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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2013 18:39:30 GMT -5
[pulls an overstuffed beanbag chair out of the carpetbag]
[takes sip of tequila]
Nobody's perfect. Not Adam. Not Sauli. But sometimes what you got is pretty great. [looking with no real information from the outside] It just seems to be sad that a relationship with such good solid potential has dissolved. Because a person with good compatibility is just not going to come easily to Adam
So yeah, the whole breakup seems sad.
I was thinking about this too........ |
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Post by 4EverAdam on Apr 5, 2013 18:41:48 GMT -5
Thanks HSM -  |
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Post by lucynovember on Apr 5, 2013 18:41:55 GMT -5
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Post by theosgma on Apr 5, 2013 18:44:40 GMT -5
Try to go the chat room but I keep getting and inactive plug in message. I just downloaded the latest Java plug in and restarted my computer. Anyone have any ideas on what else I can do?
Posting my comment on today's news on the rather inactive (my fault) astrology thread.
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Post by QueeenAl on Apr 5, 2013 18:46:09 GMT -5
[smiles] [climbs down carpetbag stairs] [comes back up with an urn of hot chocolate and a crate of rum] [plugs in urn; tosses a few bottles of rum on table]  *hicks* |
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Post by Q3 on Apr 5, 2013 18:47:42 GMT -5
I am Adam fan, don't even follow Sauli. However I know Adam will come out of this without any hickups, on the contrary, he will be again interresting in a new way. Even I don't know who left who, Sauli will take all heat both in practical and in publicity means. He is my countryman and I feel bad for him. I did not like Adam annoucing this alone, it should had been a common thing. I don't like how he has been behaving for quite a long time. I have said it before, and say again, "it's not what but how". There will be ugly things ahead, even though fans try to make it look nice and easy. And finally, of course, again, one bit more difficult to believe people conquering obstackles and can make things work. I am with you. I feel bad for the way Adam handled things. He (and yes I am talking about him, as I have no doubt who was the leader in their relationship) should have announced the split sooner OR he shouldn't have behaved like a single guy (and that behavior started already in the autumn and went on in New York in January and on the recent tour) while supposedly in a relationship. That was disrespectful to Sauli, even if he had got Sauli's approval, as fandom couldn't know of any possible approval. Adam's behavior caused anxiety in the fandom, and the anxiety grew when the boys were not seen much together before the longish tour and then again after the tour. Adam must have seen that anxiety on Twitter but didn't do anything to it (e.g. didn't restrict his partying until the time of announcement), only blocked those (or the one with many Twitter accounts) who expressed their (her/his) stress most blatantly. Adam put his own needs and his business before the well-being of his fandom (and perhaps even before Sauli). And today he says he loves all. JMHO Adam is a single man. Sauli is a single man. Whatever arrangement they had was between the two of them. And it was up to Adam to let fans know about his private life. That said, we have some photos of Adam in a club with a couple of young men -- so what. How that becomes Adam cheating on Sauli is beyond me. Sauli also has been photograph out with other guys not Adam, and I do not say that is meaningful either. Fans do not own Adam, Adam never once said this was his lifetime love, he said on many occasions in many interview that he was not even thinking about getting married. |
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Post by Sagittarius on Apr 5, 2013 18:47:59 GMT -5
Try to go the chat room but I keep getting and inactive plug in message. I just downloaded the latest Java plug in and restarted my computer. Anyone have any ideas on what else I can do? Posting my comment on today's news on the rather inactive (my fault) astrology thread. I was there earlier but can't get back in... |
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Post by smokeyvera on Apr 5, 2013 18:48:13 GMT -5
I am Adam fan, don't even follow Sauli. However I know Adam will come out of this without any hickups, on the contrary, he will be again interresting in a new way. Even I don't know who left who, Sauli will take all heat both in practical and in publicity means. He is my countryman and I feel bad for him. I did not like Adam annoucing this alone, it should had been a common thing. I don't like how he has been behaving for quite a long time. I have said it before, and say again, "it's not what but how". There will be ugly things ahead, even though fans try to make it look nice and easy. And finally, of course, again, one bit more difficult to believe people conquering obstackles and can make things work. I am with you. I feel bad for the way Adam handled things. He (and yes I am talking about him, as I have no doubt who was the leader in their relationship) should have announced the split sooner OR he shouldn't have behaved like a single guy (and that behavior started already in the autumn and went on in New York in January and on the recent tour) while supposedly in a relationship. That was disrespectful to Sauli, even if he had got Sauli's approval, as fandom couldn't know of any possible approval. Adam's behavior caused anxiety in the fandom, and the anxiety grew when the boys were not seen much together before the longish tour and then again after the tour. Adam must have seen that anxiety on Twitter but didn't do anything to it (e.g. didn't restrict his partying until the time of announcement), only blocked those (or the one with many Twitter accounts) who expressed their (her/his) stress most blatantly. Adam put his own needs and his business before the well-being of his fandom (and perhaps even before Sauli). And today he says he loves all. Nocturne, Adam owes us nothing except a good concert, when we pay to see him, and a good album to buy, or a show to see on tv. He does not owe us anything by revealing his personal life. We invested fans seem to be overinvested and sometimes entitled, and have such a great need to know all. He owes fandom nothing regrding personal information!!!!!! |
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Post by Q3 on Apr 5, 2013 18:48:30 GMT -5
Thanks HSM - I need one two!! No I mean I need two, too. |
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Post by Holst on Apr 5, 2013 18:50:15 GMT -5
I am Adam fan, don't even follow Sauli. However I know Adam will come out of this without any hickups, on the contrary, he will be again interresting in a new way. Even I don't know who left who, Sauli will take all heat both in practical and in publicity means. He is my countryman and I feel bad for him. I did not like Adam annoucing this alone, it should had been a common thing. I don't like how he has been behaving for quite a long time. I have said it before, and say again, "it's not what but how". There will be ugly things ahead, even though fans try to make it look nice and easy. And finally, of course, again, one bit more difficult to believe people conquering obstackles and can make things work. I am with you. I feel bad for the way Adam handled things. He (and yes I am talking about him, as I have no doubt who was the leader in their relationship) should have announced the split sooner OR he shouldn't have behaved like a single guy (and that behavior started already in the autumn and went on in New York in January and on the recent tour) while supposedly in a relationship. That was disrespectful to Sauli, even if he had got Sauli's approval, as fandom couldn't know of any possible approval. Adam's behavior caused anxiety in the fandom, and the anxiety grew when the boys were not seen much together before the longish tour and then again after the tour. Adam must have seen that anxiety on Twitter but didn't do anything to it (e.g. didn't restrict his partying until the time of announcement), only blocked those (or the one with many Twitter accounts) who expressed their (her/his) stress most blatantly. Adam put his own needs and his business before the well-being of his fandom (and perhaps even before Sauli). And today he says he loves all. I don't know you, Nocturne, since you've only been at Atop one week. But I say bravo for Adam putting his needs before those of his fans. We don't need to know--and don't know--all about his private life. I'm having trouble understanding the sentiment of both these quoted posts. |
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