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Post by lurleene on Jul 28, 2022 17:39:46 GMT -5
I am thrilled to say all my whining got me some great attention from justKaren and with her assistance and. a little tenacity and inventiveness on my part, I am now going to go to the Wheatland show at the Hard Rock Sacramento!! Never been their either...I will only be on the go for just over 24 hours but it promises to be a ggrrreat 24 hours!! Yeah! Congrats!!!
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Post by pi on Jul 28, 2022 18:04:13 GMT -5
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Post by iichy on Jul 28, 2022 22:19:14 GMT -5
Aw, Adam must be proud of Oliver being in Elle. I didn't read the article. Does it state how one gets to be on Elle/Denmark. Was it through his job, Adam, or some other connection? Inquiring minds.
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Post by Jablea on Jul 28, 2022 23:46:35 GMT -5
Aw, Adam must be proud of Oliver being in Elle. I didn't read the article. Does it state how one gets to be on Elle/Denmark. Was it through his job, Adam, or some other connection? Inquiring minds. I'm seeing Instagram influencer as a possibility.
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Post by happy on Jul 29, 2022 0:04:48 GMT -5
I am thrilled to say all my whining got me some great attention from justKaren and with her assistance and. a little tenacity and inventiveness on my part, I am now going to go to the Wheatland show at the Hard Rock Sacramento!! Never been their either...I will only be on the go for just over 24 hours but it promises to be a ggrrreat 24 hours!! Yeah! Congratulations! I hope everything works out and you have a great time!
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Post by mszue on Jul 29, 2022 0:45:13 GMT -5
I am thrilled to say all my whining got me some great attention from justKaren and with her assistance and. a little tenacity and inventiveness on my part, I am now going to go to the Wheatland show at the Hard Rock Sacramento!! Never been their either...I will only be on the go for just over 24 hours but it promises to be a ggrrreat 24 hours!! Yeah! Congratulations! I hope everything works out and you have a great time! Thanks Happy...me too!
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Post by kryptoman68 on Jul 29, 2022 2:51:10 GMT -5
Translated from Danish - caption under the photo. The feeling of being different from the majority. Meet five who have that in common, and who share what they've learned about jumping out, about coming to terms with their own sexuality - and about what they wish we could create change in our society so there was room for everyone. Courtesy of Google Translate, with some manual edits by me where it failed to figure out the details: 27 YEARS OLD, SHOP ASSISTANT AT GANNI OLIVER GLIESE When I came out, I remember my aunt saying she had felt it since the time I entered her meeting on roller skates in my mother's tight-fitting stockings and asked if I could wear her earrings. I myself first discovered that I was different when in the 4th grade I changed from a small village school to a larger school in Kalundborg. On the first day of school I was in full Hamtaro outfit (Japanese manga series, ed.) and could see that I didn't look like the other boys. That meant I had trouble finding my space. I was assaulted in the school yard, and I was the only boy in the class who was not invited when the other boys held their birthday parties — but I didn't come to the girls' birthdays either, because I was not a girl. I spent a large part of my childhood trying to fit in. Along the way, I was with girls and got girlfriends, but as time went on I got more and more guilty. I felt that I lied to the outside world about who I really was. My family moved to Hillerod, then I started in high school, and only when I was 17 I told my closest friends and family that I was not heterosexual. When I came out, I did it first as bisexual, because I felt that it was easier. Fortunately, my family always supported me no matter what. I can only imagine how hard it must be for young homosexuals who do not have that support. When I finished high school, I was very happy and not afraid to express myself. I went femininely dressed in tight-fitting clothes, and I liked flip-flops and platform shoes. I quickly got a job in the fashion industry, where you would think that the framework was wide, but even here I knew that I looked nicer when I dressed a little more masculine. That period hit my self-confidence, so I didn't feel there was space for me to support myself. Last year I went on an exchange stay in Los Angeles. Staying there I received from a culture that is much more embracing, where there is more showing off and less conformity (literally he said "Jante's law" - see www.scandinaviastandard.com/what-is-janteloven-the-law-of-jante/) . When I got home, I decided that I would take it with me; that I would not care what others think about how I am or who I am. I lived in West Hollywood, which is a gay mecca. You can barely go into a bar that isn't LGBTQ+ friendly or where there are no other homosexuals. There is a tendency that people support each other much more, and if I were in a supermarket and had something wild or colorful on, I was stopped by random people and told how good they thought I expressed myself. At home, I risk getting negative reviews on the street. There are probably also many who look at me from the other side of the street and think my type looks smart — but they could never find the time to say it out loud. I wish people in Denmark would get better at speaking up when they do experience discrimination on the street. One day I visited a friend in Norreport, it was a Friday afternoon, and there were a lot of people in the square. At a traffic light there were two young men who caught sight of me from the other side of the street and shouted that I was a stupid fag. I asked them to talk nice, but instead they continued and shouted that they would beat me up. There stood 30 people of all ages, but not a single one of them elected to intervene. Instead, they looked down on their shoes, up in the air or starred down the screen of their phone. I do not wish that they would have interfered in the confrontation, but I don't think they know how much it would have meant if one of them had come over afterwards and asked: "Are you okay?" Today I have quite a few followers on Instagram (13,000, ed.), but I think that it is difficult to be a role model for others at a time where everything you say or write risks being misunderstood. My inbox is open, and I find that there are people who write to me and asks me for advice. I answer them of course, if I can can, but I'm still figuring out how to use this platform at my disposal. I would like to be more of an activist, and I try to share if I experience transgressive behavior, like when last summer there was the European Championship in football, and all of Copenhagen celebrated, but not a day went by when I was not shouted at or threatened. My hope is that I can show all those who believe that we live in a society where there is room for everyone, that there is still a long way to go.
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Post by pi on Jul 29, 2022 3:54:28 GMT -5
Courtesy of Google Translate, with some manual edits by me where it failed to figure out the details: 27 YEARS OLD, SHOP ASSISTANT AT GANNI OLIVER GLIESE When I came out, I remember my aunt saying she had felt it since the time I entered her meeting on roller skates in my mother's tight-fitting stockings and asked if I could wear her earrings. I myself first discovered that I was different when in the 4th grade I changed from a small village school to a larger school in Kalundborg. On the first day of school I was in full Hamtaro outfit (Japanese manga series, ed.) and could see that I didn't look like the other boys. That meant I had trouble finding my space. I was assaulted in the school yard, and I was the only boy in the class who was not invited when the other boys held their birthday parties — but I didn't come to the girls' birthdays either, because I was not a girl. I spent a large part of my childhood trying to fit in. Along the way, I was with girls and got girlfriends, but as time went on I got more and more guilty. I felt that I lied to the outside world about who I really was. My family moved to Hillerod, then I started in high school, and only when I was 17 I told my closest friends and family that I was not heterosexual. When I came out, I did it first as bisexual, because I felt that it was easier. Fortunately, my family always supported me no matter what. I can only imagine how hard it must be for young homosexuals who do not have that support. When I finished high school, I was very happy and not afraid to express myself. I went femininely dressed in tight-fitting clothes, and I liked flip-flops and platform shoes. I quickly got a job in the fashion industry, where you would think that the framework was wide, but even here I knew that I looked nicer when I dressed a little more masculine. That period hit my self-confidence, so I didn't feel there was space for me to support myself. Last year I went on an exchange stay in Los Angeles. Staying there I received from a culture that is much more embracing, where there is more showing off and less conformity (literally he said "Jante's law" - see www.scandinaviastandard.com/what-is-janteloven-the-law-of-jante/) . When I got home, I decided that I would take it with me; that I would not care what others think about how I am or who I am. I lived in West Hollywood, which is a gay mecca. You can barely go into a bar that isn't LGBTQ+ friendly or where there are no other homosexuals. There is a tendency that people support each other much more, and if I were in a supermarket and had something wild or colorful on, I was stopped by random people and told how good they thought I expressed myself. At home, I risk getting negative reviews on the street. There are probably also many who look at me from the other side of the street and think my type looks smart — but they could never find the time to say it out loud. I wish people in Denmark would get better at speaking up when they do experience discrimination on the street. One day I visited a friend in Norreport, it was a Friday afternoon, and there were a lot of people in the square. At a traffic light there were two young men who caught sight of me from the other side of the street and shouted that I was a stupid fag. I asked them to talk nice, but instead they continued and shouted that they would beat me up. There stood 30 people of all ages, but not a single one of them elected to intervene. Instead, they looked down on their shoes, up in the air or starred down the screen of their phone. I do not wish that they would have interfered in the confrontation, but I don't think they know how much it would have meant if one of them had come over afterwards and asked: "Are you okay?" Today I have quite a few followers on Instagram (13,000, ed.), but I think that it is difficult to be a role model for others at a time where everything you say or write risks being misunderstood. My inbox is open, and I find that there are people who write to me and asks me for advice. I answer them of course, if I can can, but I'm still figuring out how to use this platform at my disposal. I would like to be more of an activist, and I try to share if I experience transgressive behavior, like when last summer there was the European Championship in football, and all of Copenhagen celebrated, but not a day went by when I was not shouted at or threatened. My hope is that I can show all those who believe that we live in a society where there is room for everyone, that there is still a long way to go. kryptoman86, Thanks for the translation!
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Post by sizzling63 on Jul 29, 2022 12:08:31 GMT -5
I wish this forum had a "like" button as I too appreciate the translation posted by kryptoman68 . It looks like Oliver's time in West Hollywood was an affirming life experience for him I haven't posted much lately and I didn't follow the QAL tour too closely, but Nessun Dorma, beautiful "It's a Kind of Magic", plus the magnificent "Rhapsody over London" livestream woke me up and boosted my fan heart. I have watched the livestream more than once so far and the announcement of Adam's solo dates came just at the right time for me. I will be at several shows - Oakland and Wheatland and Vegas of course!!! I am feeling very lucky to live in California to be able to take advantage of a couple more shows after i had already gotten the Vegas tickets. Can't wait for more solo Adam!!!
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