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Post by revlisacat on Apr 17, 2013 1:46:28 GMT -5
I know! You have to have a disco ball on an Adam site!
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 17, 2013 1:26:00 GMT -5
This one is weird and I love it. Hah. Oh, I almost forgot the disco ball!
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 13, 2013 22:15:03 GMT -5
Say what??? I have a cat on my head??? (Thanks chapf!)
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 13, 2013 22:11:41 GMT -5
That video is adorable -- I can't believe people didn't have more questions. Perhaps they were all stunned by his beauty! And yes, it is a spray tan, honey!
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 12, 2013 12:28:22 GMT -5
HI ANGELKRASH!!!! How are you, my almost campmate from last summer? So good to see you here!
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 11, 2013 20:37:15 GMT -5
Chunkey -- As a counselor, I just needed to say that I'm glad you're taking your meds! LOL!
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 8, 2013 20:34:10 GMT -5
Ha -- Rama, you and I think alike! I saw the picture and went "there's Sauli, and ... hey, those are the Chippendales"
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 8, 2013 20:32:24 GMT -5
RE: Sauli's photo with the Chippendales-- For those who watch the show The Amazing Race, the guys on both sides of Sauli in the front row were contestants last season (and did really well). They are James and Jaymes, and they're a hoot.
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 5, 2013 19:48:43 GMT -5
Hoppers wrote: "[sighs] Its HARD to yield and compromise. Really really hard. I think if my husband was as stubborn as I am, we wouldn't survive. He's no weakling, mind you, but his somewhat Type B helps smooth out my uber-Type A when I'm being a bonehead ass. That said, there's been some really huge rocks in our marriage that we only survived out of sheer determination not to have to tell our families that we divorced. Particularly during a time when he was so damn frustrated that my career was going well and his wasn't. I get it."
I've always seen both Sauli and Adam as type A personalities who are hard-working, driven and ambitious--with sunny personalities! I do think that the end of the relationship coinciding with Sauli's new show taking off shows that right now their lives are just going in different directions. Who knows what will happen in the future? I'm sure they still love one another, but two stubborn independent creative people like they are who live in the public eye and are gay on top of it...it's not too surprising they had issues in spite of the love they obviously share. We'll never really know, of course. I just hope people aren't too hard on them--no one knows what really happened except them and they have to live however is best for them--not us.
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Post by revlisacat on Apr 5, 2013 19:26:24 GMT -5
[pulls an overstuffed beanbag chair out of the carpetbag]
[curls up while mulling tequila glass]
Ya know? I think the reason this breakup hurts (at least me) more than the others is that Adam and Sauli seemed very matched in so many long-term ways.
Cheeks? C'mon. First they were very young, and I seem to recall that Cheeks was a hard-core partier who perhaps wasn't..erm..totally into the concept of long term monogamous relationships. Fun guy. Helped bring out Adam's inner peacock. Helped him learn to be fearless. But definitely not long-term partner material at that time.
Drake? No. Drake seemed to be a lot more introverted than Adam and was intensely uncomfortable with the paparazzi and lack of privacy that came along with Adam after American Idol. I actually felt sorry for the guy a lot. He just seemed miserable with the glare.
Sauli? Seemed great. Coming from Big Brother, he was used to paps and could laugh off their intrusion. He was comfortable with cameras, but didn't appear jealous that they didn't often focus on him. He has warm and sunny personality, and (lets face it) was beautiful. He has a wonderful loving family that accepted him the way Adam's family accepted Adam, and so there wasn't any issues with familial discomfort. Kind. What wasn't to like?
[snorts] While I was engaged to my husband, there was some panicky moment I was having with someone about "was I doing the right thing" etc. etc. etc. She looked at me while I rattled through a list of worrysome traits, and finally eyerolled and said "Seriously, do you think you would actually find a better fit for you if you threw him back and tried again?"
[takes sip of tequila]
Nobody's perfect. Not Adam. Not Sauli. But sometimes what you got is pretty great. [looking with no real information from the outside] It just seems to be sad that a relationship with such good solid potential has dissolved. Because a person with good compatibility is just not going to come easily to Adam
So yeah, the whole breakup seems sad.
I wasn't going to comment on all this today -- I had an interview and found myself having some difficulty focusing because of a big knot in my stomach. Sad. I agree with Hoppers on this--and who knows, they may need time apart to realize they are better together. Whatever happens, this relationship has been transformative in a good way for both of them. Both really good people. Aaaaaannnndddd now, pour me a big lemon vodka, Hoppers! I'll drink with you!
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