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Post by teddybear on Apr 9, 2013 12:35:51 GMT -5
It feels good not giving a shit
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Post by FanOfTheMan on Apr 9, 2013 12:36:13 GMT -5
Aww....irish...I recommend not getting too invested in general in any of the peeps that surround Adam. For myself, I divested a bit from Adam after the AMA's!! To be so personally invested in a superstar's daily life turned out to be a bit too draining for me. As for his bandmates, friends and lovers, well they are HIS bandmates, friends and lovers, not mine. I have no control over who he chooses to hang out with or who he chooses to replace in his band.The less invested I am in these relationships, the more I am free to just love Adam for where he is and what he is currently up to. I hope everyone is having a beautiful day. I keep smiling at the knowledge that he is playing a major Gay Pride gig. I love this and all it represents!! Ah....wise words. For me, it will be detach and step back a bit. I can still love the man from more of a distance. And like you said, those who surround him and work with him are his "entourage", not mine. I don't really pay much attention to the individual band members anyway. This will work for me. I have learned my lesson (the hard way) heh |
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Post by melliemom on Apr 9, 2013 12:40:39 GMT -5
IMHO I think maybe Adam is frustrated a bit by the celebrity fame/game...I truly believe he wants the fame as a great singer/entertainer .. all the rest is just BS.. If only all the blogs,gossip sheets,etc. would get people to be more invested in buying his music than in the gossip.. Adam's dreams would surely come true. I know one feeds the other... but it has to be tiresome. .... Once again for good measure... I think Adam is as real/ honest as one can get in a business that is all about make believe.To me he's the REAL DEAL,part of the reason I'm so inspired and addicted to him. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 9, 2013 12:53:11 GMT -5
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Post by melliemom on Apr 9, 2013 12:54:53 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Apr 9, 2013 12:56:39 GMT -5
Concluding that Adam is theatre and on stage was not meant to criticize him. I am beginning to understand that he has to do that. I will never really know the real Adam. I am not a close personal friend and anything personal to do with him is none of my business. This is something I have to keep telling myself. This is the first time I have been a fan. Like the rest of you, he is so appealing you want him for a real friend. Not possible. I feel overwhelmed and obsessed sometimes being a fan. I do not want to be like this. I want to just enjoy the talent and that is all. I wanted just to hug you, but there is no hugging smiley! *HUGS* |
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Post by lynne on Apr 9, 2013 13:01:29 GMT -5
I have come to the conclusion that Adam's life is theatre and he is always on stage. I have come to the conclusion that it is the drama in life that excites me and keeps me coming back to this very talented man. I have learned a great lesson from the past two years, and I will never, never let any of Adam's future lovers into my thoughts and feelings. This has been more devastating than I can handle at this time in my life. I am too old for this sh*t. Isn't it the other way round - talking about Adam's side of the equation here?. Isn't it that Adam's life as a performer has migrated down from the stage and into his real life? He has no chance to live a normal private life, he cannot clock out at 5 pm or ever for that matter. So he learned how to navigate that situation. Retain some privacy - but give at other times, play the media - withhold certain topics from the media, talk to fans - leave some questions unanswered. But it also has become this game of chess. Adam makes a move, like giving SFGN the break-up info, then he waits for the reaction. Observes the media reaction, observes the fan reaction. Then he can make another move. And so on... All the while, his private life continues in parallel to the chess game. Sometimes the game will mirror his life, sometimes it will deviate from it in bizarre ways, while claiming to represent it. Adam's public persona is on a stage, that is true, but that is not all of who he is. And it is not Adam's choice either, at least not as long as we keep watching. Adam is keeping it as real as I have ever seen any public figure do and he is very brave in doing so. I am appreciative, thankful to be able to witness it and think about it. I feel neither right nor need to be in any way critical of the public persona he is showing us. The only topic I have to manage is my level of involvement. And that is at times a struggle. But that is my issue, not his. Love your post! |
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Post by lynne on Apr 9, 2013 13:04:43 GMT -5
It feels good not giving a shit Hahaha! The voice of reason  |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 9, 2013 13:04:57 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Apr 9, 2013 13:05:04 GMT -5
I think Naked Love might be a whole lot of fun this Sunday, just sayin!  |
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