murly
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Post by murly on Apr 5, 2013 16:49:29 GMT -5
[sadly]
Well I sure didn't see any breakup coming. And it makes me very, very sad as I though Adam and Sauli were a wonderful pairing.
Two decent, joyous people who loved life and each other.
I was pulling for them both.
#unhappy Maybe being apart for awhile will remind them of how much they want to be together. I can't help indulging in a little wishful thinking!
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 5, 2013 16:50:48 GMT -5
[wanders dejectedly onto thread, with a now muted-gray carpetbag]
[lays carpetbag on floor]
[quietly unzips carpetbag, turns, and keeps turning/unzipping until opening of carpetbag is about six feet square with the top of a staircase extending downwards inside]
[walks down stairs; comes up hauling several tables; returns for a crate of vodka and tequila]
[sets up tables and drink fixings]
[salts a row of cheap glasses]
I don't know about the rest of you, but for me its time for some straight tequila.
[takes a shot, tosses glass over shoulder into the corner where it breaks into shards]
Might do this for a while. Sauli's not my boyfriend, but I hurt whenever any good relationship just spins out, and this seemed like a good one. Anyone who wants to join, may do so.
[licks salt off hand, goes to sip some more out of another glass]
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2013 16:52:38 GMT -5
I don't agree that their separate and busy schedules are the only reason for the split. Spending time together in the early stages of a relationship is important but once established should not matter so much. My husband travels a lot and I actually love it when he's not home. I get the best of both worlds; time to do my own thing and I can always look forward to romantic times together. The only time I did resent the time he spent away was when I had young kids and it felt like I was a single parent a lot of the time. Elton John and David Furnish must spend a lot of time apart but they make it work. They have Nannies to look after their kids so they don't have the same trying to juggle careers while child rearing with no sleep pressures. ITA -- my husband and I have lived in two different place for work a number of times for a year or more at a time. We are still together and raised a great kid. But that's you, not them. I have seen separations take it's toll, so it is a real thing that can happen.
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Post by snowbunny on Apr 5, 2013 16:55:39 GMT -5
Oh, how sad news. But I was even sadder at the beginning of February and I was hoping that they can solve their relationship problems what ever they were. Their relationship taught me so much about appreciation, joy, courage, positive attitude, human rights, love, happiness, living in the moment, acceptance and many other things. Their cute faces in same picture made me so happy.
I get to know you when Sauli met Adam. You guys are so caring, wise and pleasant people.
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Post by geezlouise on Apr 5, 2013 16:58:55 GMT -5
Awwww... sad for the boys, but it sounds like they will be ok.
So...... for Adam and Sauli .... something I wrote in my 20's (please excuse the juvenile lyrics) about a break up ....
Third Degree
Sometimes, when it burns too fast We know to let it go Know it would never last
Sometimes, when it burns too hot We see it for what it is Not what it's not
Sometimes, when it burns too bright We won't put out the fire But won't put up a fight
Sometimes, it burns third degree And though it meant so much It wasn't meant to be
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Post by trueffel96 on Apr 5, 2013 17:02:49 GMT -5
I barely post here but I have to express how sad I am over the breakup :/ I can't say I was really surprised. Yeah it was a huge shock but I kinda saw it coming for the last half year.... They didn't I do things together anymore and there have been rumors for months. I ignored them but now I see they were right....I hope that they are both happy with the decision and that they'll stay in touch. I was feeling anxious the whole day now I know why >_<
I'm here for Adam but I love Sauli too so I won't stop supporting him. Will Sauli Central still exist???
Now I'm just wishing they both find real happiness again soon (or maybe realize that they belong together and try again) Its sad too see a perfect relationship like theirs end. The whole time I've beena glambert Adam& Sauli were ttogether 0_o so its strange and new for me to think of Adam as single :"( Well I just want him to be happy ♥
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Post by evergreen on Apr 5, 2013 17:03:38 GMT -5
Awwww... sad for the boys, but it sounds like they will be ok. So...... for Adam and Sauli .... something I wrote in my 20's (please excuse the juvenile lyrics) about a break up .... Third DegreeSometimes, when it burns too fast We know to let it go Know it would never last Sometimes, when it burns too hot We see it for what it is Not what it's not Sometimes, when it burns too bright We won't put out the fire But won't put up a fight Sometimes, it burns third degree And though we meant well It wasn't meant to be I don't know, geezlouise, I think you could have a hit on your hands... Seriously, those lyrics are better than 90% of what's out there today!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2013 17:03:51 GMT -5
geezlouise, I love that!
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Post by fiercelier on Apr 5, 2013 17:04:00 GMT -5
Sad to hear about Adam and Sauli's split, they really did seem to be the perfect match, in attitude and spirit as far as we could tell. I am only invested in Adam, but it was so great to see him so happy, glowing almost at times, and for that I like Sauli very much. They obviously had a great love affair that has now changed to a warm friendship. A shock to his fans, mostly, but they both appear to be great people, and they will both be fine.
I think they have enriched each other's lives and have each grown a lot during their relationship. I wish both nothing but the best and hope the gap of a significant other will not hurt too much.
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Post by Q3 on Apr 5, 2013 17:04:26 GMT -5
ITA -- my husband and I have lived in two different place for work a number of times for a year or more at a time. We are still together and raised a great kid. But that's you, not them. I have seen separations take it's toll, so it is a real thing that can happen. Oh, no I did not mean to say it was not hard or stressful -- just that many people make separations and dueling careers work. I do not believe there are any universal rules in relationships.
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