1.3.18 Adam News and Info
Jan 3, 2018 5:07:53 GMT -5
Post by pineapple on Jan 3, 2018 5:07:53 GMT -5
Thanks Nica, for your logical observations in yesterday's post. I think Sauli likes to vacation in LA, and while he's here with his friends he posts a lot for PR purposes, (in Finnish) so he can keep his name fresh in Finland. I don't know what's going on with him and Adam, but it's not passionate, and I don't think it ever was. I'm not even sure benefits play a role anymore.
I sat in the seat behind Sauli and Leila at the Jay Leno show, when Adam sang BTIKM. First observation: Sauli is very tiny and pretty and sweet. He looked me in the eyes and smiled and there was kindness there, and curiosity. I think he's a good guy. Second observation: he does not speak any English. Maybe just a few words, but not even that, at that time. He doesn't seem too bright, and Leila had to guide him to stand and clap. He also had no interest in Adam's performance. I was a little shocked by that. Neil and his girlfriend/now wife were there, and they are adorable together. A very sweet couple. They were oozing love and chemistry. They were friendly with Sauli, but they didn't really speak to him, I guess because of his lack of English. Leila was tiny and beautiful and you can tell she's very smart and competent.
The most telling thing about the evening was at the end when the family went down on the stage to greet Adam. Adam did not acknowledge Sauli, who stood uncomfortably to the side. That was very strange. Granted, it was right after the Finnish fiasco, so there could have been a problem there, but there has always been something off for me about their relationship.
I've always imagined Adam would need someone smart like his family, someone he can have a lively conversation with, and more importantly, someone who loves music and creativity as much as he does. Brad seemed to be his equal in that respect, and the type of guy who would keep him interested and on his toes.
And then there are all those blind items throughout the years (from that guy who's been in the news lately because he's had blind items about Weinstein, Lauer and Spacey way before they were in the news) about Adam and someone else who shall remain nameless. If you're interested, I have them tucked away for a rainy day. This guy hangs out at Saint Felix in WeHo. The place that employed Drake for years. I've always had a feeling that Drake and Adam (and others in their circle) were supplying this guy with info. He doesn't out people, but his blind items about old Hollywood are doozies.
One thing I know for sure, Adam shows us what he thinks we deserve. We've seen glimpses of the real Adam, but not the whole beautiful thing. And that's how it should be. I am here to put the random puzzle pieces together and to remain as objective as possible. Because he changed my life, in a way, when I needed it.
I also cannot imagine how you could estimate how passionate their relationship is or isn't, or whether it is physical (even though they clearly share the same bed), so I'll just leave it at that.
I agree with you that he's a good guy, but to say he doesn't/didn't speak any English is ludicrous. Everyone in Finland speaks English, at least everyone under 70. The level of their proficiency varies, and Sauli may not have been terribly good at languages at school or really spoken English at length before Adam, I don't know. But anyone who's been taught as much English as Finns have would pick it up quickly after spending that much time with a native speaker and in an English-speaking environment. If you didn't hear him speak at the Jay Leno recording, he probably just wasn't feeling talkative. Also I'm not surprised at all if he felt, or seemed to you, to be out of his depth at the recording. I wouldn't know what to do there. He could have been uncomfortable. Back when him and Adam were dating he said he felt uncomfortable in some crowded public situations, or something like that. There could have been so many reasons for why Adam didn't seem to acknowledge Sauli at that moment. Maybe he was busy paying attention to people he wasn't seeing all the time. Saying it was somehow related to the fiasco in Finland (or kissing and wrestling while drunk as I've heard it described) is a huge leap. There are pictures of them looking very happy together between the incident and the taping.
To me Adam and Sauli seem to be very much in sync and to enjoy spending time together. I don't know why you would imply that Sauli isn't someone Adam can have conversations with, or who enjoys music and creativity, but I think we should leave it to Adam to judge what kind of a guy he wants to be with.
