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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2013 14:12:39 GMT -5
I don't believe that Adam and Sauli's relationship is really any of his/their fans business. That is such a personal matter for fans to be nosing into. JMHO. I believe that you're absolutely right - this is none of our business. BUT - we as Adams hardcore-stans are discussing here at Atop or on twitter EVERYTHING concerning him, including very private bodyparts, his clothes, his hair, his family, his friends, his past, his presence, his future, what he should do, what he shouldn't - we are part of his life and he is part of ours. Some of us are spending many hours each day following him on the internet or around the globe to attend his concerts. So if he and Sauli have issues or really have broken up we are interested in that too To be honest, the rational part of me says - get the f***ck out of his private life - but the irrational stan in me is very worried and sad about the uncertain situation in the last few days and can't help this feeling!
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Post by mahailia on Feb 13, 2013 14:31:53 GMT -5
OK, regarding the Big Elephant in the room: First, it is none of my business what happens in our idol's love life. Can you imagine what it would be like for you if everyone you knew, and more, were gossiping, speculating, worrying, imagining, and in general talking sh*t about your personal love life? Luckily, I am not in that position. Although I am not on twitter, I have been hearing "rumors" from the twitterverse since last weekend thru email, and now here they are at Atop front and center. Second, anyone who has ever been in a long term relationship knows that at some point, the honeymoon is over, and you start to have doubts about many things. This is normal. Whether the relationship survives these doubts depends on many things. Third, when couples have issues in their relationship, it is hard to even articulate them yourself much less your significant other. Which leads to: Fourth, I don't believe that Adam should feel obligated to reveal, discuss, or to inform the fandom on this, back to #1, it is none of our business. I just hope that all is well, and that both of these beautiful people are happy chasing their dreams. And, hopefully, that's all I'm going to say on this. Read more: atop.proboards.com/user/62/recent#ixzz2KoEfu1YE |
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Post by bridgeymah on Feb 13, 2013 14:56:46 GMT -5
Sauli who?
#iamafannotafriend #itshisrelationshipandnoneofmybusiness
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2013 14:56:52 GMT -5
I don't think anyone should ask Adam anything or that Adam has to tell us anything. But my guess is, unless DMG tells interviewers on the tour that BF questions are off limits, we might hear an answer sometime soon. I find the discussion here, concern. As was said upthread, we discuss every part of Adam's life. And Adam has not kept this relationship quiet or secret, so speculation, worry, discussion is only natural, IMO. It's been an elephant in the room for a week now and many have been discussing via PMs. (Just a clarification because everyone says "after NY" but the solo sightings started before NY, 2 days after the BD party.)
My hope is that if something is wrong, it is a rough patch that they are working through. It happens in long term relationships.
This is a beautiful post! I have grown quite fond of Sauli and this makes me sad. But my wishes for both of these men is the same as yours, 4EverAdam
"Hope that the universe is watching out for these two special souls and that whatever happens or is happening, they find the path to happiness for themselves, whether separate or together."
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2013 15:06:24 GMT -5
But Adam generally isn't one to hide his emotions, so if anything is wrong, I think we'll eventually see some clearer signs. He wrote two songs about how he hides his feelings! Not speculating either way but just sayin...  |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2013 15:06:48 GMT -5
Just want to add that the only thing that would get "icky" for me (in this discussion) would be if people started speculating "why." :-/
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Post by smokeyvera on Feb 13, 2013 15:20:40 GMT -5
Aw, shit, I feel like he is son No. 2 , and I am concerned. If it indeed has happened, I don't want to know why. Sauli has indicated he is quite happy, and Adam appears happy except with the choice of the song, Stay, imho. I am chalking this all off to tour prep, and Sauli getting it together for his trip home.
There could also be visa issues. It isn't easy to get extended stay visas, repeatedly for residence in the US. You do have to go back to your own country to renew, and you better have a damn good reason for being in the US for extended periods. Most often you are allowed a certain amount of time for employment, but we have no idea, what his employment status is for Finnish companies. Actually it is none of our business, but it can definitely affect visa status in the US. LBGT couples have no protection or rights. When I worked, prior to retirement, that if I hired people who had certain visas, I had to inform them that if they were seeking permanent status, it was company policy not to do the paperwork to help them achieve this. That sucked because I lost out on a potential number of good employees.
What is not to say that some of the recent photos posted, were taken by Sauli, resulting in him not being in the picture. I am trying to stay positive on all of this, and that it isn't even a rough patch...it's just busy schedules.
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Post by QueeenAl on Feb 13, 2013 15:22:16 GMT -5
In case people feel more comfortable to continue this discussion on the "dark thread" and can't find it: atop.proboards.com/thread/895/22-12-dark-side-post?page=73#and bookmark it ... this will not go away quickly IMO My comment, like someone upthread posted: not my business, but I care ... for both beautiful boys ... |
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Post by QueeenAl on Feb 13, 2013 15:36:07 GMT -5
I love all of last nights pictures ... Adam looked happy, spent a wild night with old friends and some new friends/fans (who were the ones who tweeted the pics, that's an easy way to categorize them if you need to *evilgrin*) I love PartyAdam ... LOL ETA: see ... Sutan proves me right ... he posts a pic after some time, a respectful distance, most likely checked with Adam first if it's ok ... noooooo I will never believe that it took him that much longer to sober up ... nope! not my Sutan !!!    Well in any case, Adam approved bc he retweeted it SutanlovesRaja@sutanamrull@DavideLaffe @adamlambert @samsparro and his boo. An absolute blast! Must do it again soon! http://lockerz.com/s/283135113
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