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Post by Coconutgrove0 on Nov 18, 2011 15:17:02 GMT -5
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Post by gelly14 on Nov 18, 2011 15:20:06 GMT -5
demisDINOS Demis Maryannakis Working with Mr. Adam Lambert last night! pic.twitter.com/jizxHhQS  |
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Post by seoulmate on Nov 18, 2011 15:26:00 GMT -5
gelly, I can see you fine from that link, too! Love the visual of Finland with that little row of flags that line up north-south across the entire country! ;D Yesterday I saw that we had a new member register from Germany... Betty, I think. Come out and play with us, Betty, and JustKaren can put you on her awesome map!!  |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 18, 2011 15:27:00 GMT -5
Disclaimer - I am not Aspen but her husband. Being the whipped guy that I am I am bowing to her request that I explain what I said to her last night as she ignored me and panted after the pictures of her true crush, Mr. Lambert. She talked about the statement Adam made about being grounded now that he is with his partner. Any of you who lead a hectic life or travel a lot know what it is like to feel like a displaced person sometimes. You get used to hotel rooms and restaurants and when you are home you are not immediately part of the ebb and flow of daily activities. It is similar to losing your job and having too much time on your hands. Where your days were filled with duties and commitments before and you wished they weren't, now you have lots of time and are not sure what to do with it. With me, and I'm sure it is the same with Adam, it is an anchor when you have someone who is a constant and creates a place where you belong. When you don't have that you feel like you should do something, go out with your friends or accomplish something but you don't want to. You want someone to talk to and complain to and plan with. From what my wife has said that is what Adam has found with Sauli. I can tell you from personal experience that it is the greatest gift one person can give another. There I did my Dr. Phil. Now I get the special dinner I was promised if I bared my soul. I appreciate all of you keeping T company when I'm not here. Thanks for this!!!! In about 6 months my husband will 'essentially' be assigned away from for about 10 months. We are hoping he will be close enough to return home during the weekends a couple times a month. We've only done this once for a 3 month duration long before my 7 year old came into existence. This tidbit of info just gave me some very useful insight. I've mostly been thinking about how to manage my daughter in my husband's absence, but I haven't yet processed how he might feel about all this. Many thanks. One word, SKYPE. This is the beginning of the third year that my husband and I have been LTA -- Living Together Apart. We skype dinner as often as possible. We do manage a weekend together once a month (sometimes his work will bring him closer)-- but, don't fool yourself, it gets VERY lonely. Fortunately, our time apart is coming to a close. He does understand my Adam obsession -- sad but true, he'll always ask, "How's OUR boy doing?" Cracks me up. I will always look back on these 3 years as a test that we passed -- rocky, for sure, but we're both only human. |
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Post by seoulmate on Nov 18, 2011 15:27:45 GMT -5
 I wish somebody could erase the the extra noise from that tape so it would be easier for my poor ears to catch up what he's talking about. I've had a lot of practise with Sauli and Katri while transcripting their talk but if I had to do that tape there would be a lot of (can't hear) (something) (ummmhhh?) (what?)(too much noise)(I give up!). Must be the language barrier, LOL. LOL!!! Don't worry, bb... It's not just you = I can't hear nothin', either. :-/ |
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Post by seoulmate on Nov 18, 2011 15:29:59 GMT -5
demisDINOS Demis Maryannakis Working with Mr. Adam Lambert last night! pic.twitter.com/jizxHhQS ??? Who is this person??? Are we supposed to know him from past album #2 info?? |
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Post by FanOfTheMan on Nov 18, 2011 15:32:13 GMT -5
Disclaimer - I am not Aspen but her husband. Being the whipped guy that I am I am bowing to her request that I explain what I said to her last night as she ignored me and panted after the pictures of her true crush, Mr. Lambert. She talked about the statement Adam made about being grounded now that he is with his partner. Any of you who lead a hectic life or travel a lot know what it is like to feel like a displaced person sometimes. You get used to hotel rooms and restaurants and when you are home you are not immediately part of the ebb and flow of daily activities. It is similar to losing your job and having too much time on your hands. Where your days were filled with duties and commitments before and you wished they weren't, now you have lots of time and are not sure what to do with it. With me, and I'm sure it is the same with Adam, it is an anchor when you have someone who is a constant and creates a place where you belong. When you don't have that you feel like you should do something, go out with your friends or accomplish something but you don't want to. You want someone to talk to and complain to and plan with. From what my wife has said that is what Adam has found with Sauli. I can tell you from personal experience that it is the greatest gift one person can give another. There I did my Dr. Phil. Now I get the special dinner I was promised if I bared my soul. I appreciate all of you keeping T company when I'm not here. Thank you, Aspen's husband! You deserve a great dinner for that! Yes-dinner and *ahem* Thanks so much for your input, Aspen's husband. 8-) |
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Post by 8toinfinity on Nov 18, 2011 15:34:22 GMT -5
"AND SUDDENLY THERE IS SOMEONE I CAN WORK OFF AND WE CAN DO WHAT WE DO!!!!"
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Post by koshka on Nov 18, 2011 15:35:15 GMT -5
One word, SKYPE. This is the beginning of the third year that my husband and I have been LTA -- Living Together Apart. We skype dinner as often as possible. We do manage a weekend together once a month (sometimes his work will bring him closer)-- but, don't fool yourself, it gets VERY lonely. Fortunately, our time apart is coming to a close. He does understand my Adam obsession -- sad but true, he'll always ask, "How's OUR boy doing?" Cracks me up. I will always look back on these 3 years as a test that we passed -- rocky, for sure, but we're both only human. More good info... I should be taking notes. After 15 years of marriage this should be interesting. Now 3 years apart? I'm not sure how people do it... but you what you gotta do, right? |
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Post by ileanne on Nov 18, 2011 15:41:06 GMT -5
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