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Post by stardust on Jun 7, 2017 12:45:02 GMT -5
Clearly a lot care. What I have a have is a time understanding though is why so many are desiring to see them return to a failed relationship. As far as what is visible about their lives, nothing that may have caused the original breakup has changed significantly. Having has personal experience with long term on again off again long distance relationship that failed miserably each time, I am tainted and literally cringe with each reappearance. To me, all I see is delay of the almost certain inevitable outcome and a blocking of moving forward for each of them to finding a more suitable partner. YM&theirsMV I may be the odd one out here but I've never seen their relationship as a failure. It has morphed in to something different for sure but it is obvious that they are still very good friends. I actually see their relationship as a success because they changed it into something that obviously is working for them without any sign of bitterness. I wish more people could learn to transition relationships rather than creating misery by trying to maintain something that isn't fulfilling. You said it so well!!!
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Post by marionm on Jun 7, 2017 13:16:54 GMT -5
While seemingly nothing has changed for them, their relationship is still long-distance...maybe they feel more settle in their professional lives...Sauli got a fitness degree, Adam has a different standing than during era two...
I too feel silly being so invested, I try to be respectful about it...while none of us know the true nature of their relationship, I believe one thing to be true, that it is stable or healthy, or they wouln't be so open about seeing each other and stay more cryptic like before... ...they both seem happy and in the end it's all I really care to know...
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Post by sizzling63 on Jun 7, 2017 13:22:48 GMT -5
Clearly a lot care. What I have a have is a time understanding though is why so many are desiring to see them return to a failed relationship. As far as what is visible about their lives, nothing that may have caused the original breakup has changed significantly. Having has personal experience with long term on again off again long distance relationship that failed miserably each time, I am tainted and literally cringe with each reappearance. To me, all I see is delay of the almost certain inevitable outcome and a blocking of moving forward for each of them to finding a more suitable partner. YM&theirsMV I may be the odd one out here but I've never seen their relationship as a failure. It has morphed in to something different for sure but it is obvious that they are still very good friends. I actually see their relationship as a success because they changed it into something that obviously is working for them without any sign of bitterness. I wish more people could learn to transition relationships rather than creating misery by trying to maintain something that isn't fulfilling. @rihannsu, I really like what you said here. I think relationships can't be clearly defined sometimes, but I don't see that as an issue as long as there's an honest and open dialogue between the partners. Adam and Sauli seem to handle their relationship (aka friendship) with a great deal of maturity. Lots of opinions or non-opinions on this subject, which makes sense. Individual experiences and values probably factor into it.
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