hate flying, and it's a long drive by myself. The tickets would probably sell out too quickly for me, in any case. lol
I know nothing, but I feel like Adam and Sauli are probably very good friends with occasionally wistful benefits.
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Post by marionm on Feb 20, 2018 13:57:18 GMT -5
Can you guys PLEASE respect our opinion WITHOUT being condescending??!!! We (who think Sauli and Adam are a couple) have no definite proof of what we think. Your "theory" has also been proven wrong today!
I'll repeat!: NOBODY is pushing their wishes/hopes/fantasies on Adam. We have merely a different INTERPRETATION of factual things (like vacations, certain pictures etc.)
THANK YOU!
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Post by sizzling63 on Feb 20, 2018 15:52:52 GMT -5
We are an invested fandom - some are only interested in Adam's professional career while others also care about aspects of his private life. I see it as perfectly normal that many of us here enjoy speculations and discussions that are driven by social media posts, follows, or "likes", be it about new music, another career opportunity, a new house, or possible development in the romance department. For me, trying to read clues to guess what's going on in Adam's life is fun, and I have to admit that to some degree(!) I tend to also be interested in his love life as I think it influences his creativity, his spirit, and ... his music. I think we can all learn from each other while acknowledging that our views and interpretations shared within the fandom aren't always the same and, in many cases are only speculations based on our own expectations, hopes, and values. But there is one thing that we all have in common. Our love for the man. We can follow him closely and cheer him on, but he is the one who needs to figure out his journey both professionally and as a private person.
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