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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2012 12:36:56 GMT -5
Sauli isn't suffering with Adam being gone 1 or 2 weeks here or there. Think about military wives/husbands/gf/bf whose partner is gone for 6 months to a year at a time. Sauli isn't, IMO, making some grand sacrifice by living in LA where he has friends and probably a pretty posh life. OMG, I actually agree with you for once. ;D ;D ;D But I also think if Adam goes on tour, there may very well be a job for Sauli , if he chooses to ocourse, somewhere along the lines of what Neil did, maybe a shared responsibility. well let's hope this is just the beginning of the miracles this week which will also include a #1 album for Adam and a top 10 song on the Hot 100 for NCOE LOL  |
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Post by melliemom on May 17, 2012 12:38:08 GMT -5
Sauli isn't suffering with Adam being gone 1 or 2 weeks here or there. Think about military wives/husbands/gf/bf whose partner is gone for 6 months to a year at a time. Sauli isn't, IMO, making some grand sacrifice by living in LA where he has friends and probably a pretty posh life. OMG, I actually agree with you for once. ;D ;D ;D But I also think if Adam goes on tour, there may very well be a job for Sauli , if he chooses to ocourse, somewhere along the lines of what Neil did, maybe a shared responsibility. I really care about Sauli too&I think they both have figured it out.. Like Sauli said "love is forever." From what Adam has said about him,he is very independent and has his own work and his own life. I did see somewhere that Sauli is going to Finland this summer,so all is well. |
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Post by cookeejar on May 17, 2012 12:39:41 GMT -5
Two copies? (she says looking around sheepishly... ) Did he mean 2 copies or 2 copies daily. :D  |
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Post by cassie on May 17, 2012 12:44:00 GMT -5
Two copies? (she says looking around sheepishly... ) Did he mean 2 copies or 2 copies daily. :D ;D ;D I've been thoroughly Adamized. I read "Did HE mean..." and thought, "Doesn't sound right. Isn't it proper to refer to drag queens with the feminine pronoun? How do I know that?? Oh, yeah, Adam taught me." And Pollo de Mar is a DRAG QUEEN to the 10th power. I mean, who has a drag name that means "Chicken of the Sea?" |
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2012 12:44:48 GMT -5
I did mention others who have to live without their spouses/partners for a time. Fortunately, they don't have millions of men and women screaming their names and offering themselves up for whatever Adam might want to do with them. That is something I don't think I could endure if it was my husband out there being bombarded with other men and/or women. I probably have something wrong with me however because I shouldn't feel like that. Right? Well first, the women screaming at Adam have no impact whatsoever. Adam is gay and while I'm sure it's amusing to him it hardly presents any kind of temptation for him. Second, I'm sure Sauli and Adam are secure enough in their relationship that it's not even an issue. If that's not the case it has nothing to do with Adam being away for a week or two or even months. If someone is prone to cheat, which I don't think Adam is, they would do it regardless of distance or time spent apart. Adam has already said he's not been tempted while away from Sauli. And he's also said he's completely happy and in love. |
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Post by nonchallance on May 17, 2012 12:44:50 GMT -5
Guys, that kind of relationship is different for each person. For me it was hard thing, we didn't survive it, for others maybe it's easier. But we don't know what it is like for Sauli and Adam so maybe we shouldn't talking about it and judge what Sauli's feelings are and what his life without Adam in LA looks like - I'm sorry but IMHO it's not nice.
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Post by leenaseyez on May 17, 2012 12:47:11 GMT -5
Seriously. I love the boy to death but I cannot relate to this poor Sauli talk at all. When my daughter was ~18 months old my husband got a job out of state and we were pretty much separated for 6 months with only occasional visits. We survived that and I never once thought poor me. Sorry, if OT, but this kind of hit a nerve. I'll shut up now.  ITA, people survive! My DH is gone for a week or two every month. My BIL is a General in the Air Force, his family has existed and continued to love him for over 25 years of separations for months at a time. Sauli has friends in LA and is living in a very nice house. He could always go home for a visit for a while, if he is lonely in LA. People do survive. I did live 5 year in different cities with my hubby. Sauli, like all of us need to live with our choices. And he is, showing nothing but being satisfied and happy. At least I am here reflecting my own feelings to his position. Still I think the separation was not always so nice and easy. |
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Post by gelly14 on May 17, 2012 12:47:18 GMT -5
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Post by gelly14 on May 17, 2012 12:48:27 GMT -5
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Post by belle on May 17, 2012 12:52:15 GMT -5
I think about Sauli all the time. He must love Adam very much to stay with someone who leaves for 1-2 weeks at a time. I know other people have to live like that, but it must be so hard. I just hope Sauli loves Adam enough to stay and see him through the beginning years of his career. It probably gets easier in a few years (once Adam is at the very top of his ladder), and they can really live a life together. The thing is it is going to get harder the more Adam tours. I think about Sauli all the time........and give him a lot of credit for his choices. Sauli isn't suffering with Adam being gone 1 or 2 weeks here or there. Think about military wives/husbands/gf/bf whose partner is gone for 6 months to a year at a time. Sauli isn't, IMO, making some grand sacrifice by living in LA where he has friends and probably a pretty posh life. Maybe if you have not experienced what it is like to live in a foreign country all alone you can't feel any empathy. We all project our own experiences and I know that the amount of feelings we involve in our thinking is different. But he did make a huge leap leaving everything behind to be with his love, that cannot be denied. It must have been hard for quite a long time. No "posh life" can change that feeling. For sure things are different now than a year ago, Sauli is more established now and has found some friends. I agree that the few weeks they have been apart at a time should not be a big deal. However, they have great challenges ahead when Adam is away from home for much longer periods. I just hope that they make the right decisions for them and that they have the choice to be together enough. Long distance relationships are not easy at all - for both of them. I am more in the camp irish but not worrying too much at the moment. Just waiting for the summer to see how they are going to arrange things - and hoping for the best. |
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