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Post by wal on Feb 14, 2013 14:14:09 GMT -5
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Post by restless on Feb 14, 2013 14:14:59 GMT -5
It is almost cathartic, what is being said here. Thank you to all the lovely voices who are making me feel not as crazy as I thought I might be!
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Post by wal on Feb 14, 2013 14:17:10 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2013 14:20:48 GMT -5
All the angsting for nothing.  Guess the dramatics are over for now?   I'm glad Adam's tweet put an end to the questions about his relationship. However, folks had real concerns that needed discussing. Thank you.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2013 14:23:58 GMT -5
. You were worried about him being hurt I was worried about him having hurt someone Maybe I should have said I was worried about him FEELING hurt. Beeing hurt, to me doesn't always assign blame. We get glimpses of their relationship, enough to see the glowing love, but I definitely don't think we will know the complexities of their relationship to ever know why they break up, if they do. You can't base anything on the claims of tweets. And even if they were true, we'd have no idea the timing or the rest of the story. I will never feel I know enough to say anything other than the love is obvious. But there is so much more in play than that. To be clear, I was worried about both boys. I love Sauli too and all that worry made me realize that if he wasn't in Adam's life I would still follow him and so miss seeing him in the event/pap photos. I think people are hesitant to mention Sauli much here because of that paranoid weirdness about posting too many photos of him, or some such. I think he couldn't be more loved by Adam fans, and he owes that all to himself and the great guy he is. |
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Post by nonchallance on Feb 14, 2013 14:29:57 GMT -5
To clear myself a little - I'm not against being concerned about Adam, this is a natural feeling and I feel this way to, I want him to be happy. But I'm strongly against speculation and rumours witout any foundation - this kind of thing can hurt Adam IMHO, especially if fandom is speculating about his love life or his family. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned or something.
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Post by belle on Feb 14, 2013 14:31:01 GMT -5
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Post by melliemom on Feb 14, 2013 14:38:12 GMT -5
Loved your posts, kay and aleks.  Been there.. lol |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2013 14:55:49 GMT -5
You know, everyone here is a little crazy. EVERYONE. Try to tell me you are not, ye who have a gazillion more photos of Adam saved than you do your own family, or ye who have clicked to enlarge in order to study seams and pours and roots and fabrics. Ye who have lost sleep to watch blurry streams instead of waiting for the clearer youtubes hours later. Who here doesn't know far more than resonable about Adam's personal life, perhaps following his family, chronicaling his childhood photos, reading his boyfriend's blog hoping to see another photo with a glimps of Adam's china or dining chair, and hoping above all to catch them in a kiss? Maybe we each have our own way of being crazy but if you are reading these pages everyday you probably have A LOT invested in this man. What I don't understand is how centering a good part of your life around him is considered OK but concern about him, and what is truly important to him, is not. Yesterday people expressing simple, respectful concern for his heart rather than his wardrobe were told not to. Today people who expressed concern are being told not to go down with the ship. Really? Because I was worried about him being hurt I am too invested? But it's not too invested to be looking up his possible flight times? Admission: I care about Adam Lambert as more than an artist. His music takes me places, but I've become equally enthralled with him as a person. I don't care much about his fashion, but I do care about his heart. Doesn't mean I am crying in my pillow for him, doesn't mean I can be lumped with Neil's tweeter and doesn't mean I am angsting and scaring away members or giving PH fodder. Just means i'd like to be able to say I am worried about him without being presumed over the top or to be given advice on taking a step back from you (not so invested?) people. Thank you! |
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Post by melliemom on Feb 14, 2013 15:07:05 GMT -5
To clear myself a little - I'm not against being concerned about Adam, this is a natural feeling and I feel this way to, I want him to be happy. But I'm strongly against speculation and rumours witout any foundation - this kind of thing can hurt Adam IMHO, especially if fandom is speculating about his love life or his family. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned or something. "I'm a very emotional Creature",but I agree with you nonchallance . I kept my anxiety to myself as much as possible,not easy to do.. I just didn't want the world to be discussing a potential break, when I knew absolutely nothing. Sometimes we can cause the very thing we are afraid of. Nevertheless I understand the deep emotions we have for Adam and for Sauli, We simply love them. I have to say when one of my daughters discussed the possibility of leaving her husband ,I felt much less pain. We all face anxiety and loss differently.. and so what is is.. just sayin Today has been so emotional for me.. The dancing this AM for One Billion Rising,the videos and posts about the horror woman around the world go through.I not only felt for the female sex but also felt for men who can't allow their feminine side out and for gay men like Adam who do let their feminine side show and are mocked for it.We need to Evolve and I believe women hold the key to that evolution. The Poem "I am an Emotional Creature" by Eve Ensler at the end of her talk on the above video.. is so worth hearing.. Happy V day everyone. |
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