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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2017 17:14:09 GMT -5
I have some sad news for everyone today. Some of you have even met my husband. My beautiful, sweet, funny husband Jerry passed away on the 19th of December. Jerry was not only my husband but my best friend. I never thought he would go before me. I was the sickly one. In December of last year, they discovered cancer in his right lung. He hadn't smoked in 36 years but I guess cancer doesn't care about that. Jerry did not want to die in the hospital so with the help of Kindred Hospice we brought him home. When he came through the door, his face was so peaceful so I knew we had done the right thing. I laid my head on his chest and we just held each other. I have a broken heart but I have so many memories of the fun we had through the years. We spent our retirement going to rock concerts all over the country and to the casinos in Biloxi. He took me to so many Adam Lambert concerts and loved Adam as much as I did. We were lucky enough to go to one of Mayumi's get togethers also and met her adorable husband. We had a good time and enjoyed ourselves so much with all the glamberts. All you Florida glamberts keep me in your thoughts. I don't want to give up Adam concerts and I am going to need someone to go with me. Please keep me in mind if you are looking for company. Everyone enjoy your holidays and laugh long and hard if you can. Kathy Daghita Kathy - my sincerest condolences. May the wonderful memories hold you close and give you comfort as you travel through the loss of your sweet Jerry.
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Post by AnnAdoresAdam on Dec 22, 2017 17:20:52 GMT -5
I have some sad news for everyone today. Some of you have even met my husband. My beautiful, sweet, funny husband Jerry passed away on the 19th of December. Jerry was not only my husband but my best friend. I never thought he would go before me. I was the sickly one. In December of last year, they discovered cancer in his right lung. He hadn't smoked in 36 years but I guess cancer doesn't care about that. Jerry did not want to die in the hospital so with the help of Kindred Hospice we brought him home. When he came through the door, his face was so peaceful so I knew we had done the right thing. I laid my head on his chest and we just held each other. I have a broken heart but I have so many memories of the fun we had through the years. We spent our retirement going to rock concerts all over the country and to the casinos in Biloxi. He took me to so many Adam Lambert concerts and loved Adam as much as I did. We were lucky enough to go to one of Mayumi's get togethers also and met her adorable husband. We had a good time and enjoyed ourselves so much with all the glamberts. All you Florida glamberts keep me in your thoughts. I don't want to give up Adam concerts and I am going to need someone to go with me. Please keep me in mind if you are looking for company. Everyone enjoy your holidays and laugh long and hard if you can. Kathy Daghita I'm so sorry for your loss, Kathy. My man died in my arms of cancer at just 55 and almost 30 years together so I do understand how you feel. Platitudes like "it gets easier with time" are platitudes because there's truth behind them. Trust me, it won't always hurt this much and you'll be able to look back with pleasure rather than pain one day. Sending you a big hug.
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Post by girldrummer on Dec 22, 2017 17:30:11 GMT -5
I have some sad news for everyone today. Some of you have even met my husband. My beautiful, sweet, funny husband Jerry passed away on the 19th of December. Jerry was not only my husband but my best friend. I never thought he would go before me. I was the sickly one. In December of last year, they discovered cancer in his right lung. He hadn't smoked in 36 years but I guess cancer doesn't care about that. Jerry did not want to die in the hospital so with the help of Kindred Hospice we brought him home. When he came through the door, his face was so peaceful so I knew we had done the right thing. I laid my head on his chest and we just held each other. I have a broken heart but I have so many memories of the fun we had through the years. We spent our retirement going to rock concerts all over the country and to the casinos in Biloxi. He took me to so many Adam Lambert concerts and loved Adam as much as I did. We were lucky enough to go to one of Mayumi's get togethers also and met her adorable husband. We had a good time and enjoyed ourselves so much with all the glamberts. All you Florida glamberts keep me in your thoughts. I don't want to give up Adam concerts and I am going to need someone to go with me. Please keep me in mind if you are looking for company. Everyone enjoy your holidays and laugh long and hard if you can. Kathy Daghita I'm so sorry for your loss, Kathy. My man died in my arms of cancer at just 55 and almost 30 years together so I do understand how you feel. Platitudes like "it gets easier with time" are platitudes because there's truth behind them. Trust me, it won't always hurt this much and you'll be able to look back with pleasure rather than pain one day. Sending you a big hug. Kathy, I too am so sorry about the death of your husband. There is never a perfect thing to say other than I'm sorry. I do think that, for me, it often helps to know how many people all our lives touch. I'm sure this is true of your husband. And it's also true of Adamtopis, where you have an extended family that knows you and cares about you whether we have met you in person or not. We have common feelings and passions. We're here to support you when you need it.
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Post by bamafan on Dec 22, 2017 17:30:14 GMT -5
I have some sad news for everyone today. Some of you have even met my husband. My beautiful, sweet, funny husband Jerry passed away on the 19th of December. Jerry was not only my husband but my best friend. I never thought he would go before me. I was the sickly one. In December of last year, they discovered cancer in his right lung. He hadn't smoked in 36 years but I guess cancer doesn't care about that. Jerry did not want to die in the hospital so with the help of Kindred Hospice we brought him home. When he came through the door, his face was so peaceful so I knew we had done the right thing. I laid my head on his chest and we just held each other. I have a broken heart but I have so many memories of the fun we had through the years. We spent our retirement going to rock concerts all over the country and to the casinos in Biloxi. He took me to so many Adam Lambert concerts and loved Adam as much as I did. We were lucky enough to go to one of Mayumi's get togethers also and met her adorable husband. We had a good time and enjoyed ourselves so much with all the glamberts. All you Florida glamberts keep me in your thoughts. I don't want to give up Adam concerts and I am going to need someone to go with me. Please keep me in mind if you are looking for company. Everyone enjoy your holidays and laugh long and hard if you can. Kathy Daghita Irish....I'm so, so sorry... I, like a few of the others, remember meeting you and Jerry at Mayumi's. I can remember his humor when we played our silly Adam games. I admired the way he indulged your Adam love and was willing to go to Adam events with you. You have many years of precious memories. I know you're gonna miss him immensely.
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Post by krazykay on Dec 22, 2017 17:31:34 GMT -5
Dear Irish1139 so sorry for your loss...my husband of 54 years passed away April 2016 from lung cancer ..he was diagnosed 14 months earlier....our son was found dead in his home in Alaska one week earlier..he came home from work on a Friday feeling sick and was found dead on Monday...I am a Florida Glambert...I live in Palatka Florida ,,,I will keep you in mind for future concerts....My husband was always a little jealous of my Adam Lambert fangirling,,,but every year in his last years there was sure to be something "Adam" under the tree...I do treasure the memories of our life together... Happy Holidays..
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Post by sandysva on Dec 22, 2017 17:37:53 GMT -5
I have some sad news for everyone today. Some of you have even met my husband. My beautiful, sweet, funny husband Jerry passed away on the 19th of December. Jerry was not only my husband but my best friend. I never thought he would go before me. I was the sickly one. In December of last year, they discovered cancer in his right lung. He hadn't smoked in 36 years but I guess cancer doesn't care about that. Jerry did not want to die in the hospital so with the help of Kindred Hospice we brought him home. When he came through the door, his face was so peaceful so I knew we had done the right thing. I laid my head on his chest and we just held each other. I have a broken heart but I have so many memories of the fun we had through the years. We spent our retirement going to rock concerts all over the country and to the casinos in Biloxi. He took me to so many Adam Lambert concerts and loved Adam as much as I did. We were lucky enough to go to one of Mayumi's get togethers also and met her adorable husband. We had a good time and enjoyed ourselves so much with all the glamberts. All you Florida glamberts keep me in your thoughts. I don't want to give up Adam concerts and I am going to need someone to go with me. Please keep me in mind if you are looking for company. Everyone enjoy your holidays and laugh long and hard if you can. Kathy Daghita Irish, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and Jerry were so cute together at the QAL concert in Houston - I'm so glad you were able to take that trip together to see Adam again. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Much love and hugs Sandy
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Post by irish1139 on Dec 22, 2017 17:39:00 GMT -5
Krazykay, I look forward to meeting you. I am in Ocala which isn't that far away. Thank you everyone for your thoughts. I know I will live through this whether I want to or not.
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Post by krazykay on Dec 22, 2017 17:41:30 GMT -5
Yes Irish1139...we will have to meet up and have lunch sometime...Ocala is only 45 minutes away through the Forest...I am a native Floridian
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Post by cheriemelissa on Dec 22, 2017 18:03:08 GMT -5
So sorry Irish1139. My husband passed many years ago at a very young age, 54, but the memories are still there. You will get through and this forum will help!!!!! Wish I lived in Florida cause I'd be the third wheel!!!
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Post by barnowl on Dec 22, 2017 18:13:36 GMT -5
Irish1139......So sorry to hear your sad news.....memories shared will be yours to treasure.
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