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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2011 13:10:43 GMT -5
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Post by mahailia on Nov 30, 2011 13:11:48 GMT -5
Aleksandra----
I think Adam tweeted that because some of the press took his statement in the RS article to mean that he is thinking about getting married, and his tweet was to refute that.
I think he was surprised that even his friends where saying "What??? You wanting to get married now?" based on what was quoted in the RS article.
His tweet was to stop that line of press reporting. Adam can be very happy in a relationship without thinking about marriage. Many couples don't think about marriage right away, and some couples never marry. Many wait for several years before getting married.
I think that Adam has never really even thought about marriage, and now that he has found Sauli, plus with all the gay marriage issues in this country, he realizes that it is not an option for him in most states in the US. I think this is what he meant. JMHO.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2011 13:11:54 GMT -5
Regarding Adam's words: adamlambert Adam Lambert I'm Not considering marriage ...Lol. Think what I MEANT was: 'even if I WAS to consider it, it wouldn't be an option (in so many states) ' I feel almost embarrassed with all the pressure from the media and the fans about this very delicate and private matter...not that anyone's pressuring him, but all the hullabaloo feels quite tacky... On the other hand, his insistent denying is also confusing... It seems impossible that anyone in a loving and stable relationship is not at least thinking about it. I'm not a native speaker, so the difference between 'considering' and 'thinking about' is eluding me. If he was my boyfriend, at this point I would probably be a little offended by now , no matter what he tells me privately. I know it sounds a little peevish and petty, but c'mon, we all know how relationships work... Also, with the added pressure of them being gay and public figures, it seems like they won't have the luxury of privacy and intimacy...even his eventual marriage will have this weight of political statement, or ,I don't know, something that the public will scrutinize and analyze until it feels degraded in a way... I'm sorry because of that. I know that Adam is smart enough to find the way to do it right whenever he chooses to, so that's consoling... After Sauli's blog and all the things he wrote, I think they're already married ;D Why would they feel the need to legalize something so perfect in such circumstances? Although, it would be very beneficial to LGBT minorities, and we all know how important that is to Adam... And after all this said, this is what I think of Adam's words : I don't know how it is in Serbia or even other parts of the US, but I have 2 kids in their very early 30s and the older of the 2 was with his now wife for 8 years before they decided to get married. My youngest, who is just turning 30, has said "No marriage" until they are ready for kids. Among their friends, all college and post graduate people, it is the same way. There is just no hurry or no stereotype that you must be married by a certain age. I can see a difference between the phrasing "thinking about it" and/or "Considering it." To me "thinking about" means, "yes, we are in love and may get married someday." "Condsidering it" to me, means, we want to get married soon, probably sometime next year. "Considering it" is more definite, to me. Maybe semantics, but I do get it. |
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Post by annie on Nov 30, 2011 13:11:57 GMT -5
On the other hand, his insistent denying is also confusing... It seems impossible that anyone in a loving and stable relationship is not at least thinking about it. I'm not a native speaker, so the difference between 'considering' and 'thinking about' is eluding me. If he was my boyfriend, at this point I would probably be a little offended by now , no matter what he tells me privately. I know it sounds a little peevish and petty, but c'mon, we all know how relationships work... I'm obviously not speaking for Adam 8-) but for me marriage is not a concept that I'm interested in. Why would I need a state-sanctioned license to be together (and lets not even talk about the church). So no, not once have a ever thought about marriage even tho in a loving and stable relationship. Everybody should have the right to get married if that's something they need, but my guess is Adam (and Sauli) are not among those people who need that piece of paper. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2011 13:12:54 GMT -5
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Post by gelly14 on Nov 30, 2011 13:17:03 GMT -5
Have we talked about this? Is this an important site? Do we need to care? They have Adam's songs from Beg for Money along with Better Than I Know Myself and they say it's from the album Trespassing 2012.Some people commented to correct them and I know some also tweeted them but not in a good way IMO. www.metrolyrics.com/trespassing-album-adam-lambert.htmlYesterday they tweeted this MetroLyrics MetroLyrics Hey #Glamberts! We've got six tracks from @adamlambert's #Trespassing up on our site: ow.ly/7IPuG 12 hours ago Favorite Retweet Reply And just now they tweeted this MetroLyrics MetroLyrics Hey #Glamberts, can you please submit us the correct lyrics for @adamlambert's new album? Much appreciated! ow.ly/7K71u 13 minutes ago Favorite Undo Retweet Reply |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2011 13:17:22 GMT -5
(gosh, really? lovely Adam depicted as Pinnochio/liar? i don't see that - I just see someone trying to be open with fans, progressive/responsible in terms of civil rights, respectful in terms of his actual personal/private life, etc. tough row to hoe, I would think . . . )
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2011 13:19:15 GMT -5
R.. On the other hand, his insistent denying is also confusing... It seems impossible that anyone in a loving and stable relationship is not at least thinking about it. I'm not a native speaker, so the difference between 'considering' and 'thinking about' is eluding me. If he was my boyfriend, at this point I would probably be a little offended by now , no matter what he tells me privately. I know it sounds a little peevish and petty, but c'mon, we all know how relationships work... I think Adam was right to put the kibosh on any marriage talk. Any thoughts he and Sauli have on the matter are theirs alone and do not need to be discussed with strangers. Strangers in the media, strangers that are fans- whatever. I hope fans stay out of it (pipe dream I know) and also that he and Sauli be allowed to share their first holiday season together without being bothered by fans and media people. I know Finn locals are just joking about skulking in the bushes but to be honest such talk turns me off big time. I couldn't agree more! But don't forget that Adam is the one taking Sauli everywhere, red carpets and all, he is the one talking about their love publically, and Sauli too, for that matter. They congratulated each other their first anniversary on Twitter, for crying out loud. I don't think anything bad about it. They are probably so in love with each other that they don't mind shouting it from mountain tops :D But they can't take offences now when people are invested. I love them both so much that I'm a little pissed at the paps missing out on all the stuff they did together acc. to Sauli. Where are the pics?!? I know, I'm sorry. I'm that bad a person :-/ |
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Post by 4Ms on Nov 30, 2011 13:20:25 GMT -5
Adam Lambert - Christmas Tree
Uploaded by JamieGlambert on Nov 4, 2009
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Post by SusieFierce on Nov 30, 2011 13:22:35 GMT -5
I do like to see that we are getting more radio involvement pre-release. That bodes well. And mys*&@^#r, I like your scenario. [/size] [/li][/ul][/quote] [/quote] Yes, I can totally get behind this. Footnote: Avril's NYRE performance and single debut were announced on Dec. 7, so that timeline fits. LOVE this comment: the promotions team headed by "King" Joe Riccitelli, the "Don" of all things pop music promotion, Lambert's promotional push to radio - and other media - promises to be nothing short of overwhelming as his music goes for US radio airplay!
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!My prediction about FYE: It won't take until the end of next year for FYE to get certified platinum. I think they might ship additional copies when "Trespassing" is released in order to do double duty. |
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