petrajo
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Post by petrajo on Oct 6, 2018 17:01:09 GMT -5
That would’ve been true, if their relationship had only lasted for a few months. Not after 2 years living with the partner in an English speaking environment. I think it takes a while to figure out if you are on the same level of emotional intelligence, after the initial "head over heels" being in love phase. Some people are simply a bit deeper and more introspective than others, and I believe that an Aquarius has very complex needs. I have one in my family. Language barrier sure doesn't help, but I don't think it is a "make it or break it" type of thing either. To all of you: don’t you know that their close friendship has lasted to this date? 🤔 Don’t you give Adam any credit? You think he’d continue seeing Sauli if he thought S was unintelligent? Remember Ru Paul’s interview ”we talk all the time”? Can’t believe my eyes here.
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Post by sizzling63 on Oct 6, 2018 23:16:07 GMT -5
I think it takes a while to figure out if you are on the same level of emotional intelligence, after the initial "head over heels" being in love phase. Some people are simply a bit deeper and more introspective than others, and I believe that an Aquarius has very complex needs. I have one in my family. Language barrier sure doesn't help, but I don't think it is a "make it or break it" type of thing either. To all of you: don’t you know that their close friendship has lasted to this date? 🤔 Don’t you give Adam any credit? You think he’d continue seeing Sauli if he thought S was unintelligent? Remember Ru Paul’s interview ”we talk all the time”? Can’t believe my eyes here. I have very little doubt that their friendship will last
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Post by taumbu on Oct 7, 2018 1:14:07 GMT -5
I think it takes a while to figure out if you are on the same level of emotional intelligence, after the initial "head over heels" being in love phase. Some people are simply a bit deeper and more introspective than others, and I believe that an Aquarius has very complex needs. I have one in my family. Language barrier sure doesn't help, but I don't think it is a "make it or break it" type of thing either. To all of you: don’t you know that their close friendship has lasted to this date? 🤔 Don’t you give Adam any credit? You think he’d continue seeing Sauli if he thought S was unintelligent? Remember Ru Paul’s interview ”we talk all the time”? Can’t believe my eyes here. I agree with you! But we were talking about a life long partnership not just a friendship.
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Post by skaschep on Oct 7, 2018 2:00:47 GMT -5
I think it takes a while to figure out if you are on the same level of emotional intelligence, after the initial "head over heels" being in love phase. Some people are simply a bit deeper and more introspective than others, and I believe that an Aquarius has very complex needs. I have one in my family. Language barrier sure doesn't help, but I don't think it is a "make it or break it" type of thing either. To all of you: don’t you know that their close friendship has lasted to this date? 🤔 Don’t you give Adam any credit? You think he’d continue seeing Sauli if he thought S was unintelligent? Remember Ru Paul’s interview ”we talk all the time”? Can’t believe my eyes here. I believe no-one here is claiming Sauli is unintelligent, but more that he might not be intelligent enough for Adam. There is a wide degree of levels there which doesn't mean one is automaticly stupid when they aren't intelligent enough. I for one also know that I need someone with a certain degree of intelligence to really make it work. That doesn't mean the people who don't fit that level are less than the others, but just that I know it wouldn't work out.
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Post by betty on Oct 7, 2018 2:56:10 GMT -5
After reading some posts here, all I can do is ... ![](https://i.postimg.cc/Qd2m3VfC/face_palm_shake_head.gif) To me it's really not surprising that so many older members left Atop or rarely post here anymore! ![](http://i770.photobucket.com/albums/xx348/Quu3/Chapf%20smileys/touchtoes.gif)
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Post by Jablea on Oct 7, 2018 4:20:45 GMT -5
yes it has been a very strange conversation, fueled of course by Adam's use of the word. However I think if we were to ask him to explain that there would be much more nuance in his answer. This conversation has been like "it's a number" and if the number isn't such and such - at least that's how it's coming across with assumptions about where on the scale other people are. The nuance would come with words like deep, well read, philosophical, quick witted, conversationalist, dead pan humor, strategic. When I look at my own life I have lots of overlaps with my hubby and lots of places where I wish there was overlap. Our intelligence words would be technology concepts, sports concepts, political and WSHTF philosophy. Things like well read or artsy wouldn't fit but full of trivia and ability to find things despite clutter would.
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