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Post by ctam2611 on Nov 19, 2018 12:47:03 GMT -5
Me too all I meant to answer was that a photo was posted by a friend of Adams. I felt guilty and bad after I posted the answer so I tried to delete it because I don’t want to be mistaken for someone that wants to pry into Adams private life. I feel very strongly that that should be off limits. Now my name has gotten attached to a post that I didn’t make and I don’t know how to fix it. I truly hope he is given some respect and left alone. You started it and dropped the name, right? By the way, I feel it’s completely OK to discuss these things we did on an Adam board. And thank god I haven’t seen anybody, who commented under the guy‘s Instagram and nothing critical on Adam’s. The only thing, that I would change is , I would delete the name out of the picture (with Adam&Pharaoh). If someone is interested in a really crazy discussion about Adam and his private life, go to this Adam-Fan-Site here: adamlamberttv.blogspot.com/2018/11/adam-lambert-having-birthday-dinner-for.html?m=1It‘s mad, but also entertaining to read, what goes on in other fans‘ heads. Believe me, we’re saints on Atop! And I found nothing on Twitter. It’s just between „us“. No I did not drop the name and start anything. I did not post the picture of Adam and Pharoah. I am not trying to lay blame as it were to who posted it as I don't even remember but the name and info was on the instagram post. I just was saying that he seems to be a friend of Adam's. I don't know I just don't like feeling like there is blame to be pushed onto anyone and I just don't want to take/be given credit for someone else's post. I guess I just would rather not be part of this discussion anymore as I feel bad enough that I even chose to respond to the question. Next time I think I will just not post anything, seems easier that way. I think I fixed the post that made it look like I said something that someone else said.
Sorry maybe I am over reacting. It’s just I have left forums of other artists I follow because of the hang up with invading their privacy and I feel like I did that kinda and I hate that I feel that way. I am trying to tell myself if something is posted for public view on social media the person that posted it must not mind others seeing and discussing it but that is not making me feel any better. That’s it I am out on this topic!
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Post by nightowl on Nov 19, 2018 12:50:07 GMT -5
I see pretty strong reactions to this latest photo shoot, and no surprise of course. Some fans totally love it while others feel quite the opposite. I don't get the sex appeal either. I don't understand this photo shoot at all - to me it looks like a drugged-up hippie in need of a bath and a change of clothes. Is it telling us something? I don't get it. Adam wanted this look. I don’t think, it has a deeper meaning. He liked it and it felt right for him. He said, he wanted to let his hair grow and he described that look in his last Instagram live session. Didn’t he? Now he got the look a little faster. Hey, and maybe the fans, who don’t like it, will even be lucky, because Adam had had the look now and decides, that he won’t have the patience, or that it’s not worth the effort to let his hair grow long. I love long hair, but Adam with shorter hair is also yummy.
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Post by marionm on Nov 19, 2018 13:02:43 GMT -5
nightowl wow, that discussion went places!!! For now we've only established that Adam and that guy spent some time together. I mean this in no hateful way, and yes, age is just a number and sometimes It really can work but on the first impression we have of now a 21 year old guy for Adam just doesn't scream "content". Sorry to say that. Again I've said more than i wanted to say. Also I will repeat. It's basically the nature of a fan board to be tmi. Puzzled when people expect different. For me personally it ok (in certain boundaries) on fan pages as long as it doesn't go over to the social media of Adam and his associates. That is a NO NO
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Post by nightowl on Nov 19, 2018 13:11:48 GMT -5
You started it and dropped the name, right? By the way, I feel it’s completely OK to discuss these things we did on an Adam board. And thank god I haven’t seen anybody, who commented under the guy‘s Instagram and nothing critical on Adam’s. The only thing, that I would change is , I would delete the name out of the picture (with Adam&Pharaoh). If someone is interested in a really crazy discussion about Adam and his private life, go to this Adam-Fan-Site here: adamlamberttv.blogspot.com/2018/11/adam-lambert-having-birthday-dinner-for.html?m=1It‘s mad, but also entertaining to read, what goes on in other fans‘ heads. Believe me, we’re saints on Atop! And I found nothing on Twitter. It’s just between „us“. [img style="max-width:100%;" src=" No I did not drop the name and start it. I did not post the picture of Adam and Pharoah. I am not trying to lay blame as it were to who posted it as I don't even remember but the name and info was on the instagram post. I just was saying that he seems to be a friend of Adam's. I don't know I just don't like feeling like there is blame to be pushed onto anyone and I just don't want to take/be given credit for someone else's post. I guess I just would rather not be part of this discussion anymore as I feel bad enough that I even chose to respond to the question. Next time I think I will just not post anything, seems easier that way. I think I fixed the post that made it look like I said something that someone else said. Sorry maybe I am over reacting. It’s just I have left forums of other artists I follow because of the hang up with invading their privacy and I feel like I did that kinda nd I hate that feel that way. I am trying to tell myself if something is posted for public view on social media the person that posted it must not mind others seeing and discussing it but that is not making me feel any better. That’s it I am out on this topic! I know, you didn’t post the picture with the full name. Sorry, if you understood it like that. You know, I usually never point fingers on others. I just found your post strange (or rather hypocritical) about not wanting to invide Adam’s privacy, with the details you’ve posted yesterday on this thread. But, in my opinion, you can calm down. The few details, that are posted here, are completely harmless. A guy was with Adam & friends celebrating a birthday and on the weekend hiking with Adam and Pharaoh. No big deal, could be any other friend. OK?
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Post by ctam2611 on Nov 19, 2018 13:12:51 GMT -5
nightowl wow, that discussion went places!!! For now we've only established that Adam and that guy spent some time together. I mean this in no hateful way, and yes, age is just a number and sometimes It really can work but on the first impression we have of now a 21 year old guy for Adam just doesn't scream "content". Sorry to say that. Again I've said more than i wanted to say. Also I will repeat. It's basically the nature of a fan board to be tmi. Puzzled when people expect different. For me personally it ok (in certain boundaries) on fan pages as long as it doesn't go over to the social media of Adam and his associates. That is a NO NO Thank you for saying that. I just broke my own rant about not talking about this anymore 😂 It just felt like blame was being thrown around about invading their privacy when all that was done was a confirmation that they have been hanging out lately. I agree and would NEVER post on anyone’s social media about their private affairs, celebrities or non celebrities. I guess I freaked out a bit, thanks for the comment above it calmed me down some.
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Post by ctam2611 on Nov 19, 2018 13:18:03 GMT -5
No I did not drop the name and start it. I did not post the picture of Adam and Pharoah. I am not trying to lay blame as it were to who posted it as I don't even remember but the name and info was on the instagram post. I just was saying that he seems to be a friend of Adam's. I don't know I just don't like feeling like there is blame to be pushed onto anyone and I just don't want to take/be given credit for someone else's post. I guess I just would rather not be part of this discussion anymore as I feel bad enough that I even chose to respond to the question. Next time I think I will just not post anything, seems easier that way. I think I fixed the post that made it look like I said something that someone else said. Sorry maybe I am over reacting. It’s just I have left forums of other artists I follow because of the hang up with invading their privacy and I feel like I did that kinda nd I hate that feel that way. I am trying to tell myself if something is posted for public view on social media the person that posted it must not mind others seeing and discussing it but that is not making me feel any better. That’s it I am out on this topic! I know, you didn’t post the picture with the full name. Sorry, if you understood it like that. You know, I usually never point fingers on others. I just found your post strange (or rather hypocritical) about not wanting to invide Adam’s privacy, with the details you’ve posted yesterday on this thread. But, in my opinion, you can calm down. The few details, that are posted here, are completely harmless. A guy was with Adam & friends celebrating a birthday and on the weekend hiking with Adam and Pharaoh. No big deal, could be any other friend. OK? Sorry your right. Like I said I freaked out a bit, stupid I know. I just felt like all we had done was mention a friend getting together with Adam and it was turned into people commenting about invasion of privacy. I don’t think mentioning his friends is a problem since he is always posting stuff with them on his instagram so he clearly doesn’t mind fans knowing who his friends are.I just don’t want to be lumped in with people who go fishing for private details because I would Never do that!! I can see where it may have seemed hypocritical I guess my point was posting information about his friends that he posts about himself is not invasive in the same way as those that post on his Twitter or instagram and get pushy.Anyway I will calm down after making a big deal out of nothing, SORRY
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Post by nightowl on Nov 19, 2018 13:19:59 GMT -5
nightowl wow, that discussion went places!!! For now we've only established that Adam and that guy spent some time together. I mean this in no hateful way, and yes, age is just a number and sometimes It really can work but on the first impression we have of now a 21 year old guy for Adam just doesn't scream "content". Sorry to say that. Again I've said more than i wanted to say. Also I will repeat. It's basically the nature of a fan board to be tmi. Puzzled when people expect different. For me personally it ok (in certain boundaries) on fan pages as long as it doesn't go over to the social media of Adam and his associates. That is a NO NO Are you sure, you mean me? I never criticized anything about the age. NEVER! And I‘m usually one of the first to speculate as you might know. I guess something got lost here... But I sent you a PM.
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Post by lurleene on Nov 19, 2018 13:24:02 GMT -5
No I did not drop the name and start anything. I did not post the picture of Adam and Pharoah. I am not trying to lay blame as it were to who posted it as I don't even remember but the name and info was on the instagram post. I just was saying that he seems to be a friend of Adam's. I don't know I just don't like feeling like there is blame to be pushed onto anyone and I just don't want to take/be given credit for someone else's post. I guess I just would rather not be part of this discussion anymore as I feel bad enough that I even chose to respond to the question. Next time I think I will just not post anything, seems easier that way. I think I fixed the post that made it look like I said something that someone else said.
Sorry maybe I am over reacting. It’s just I have left forums of other artists I follow because of the hang up with invading their privacy and I feel like I did that kinda and I hate that I feel that way. I am trying to tell myself if something is posted for public view on social media the person that posted it must not mind others seeing and discussing it but that is not making me feel any better. That’s it I am out on this topic! ctam2611, for what it is worth, I don't think you went too far. You posted something then pulled back. But sometimes fans run with a speculation from a picture and create an entire narrative about it because they want Adam invested in a relationship of their choice. It does not matter that he may not be invested in it. It does not matter when he says he is single. They want him with who they want him with even if it no longer works for him. And anyone else he is seen with is trashed and the skin is picked off the bones before anything even develops. When Adam has someone special in his life, he will make it known at the time of his choosing. Would be nice if fans would let him figure out his own personal life and relationships. But unfortunately that is not going to happen.
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Post by marionm on Nov 19, 2018 13:28:37 GMT -5
nightowl wow, that discussion went places!!! For now we've only established that Adam and that guy spent some time together. I mean this in no hateful way, and yes, age is just a number and sometimes It really can work but on the first impression we have of now a 21 year old guy for Adam just doesn't scream "content". Sorry to say that. Again I've said more than i wanted to say. Also I will repeat. It's basically the nature of a fan board to be tmi. Puzzled when people expect different. For me personally it ok (in certain boundaries) on fan pages as long as it doesn't go over to the social media of Adam and his associates. That is a NO NO Are you sure, you mean me? I never criticized anything about the age. NEVER! And I‘m usually one of the first to speculate as you might know. I guess something got lost here... But I sent you a PM. Sorry, i was referring to tue conversation you linked and meant it in a general sense. In no way was i critically referring to you.
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Post by ctam2611 on Nov 19, 2018 13:28:53 GMT -5
No I did not drop the name and start anything. I did not post the picture of Adam and Pharoah. I am not trying to lay blame as it were to who posted it as I don't even remember but the name and info was on the instagram post. I just was saying that he seems to be a friend of Adam's. I don't know I just don't like feeling like there is blame to be pushed onto anyone and I just don't want to take/be given credit for someone else's post. I guess I just would rather not be part of this discussion anymore as I feel bad enough that I even chose to respond to the question. Next time I think I will just not post anything, seems easier that way. I think I fixed the post that made it look like I said something that someone else said.
Sorry maybe I am over reacting. It’s just I have left forums of other artists I follow because of the hang up with invading their privacy and I feel like I did that kinda and I hate that I feel that way. I am trying to tell myself if something is posted for public view on social media the person that posted it must not mind others seeing and discussing it but that is not making me feel any better. That’s it I am out on this topic! For what it is worth, I don't think you went too far. You posted something then pulled back. But sometimes fans run with a speculation from a picture and create an entire narrative about it because they want Adam invested in a relationship of their choice. It does not matter that he may not be invested in it. It does not matter when he says he is single. They want him with who they want him with even if it no longer works for him. And anyone else he is seen with is trashed and the skin is picked off the bones before anything even develops. When Adam has someone special in his life, he will make it known at the time of his choosing. Would be nice if fans would let him figure out his own personal life and relationships. But unfortunately that is not going to happen. Thanks for that. I tried to delet what I posted right away but I know that is silly as once it’s out there it’s done. I overreacted a bit so I apologize for that. I felt bad about what I posted and then it felt like I was being lumped into a catagory of people that I can’t stand, that is so called fans that do exactly what you are saying or go fishing on social media for private details that are none of their business. That is NOT me and I just wanted to make that clear. Anyway freak out over😂
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