Post by ctam2611 on Jan 6, 2019 11:15:08 GMT -5
About Javi (this is not meant directly to you Gabi). We really don’t know the nature of their relationsship until Adam says something (or does not). Remember last year, how sure we all were that he is finally comfirming his relationsship to Sauli with that NYE photo. And look what happened.
I noticed that he deleted fans comments about Javi being his boyfriend, leaving only one not so flattering comment. They were replies to Javi’s comment under Adam’s NY post.
I’m curious too, but there’s no point in saying that they are a couple, because we just don’t know. I just want him happy.
But what I do know is:
- I saw the first video, posted by Adam’s friend Eric (Stretchyman) and the picture from the theater in November. To me, these were pretty telling.
- From the tiny bits on instagram, they do spend a lot of their free time together (restaurants, theater, concert, Runyon, Getty Villa..)
-Javi calls Adam „Baby“ and from his likes on instagram, I think, he considers themselves a couple.
- He is Adam’s new dog-and housesitter, when Adam isn’t in town.
All this together makes me believe, that they are a couple.
I saw the (deleted) comments as well. I think, all of Adam’s behavior on Instagram concerning Javi is to keep that relationship under cover. The deleted comments called them boyfriends.
Here is the quote of the only comment/answer by a fan on Javi’s comment to Adam’s first NYE pic, that Adam didn’t delete:
„ boyfriend? 😂 this kid? he looks like ...hmm... the boy, who needs money, popularity, rich daddy. So, if it means „boyfriend“...ok. LOL. 😂“.
These are the kind of comments, that Adam and Javi are facing. From Adam’s own fans. I‘ve been following Javi for some time now. I don’t think, he needs any of that, so the comment is lacking any truth, IMO. So why did Adam didn’t delete it?
I came to the conclusion, that it might even be clever. Because that means the person with the mean and questioning comment is happy now, because she thinks, she is right and so will shut up. The others will keep silent, because Adam deleted their comments. And they/we are still in doubt about their relationship. AND occasional viewers of the gossip media won’t find any hints of anything. (Yes, I noticed, that a writer for an Internet gossip site takes some posts from Adam’s instagram and writes news out of it. We fans are not the only ones, reading there.)
There is still barely any friend of Adam’s following Javi on instagram. By now, I don’t think, that’s a coincidence. Some of them are usually pretty fast following new friends. All of this together makes me believe, that Adam tries to keep that relationship out of social media. Considering, that the relationship would still be very young, that’s a good idea. We know, that the media would be very interested in a new relationship. And although I don’t think, it should be a topic, Javi’s age would for sure be discussed as well. Even fans do it. I think, Adam will keep the relationship private until he’s very sure, that it will (hopefully) be for longer and worth the gossip.
Of what other kind could their relationship be?
Just friends? Then there would be no reason to hide it.
Toyboy? Javi doesn’t come across as that at all.
As for Sauli: yes, the picture last year was surprising. I thought, they might be back together. But a few days later, I saw, that Sauli stayed in Adam’s extra room. Before the NYE pic, I was in doubts, and shortly after that again. Then and now, I will be happy, when Adam is happy with someone.( Or without one.)
You both make great points but I think we are in agreement we don’t know for a fact they are a couple, but there a clues that certainly point to it. Its their business and I hope they can keep their relationship, whatever it is, quiet as long as they want to.
It is just fun to discuss the possibility here with those that want to, but I would never comment on any of their instagram posts about it. That is just rude and unnecessary. I don’t think there is harm in sharing theories about what we think in a light and non intrusive way. We all make sure we make the point we DO NOT KNOW and it’s our OPINION NOT FACT so I feel like that helps stop others from coming here and using our posts to start something. Otherwise I would not get in on the discussion.
At the end of the day it is none of our business anyway. The most important things are Adams music and career. My interest in his private life goes so far as to hope he is happy.