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Post by satisfied on Apr 5, 2013 17:08:46 GMT -5
Hoppers - thanks for the relief! Are we supposed to re-use our glass or can we smash each one as we go?
Not great news but at the end of the day, I'm just glad they got to experience one another.
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 5, 2013 17:09:26 GMT -5
Oh, how sad news. But I was even sadder at the beginning of February and I was hoping that they can solve their relationship problems what ever they were. Their relationship taught me so much about appreciation, joy, courage, positive attitude, human rights, love, happiness, living in the moment, acceptance and many other things. Their cute faces in same picture made me so happy. I get to know you when Sauli met Adam. You guys are so caring, wise and pleasant people. {{HUGS YOU}}
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Post by nonchallance on Apr 5, 2013 17:14:23 GMT -5
Hoppers - thanks for the relief! Are we supposed to re-use our glass or can we smash each one as we go? Not great news but at the end of the day, I'm just glad they got to experience one another. True. It was, after all, two years of beautiful love.
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 5, 2013 17:19:11 GMT -5
[wanders dejectedly onto thread, with a now muted-gray carpetbag] [lays carpetbag on floor] [quietly unzips carpetbag, turns, and keeps turning/unzipping until opening of carpetbag is about six feet square with the top of a staircase extending downwards inside] [walks down stairs; comes up hauling several tables; returns for a crate of vodka and tequila] [sets up tables and drink fixings] [salts a row of cheap glasses] I don't know about the rest of you, but for me its time for some straight tequila. [takes a shot, tosses glass over shoulder into the corner where it breaks into shards] Might do this for a while. Sauli's not my boyfriend, but I hurt whenever any good relationship just spins out, and this seemed like a good one. Anyone who wants to join, may do so. [licks salt off hand, goes to sip some more out of another glass] Hoppers - thanks for the relief! Are we supposed to re-use our glass or can we smash each one as we go? Not great news but at the end of the day, I'm just glad they got to experience one another.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2013 17:28:44 GMT -5
Hoppers - thanks for the relief! Are we supposed to re-use our glass or can we smash each one as we go? Not great news but at the end of the day, I'm just glad they got to experience one another. Yes! And for Adam, who was once afraid he might end up alone, now he knows he can experience a deep, loving relationship! Having a wonderful relationship like this one, paves the way for recognizing when the right one comes along
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Post by smokeyvera on Apr 5, 2013 17:31:12 GMT -5
Awwww... sad for the boys, but it sounds like they will be ok. So...... for Adam and Sauli .... something I wrote in my 20's (please excuse the juvenile lyrics) about a break up .... Third DegreeSometimes, when it burns too fast We know to let it go Know it would never last Sometimes, when it burns too hot We see it for what it is Not what it's not Sometimes, when it burns too bright We won't put out the fire But won't put up a fight Sometimes, it burns third degree And though it meant so much It wasn't meant to be Wow, that is pretty darn good. I assume this helped you mend. But I do have to say, these would make great lyrics for someone. Have you listened to some of the dreck in pop? No all, but most. Anymore in your repetoire?
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Post by Craazyforadam on Apr 5, 2013 17:34:23 GMT -5
Geezlouise, you call them juvenile these lyrics of yours, but I think they are showing a lot of insight, insight that you clearly had even at the time.
We don't know how exactly the words would fit for what we are getting confirmation of today, but I think, based on many comments that Adam made over time including last year, that Adam knew that eventually he would have to let got of this relationship and that it was more a question of when and how and not a question of 'if'.
But yet, it is crazy to wrap your head around it: So, here he is doing a photo shoot today, where he's got to show a positive, cheery face, maybe smile (depending what they do) and in reality he knows that the news about their split are hitting the media and blogs, while he is in that shoot. And he knows he needs to hold it together, be professional and not let that distract him.
Who knows what is going through his mind: How are my fans reacting, how is the media treating it, are the trolls running cray, how is Sauli taking the 'going public with split info' - day, gotta concentrate on the photo shoot, support a cause.....
And that photo shoot is of all companies with AT&T who have clearly done a 180 with Adam. By the way, the rest of the country has turned around too. In this case AT&T is reacting, but Adam is obviously the beneficiary of this and good for it.
4 years ago, when the country was still much more in the closet and news about Basketball and NFL football players and their kids or own homosexuality was not quite the newsmaker as it is today, well four years ago, Adam pulled the short end of the stick and AT&T was holding the sticks, if not 'influencing' the decision who gets which stick.
Now he is being sponsored in the context of a program that supports exactly what Adam has worked towards and stood for during these four years and sees a country and in a symbolic way AT&T come around to him.
The times have changed and he has been a major change agent while in his public relationship and while flying solo.
I hope he saw or at least heard about all the #becauseofAdamLambert tweets this morning and hopefully that sweetened his day a bit.
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Post by QueeenAl on Apr 5, 2013 17:34:31 GMT -5
My day today started off at 6am with the #becauseofadamlambert trend on twitter and I enjoyed it tremendously .... I followed the trend all my work day, and then got a rude awakening whith the split up news ...
I cried inside, I am not happy, lots of the posts above echo what I feel ...
But a little bit of the happyness of the twitterlove before is still inside of me. And I see that Atopia so far loves Sauli still ... so my (fandom)world is not all black and without light ...
Ahem, ... get to the point girl!
I love Adam, I love Sauli, and I hope a little bit of our love and support reaches them.
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Post by smokeyvera on Apr 5, 2013 17:34:44 GMT -5
[sadly]
Well I sure didn't see any breakup coming. And it makes me very, very sad as I though Adam and Sauli were a wonderful pairing.
Two decent, joyous people who loved life and each other.
I was pulling for them both.
#unhappy Maybe being apart for awhile will remind them of how much they want to be together. I can't help indulging in a little wishful thinking! But they were away from each other for months, but still chose separate ways.
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Post by melliemom on Apr 5, 2013 17:37:02 GMT -5
Hoppers - thanks for the relief! Are we supposed to re-use our glass or can we smash each one as we go? Not great news but at the end of the day, I'm just glad they got to experience one another. Yes! And for Adam, who was once afraid he might end up alone, now he knows he can experience a deep, loving relationship! Having a wonderful relationship like this one, paves the way for recognizing when the right one comes along MyS*&@^#r i love what you just said and find it sooo true.. Now Adam knows he is lovable and that he is capable of hanging in there in a happy and healthy relationship.. I'm reading the book Adam mentioned a very short time ago, called The Velvet Rage . It's all about gay men and relationships ..Interesting.
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