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Post by belle on Apr 5, 2013 13:09:19 GMT -5
Why does that article say that Adam and Sauli haven't confirmed that! In my eyes, Adam said it very clearly.. The info is coming from a website and not directly from the parties (A or S), that's why. |
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Post by bobo on Apr 5, 2013 13:10:45 GMT -5
From Sauli and his friend Nikko's photos, pretty sure Sauli has not moved out yet. Maybe they really are so good friends that they can still live together for a while and maybe Adam made that announcement mainly because he didn't want people to send him anymore tweets accusing him for cheating on Sauli. Just speculating... |
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Post by evergreen on Apr 5, 2013 13:12:32 GMT -5
Adam Lambert has split with his boyfriend Sauli Koskinen, South Florida Gay News reports: “It’s been kind of on its way out in the last couple of months,” Lambert told SFGN.
Koskinen is a Finnish entertainment reporter, television host and radio personality. He rose to fame after winning his country’s version of Big Brother in 2007.
Lambert emphasized though the two are close and will continue to remain friends.
“Sauli and I remain really good friends, and I know it’s a cliché thing to say. But it’s totally true,” he said. “I just gave him a coffee and bagel earlier today. He’s a great person and we’ve had an amazing couple of years together. Things have just run their course.”
Lambert is headlining this year's Miami Beach Gay Pride on April 14. Of course, I am sad, but not surprised. I have seen things the last couple of months that made me wonder, but I never like to assume anything. I just have to say and I hope someone will help me see it differently, but I think Adam's words here are a bit cavalier. Sometimes he says too much that can be interpreted in too many different ways. What the heck does "things have run their course" mean? I don't like that he says they have been "on the way out" the last couple of months. This is the truth no doubt, and Adam appreciates honesty, but how does it help to say it? Maybe he didn't feel he had to take us "underneath" today. Or didn't feel up to it. There is no perfect way to say any of those things, and regardless of what he says or how he says it, it will be interpreted a hundred/thousand different ways by friends, fans and haters all over the world. I love both these guys and hope they are busy enough with other things so they don't have too much time to read/see all the stuff that will be out there for the time being. They are probably doing better than we are today because they have worked it through and are ready to get on with things, while we are still feeling the initial shock. But we'll work through it, too. As others have said, though, I'm a bit surprised at how invested I am... |
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Post by melliemom on Apr 5, 2013 13:16:32 GMT -5
I feel sad about the breakup ,but also feel so happy that they both found love,friendship and the ability to be able to trust in each other.
For how ever long it lasted ,they seemed to make it work and found joy in each other.. I'm sure they learned a lot about love and life while learning about themselves and each other.
It just seemed like a really healthy emotional time from the outside looking in.
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Post by melliemom on Apr 5, 2013 13:18:18 GMT -5
allinspiration.com/Friendship/Poems/some_friends_are_forever_poem.htmlI wish for Sauli and Adam to be forever friends... Long before Sauli ,Adam expressed in similar words, that it would be unfair of him to have a relationship at that time , he wouldn't be able to give it all that a relationship needed ,because of his schedule,traveling.. no real time. IMHO,Adam had that window of time for a while and then it was gone...
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Post by Q3 on Apr 5, 2013 13:19:21 GMT -5
Adam says "he and Sauli remain really good friends."
And his explanation reveals no major issue or drama:
“It’s been kind of on its way out in the last couple of months....”
“... Things have just run their course.”
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
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Post by murly on Apr 5, 2013 13:19:42 GMT -5
I hope we're not going to start dissecting every quote. What's a good way to announce a breakup? I think Adam did just fine explaining it; they were drifting apart and decided to end the romantic relationship but are still good friends. I'm sad but I get the sense that they're both doing okay.
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Post by leenaseyez on Apr 5, 2013 13:24:24 GMT -5
can you please PM me as well, as I have exactly the same question after reading your post? tx!  PMed |
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Post by Albiku on Apr 5, 2013 13:25:56 GMT -5
From Sauli and his friend Nikko's photos, pretty sure Sauli has not moved out yet. Maybe Adam will move out. I saw a tweet that Adam was with a home decorator yesterday or the day before yesterday. Yes, it would make more sense if it was Sauli who moved out, because he's not a celeb in the US and that's the kind of building made for celebs, but we don't really know what they're planning on doing. :-S |
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Post by Craazyforadam on Apr 5, 2013 13:29:35 GMT -5
#becauseofAdamLambert I have learned and continue to learn to stay out when I really know nothing about it #sadnessallowed
Re some posts on these last few pages. I am not comprehending at all these messages that indicate that either something was not said right, done right, Adam should or should not, etc. I think that it shows a lot of character for two people in the public eye and with tons of interviews to remain quiet externally, while internally and personally they rearrange and move forward in such a way that both careers remain uninterrupted.
We noticed that something was up, but remained respectful here, I assume this will continue.
I see no reason to assume otherwise.
I think they are both classy guys and I wish them both well.
And re break-up songs: While clearly there are easy hits to be had, I hope and actually believe with certainly, that if Adam writes something that it will be introvert (how he feels or what he thinks about things in general) rather than dumping on anyone. So, no Taylor Swift, and I am thankful that I am stanning someone where I can be certain of that.
Like I said, two classy guys.
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