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Post by bamafan on Apr 18, 2019 16:26:19 GMT -5
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Post by MeggyMeg on Apr 18, 2019 16:31:12 GMT -5
I guess some of those people worry that being "in love" is not ALWAYS the best advisor.
Great. Then they should make sure they love, appreciate, and worry about the people who are actually a part of their lives. My guess is, if Adam needed or wanted their advice he would ask for it. Then maybe not, lol.
This is just a typical case of projection which is absolutely nothing new to the human race.
Look at what happened yesterday after wealthy people started pledging to the rebuild of Notre Dame. Many people suddenly thought it was important to shame them for that and for NOT supporting other causes (that THEY found worthy themselves).
It's very typical for humans to judge situations based on their own experiences. So when I see someone "worrying" about Adam, my first thought is that they must have been through some shite in their lives.
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Post by melliemom on Apr 18, 2019 16:33:11 GMT -5
I love Adam and love his gorgeous voice,but I try not to be invested in his private life...I have enough going on with my own life. I just want some tv ads for" The Show Must Go On" LOL
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Post by nightowl on Apr 18, 2019 16:37:37 GMT -5
Wonder what those two are doing for Javi's birthday? The comments on Javi's insta are cringeworthy on either end...either Glamberts promising undying love and adoration... or the usual "you're only there to take advantage" posts.Must be an insta thing because people seem to leave totally OTT replies on others' Insta posts also. I'm so not cut out for social media lol... Really? I honestly haven't seen any negativity today. May be I am too slow and those comments are deleted by the time I get to read them, but I agree with @lurleene that it shouldn't be so hard to grasp how someone really cute and affectionate can actually fall in love with Adam. I haven’t seen any of these posts for some time either. But since he gets a lot of comments lately, I don’t read through all of them. I barely ever comment on IG and haven’t commented on Javi’s yet. I don’t know him personally, so I find it weird. But I‘m happy for him and Adam. My opinion is: „If you don’t have anything nice to say (or write), say nothing at all.“ or „Don’t write anything, that you wouldn’t tell him from face to face.“ It’s that easy.
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Post by lurleene on Apr 18, 2019 16:43:19 GMT -5
Great. Then they should make sure they love, appreciate, and worry about the people who are actually a part of their lives. My guess is, if Adam needed or wanted their advice he would ask for it. Then maybe not, lol.
This is just a typical case of projection which is absolutely nothing new to the human race.
Look at what happened yesterday after wealthy people started pledging to the rebuild of Notre Dame. Many people suddenly thought it was important to shame them for that and for NOT supporting other causes (that THEY found worthy themselves).
It's very typical for humans to judge situations based on their own experiences. So when I see someone "worrying" about Adam, my first thought is that they must have been through some shite in their lives.
I get that. I really do. We have all been thru something and have experiences in our lives. But the resentment and jabs over Adam finding a relationship he is happy with is beyond my understanding. If he makes a mistake, it is his to make. We have all made them. But he is unlikely to stop loving who he loves because someone somewhere (or he himself) has been hurt before. I don't know. He looks happy so I'm going to be happy for him and Javi, until there is a reason not to be.
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Post by bamafan on Apr 18, 2019 17:04:48 GMT -5
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Post by nightowl on Apr 18, 2019 17:08:58 GMT -5
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Post by skaschep on Apr 18, 2019 17:11:53 GMT -5
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Post by girldrummer on Apr 18, 2019 17:14:00 GMT -5
Wonder what those two are doing for Javi's birthday? The comments on Javi's insta are cringeworthy on either end...either Glamberts promising undying love and adoration...or the usual " you're only there to take advantage" posts. Must be an insta thing because people seem to leave totally OTT replies on others' Insta posts also. I'm so not cut out for social media lol... Why is it so hard for some to believe that someone could fall in love with Adam Lambert? Geez, he's not exactly undesirable. Or that Adam would fall in love with Javi, without having a clue what he is about? What do they think they see that Adam can't see? Oh never mind, they don't know Javi or Adam, lol. Still hoping Adam will be with someone of their choosing and not HIS own, I guess. Exactly right, lurleene, Seems like some people just have to second-guess everything and doubt everything and make everything dark and ugly in some way. I guess it makes them feel better superior. All I see in this relationship is two adult men who fell in love. We should all be so lucky.
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