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Post by svca on Dec 18, 2018 17:52:31 GMT -5
svca would you mind posting the video, i don't remember it...thanks It was something I found on Youtube, something in their recommended lists. I don't even remember what it was called. I've been hanging out on YT a lot, because I like to watch Tom Daley's videos, especially the ones with his husband, Dustin Lance Black. I also watch Matt & Blue videos, 2 husbands who have a YT channel. I get a LOT of recommendations, some of them are more WTF than others lol. Sorry I can't remember what the name of the vid was.
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Post by sizzling63 on Dec 18, 2018 17:52:41 GMT -5
I have resisted comment on the whole hair/beard situation until now and would only post it on here, but for Heaven’s sake, I cannot contain myself any longer. Please, the hair...look at his beautiful, face flattering situation in Morongo, and other photos, many flattering photos. And the shorter, less dense facial hair. Somehow, the way it is now, to me, makes his perfect facial features look disproportionate in the sense that his chin seems elongated, and that terrifically chiseled look is utterly hidden. I won’t complain again about green hair, Raggedy Ann red, or any color again if there is a change, oh no, I won’t...if it gets too long, I don’t believe it will exactly fit with Queen. If he must go long, please no longer than Freddie in the earlier days. And let me say that I was a young teenager in the late ‘70s, so it isn’t the shock factor that the look might be. Not a bit of my business, not at all. He is a lovely man with unlimited talent, but dang... And as to the age difference with Javi, a very young Tom Ford fell immediately in love In an elevator😍😏🎼🎼🎼 with his now husband with whom he has been together over thirty years they are married and have a child. Ford’s partner is thirteen years older than him. Of course, as so many have said, we don’t know the nature of Adam and Javi’s relationship, but Tom Ford and his husband are just an example of a successful relationship with an age gap, unless they have split up in recent times. Anyway, just some thoughts for what they’re worth, which is probably very little 🤷♀️ I like your post. You gave an opinion on Adam's hair, which is just that, and I feel the same. In terms of Adam's relationships... you gave us an important perspective and we mostly straight females on this board might need to re-think our rather "normative" values.
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Post by bamafan on Dec 18, 2018 17:53:29 GMT -5
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Post by nightowl on Dec 18, 2018 18:02:40 GMT -5
I have resisted comment on the whole hair/beard situation until now and would only post it on here, but for Heaven’s sake, I cannot contain myself any longer. Please, the hair...look at his beautiful, face flattering situation in Morongo, and other photos, many flattering photos. And the shorter, less dense facial hair. Somehow, the way it is now, to me, makes his perfect facial features look disproportionate in the sense that his chin seems elongated, and that terrifically chiseled look is utterly hidden. I won’t complain again about green hair, Raggedy Ann red, or any color again if there is a change, oh no, I won’t...if it gets too long, I don’t believe it will exactly fit with Queen. If he must go long, please no longer than Freddie in the earlier days. And let me say that I was a young teenager in the late ‘70s, so it isn’t the shock factor that the look might be. Not a bit of my business, not at all. He is a lovely man with unlimited talent, but dang... And as to the age difference with Javi, a very young Tom Ford fell immediately in love In an elevator😍😏🎼🎼🎼 with his now husband with whom he has been together over thirty years they are married and have a child. Ford’s partner is thirteen years older than him. Of course, as so many have said, we don’t know the nature of Adam and Javi’s relationship, but Tom Ford and his husband are just an example of a successful relationship with an age gap, unless they have split up in recent times. Anyway, just some thoughts for what they’re worth, which is probably very little 🤷♀️ I like your post. You gave an opinion on Adam's hair, which is just that, and I feel the same. In terms of Adam's relationships... you gave a very healthy perspective and we mostly straight females on this board might need to think outside of our rather "normative" values. To add: I just mentioned the age difference, because I think, this could be worrisome for a young man‘s mum (among other things, like him living alone in LA). It would be for me, completely independent from a straight or gay relationship. I would want to know the guy. That doesn’t mean, I wouldn’t be ok with a relationship in the end. My cousin (male) has been married to his wife (who‘s ten years older) happily for years. It’s all great, if people love each other.
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Post by svca on Dec 18, 2018 18:10:23 GMT -5
Haha, I can relate to the age difference issue...my hubby is 12 year younger than I am and it was a HUGE issue with my Mom. I met him when he had just turned 22, and we got married 2-1/2 years later. I was a single Mom with 2 kids. She said some very unkind things, but she totally loves him now. We've been married 22 years.
I'm not sure why age differences are still such a huge issue, but it always seems to throw people. As I mentioned before, I watch Tom Daley's YT channel; Dustin Lance Black, his husband, is 20 year older than he is. It's really hard to tell when you see the two of them together. I think it works for some people. It just depends on the dynamic of the relationship.
Although, after all that, we're not even really sure there IS a relationship in Adam and Javi's case...unless I missed something.
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Post by cheriemelissa on Dec 18, 2018 18:11:09 GMT -5
If the kids of age what's the problem. I was 17 when I met my 29 year old future husband. Ya, mom was a little worried and he was a musician as well. So, I guess she got over it because we got married a year later and stayed together for 25 years until his death. You have to take a chance sometimes. Life is too short to be scared to try. Anyway, who knows what kind of relationship they have. It's their business.
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Post by girldrummer on Dec 18, 2018 18:19:00 GMT -5
I like your post. You gave an opinion on Adam's hair, which is just that, and I feel the same. In terms of Adam's relationships... you gave a very healthy perspective and we mostly straight females on this board might need to think outside of our rather "normative" values. To add: I just mentioned the age difference, because I think, this could be worrisome for a young man‘s mum (among other things, like him living alone in LA). It would be for me, completely independent from a straight or gay relationship. I would want to know the guy. That doesn’t mean, I wouldn’t be ok with a relationship in the end. My cousin (male) has been married to his wife (who‘s ten years older) happily for years. It’s all great, if people love each other. If I were to pick my ONE favorite hairstyle for Adam, so far, it would be the style where it's long enough on top to be a little tousled but not droopy. And the sides are short but no skin showing through. I like hair on guys that I feel like I could run my hands through a bit. And I agree that Adam face is so classically beautiful that it would be a shame to cover it all up with hair. That being said, Adam seems determined to grow it long, at least for a while. So be it. It'll be fun till he cuts it again. And I am laughing out loud as I am typing this because we do go totally bat shit crazy over stuff like this. LOL Most guys have one hairstyle for decades and that's it. But oh no. Not Adam. He is determined to make up lose our minds over one thing or another, regardless of how silly. Ok, I'm done laughing.
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Post by irish1139 on Dec 18, 2018 18:20:11 GMT -5
I think I missed pictures of Javi. Where can I find one.
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Post by nightowl on Dec 18, 2018 18:33:57 GMT -5
Haha, I can relate to the age difference issue...my hubby is 12 year younger than I am and it was a HUGE issue with my Mom. I met him when he had just turned 22, and we got married 2-1/2 years later. I was a single Mom with 2 kids. She said some very unkind things, but she totally loves him now. We've been married 22 years. I'm not sure why age differences are still such a huge issue, but it always seems to throw people. As I mentioned before, I watch Tom Daley's YT channel; Dustin Lance Black, his husband, is 20 year older than he is. It's really hard to tell when you see the two of them together. I think it works for some people. It just depends on the dynamic of the relationship. Although, after all that, we're not even really sure there IS a relationship in Adam and Javi's case...unless I missed something. Congrats to your long lasting, happy marriage! I like to look at Tom Daley‘s YT channel and Instagram as well. And I remember, I was very surprised, when I learnt about his partner‘s age. Not because of the gap - but because Lance simply doesn’t look his age. I couldn’t believe it. Are we sure about Adam and Javi? No. Not really. But there are strong hints: a few telling pictures and videos, comments, ect. As longs as Adam keeps silent, we will not get more, I guess. We also know by now, that Javi left for Mallorca yesterday, when he posted the insta story, that was mentioned at the end of yesterday’s thread. Link: adamtopia.com/thread/4928/12-17-adam-news-info?page=3And that he liked a few comments, that suggested a relationship with Adam (in a supportive way). Again: Only time will tell.
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Post by bamafan on Dec 18, 2018 18:34:52 GMT -5
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