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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 23, 2011 15:04:18 GMT -5
To digress from disasters for a minute and return to things that are none of our business like Adam's personal life, I think the reason I like Sauli and A & S is because Sauli has a soft and innocent side, but I don't think there can be any doubt that he is also a strong, self-confident man. That may be being tested since he's relatively on his own in LA, but in case of some emergency, physical or emotional, I think Sauli would be just as likely as Adam to step up to the plate and take charge. I like that. I've never had much appreciation for the shrinking violet mentality and even before it was fashionable felt that women were as strong as men and could/should carry their own weight in a relationship. Everyone likes to be protected and taken care of sometimes and I don't think it should all be up to one partner. Yes, Savvy, I like the way you think. Relationship should be a two-way street; give & take. Of course, people's opinions may vary what is the right balance, but that's for every couple to decide for themselves. Sauli and Adam seem to have equal footing going into this relationship and draw strength and joy from it. That's why I feel so relaxed when I see them together, they are on the same page. Again, what do I know and def not any of my business... :
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 23, 2011 14:29:47 GMT -5
Everyone, please stay safe!!!
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 23, 2011 14:13:09 GMT -5
Welcome Paperheart, great post! Sugaree.... another great post....
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 23, 2011 14:03:07 GMT -5
My only desire for Adam is that he have whatever it is he needs in his life to live his dreams and be happy. Pretty much the same desire I have for anybody I care about.I'm thrilled he has a boyfriend. It made me sad when his BF was Drake and there were so many fans who dissed over the poor guy. That could not have been easy for either Adam or Drake. And maybe it is hard for some fans for Adam to be so obviously gay. I don't coast other boards to find out. I just hang out here where the water's warm and the people are nice. I also strongly feel that those fans need to get over it or move on. Quickly. Dude is gay. Talks gay, walks gay, has gay sex. He's gay. He's not going to change just because some obsessed female fans profess their love for him. And I do remember after the RS article was published and I was still checking out AO regularly being really surprised at the many unreasonable reactions from the straight women who love Adam. I mean, didn't they already know? Hadn't they seen the pics? Wasn't it so damn obvious before those pics were even leaked? I guess for some, whose overall exposure to "the lifestyle" was limited before Adam showed up, they were unable to detect that Adam Lambert is indeed quite gay. For me, I figured it out pretty fast and it just made me love him even more. May Adam and Sauli find the best happiness together. Wut, if Adam were straight, you don't think he would fall for someone almost 20 years his senior with flat shoes (because of arthritis)? Thank god, he's gay I could not handle the rejection... ;D I agree with everything you said and I'm happy for Adam as he seems to have found himself someone special. They are a joy to watch together, but each can stand on their own two feet as individuals and provide comfort and support to one another when needed. This is what I read from the pictures... LOL. I hope things will work out for them in the long run as I'd like to keep seeing Adam creative and in love. There will be obstacles and only time will tell, if they can overcome them together. I'm sending positive thoughts into the universe.... I also have mad respect for both Brad and Drake, for being there for Adam, for being loyal and staying friends after the relationship had run its course. So classy. Many times we've heard Adam say how he appreciates the androgynous look; in the rock starts he idolizes, in his own aestethics and in the men he is attracted to. It can be easy to forget that the look is a manifestation of the person & personality behind the exterior. Adam sees something in this look that reveals him more of the person inside and what that person's outlook on life is, and he relates to it. Yes, Adam is very gay (endearing term), LOL. It's a part of who he is as a person, "his gayness" has partly molded him into the person he is today and I love what I see and hear. I would not want him any other way.
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 23, 2011 4:01:58 GMT -5
... I know nothing about Brad nor Drake - but I've always admired the fact that they have never betrayed Adam's trust. Fine men indeed. That said.....Sauli seems perfect for Adam....and man is he hot! BTW, was thrown out of Adamtopia earlier, so my post dissolved into cyber space...ITA. Fine men indeed.I hope someday we live in a world where it does not matter how one chooses to express oneself; flamboyant, businesslike, effeminate, freak, color or all black, goth... (as I expect that to be my right as well!) but who we are as a person and how we connect to one another. I love Cheeks; totally crazy and OTT (when he chooses to, IMO) and I can see why Adam was attracted to him. Looking at the pictures of Adam & Cheeks at the time; they had the connection, and that's what matters. Adam has said that he's looking for the intellectual compatibility, before all the physical attributes. Drake-episode was short-lived, so I can't form an opinion based on what I've seen on pictures & short vids...So I guess there are things that are not visible to us no matter how closely we scrutinize each photo? LOL I'm happy with whomever Adam chooses to be friends/have relationship with if they make him happy. And by the look of it Sauli is doing something right. I wish them well from the bottom of my heart.
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 22, 2011 16:17:12 GMT -5
I was gone for 3 days & was HAPPY nothing happened in that time so I could catch up. NOT caught up yet but the wedding pics are so freakin sexy hot hot hot I had to break in and say WTF! He has NEVER looked more gorgeous. I'm speechless with awe at his amazingness. Love, love, love. Carry on - I have to get caught up. I guess being in love will do that for you... soooooo happy for him he has found Sauli. They do look like they belong together; love them both!!!
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 22, 2011 16:07:34 GMT -5
No, not discussed at length... LOL. It's pretty common nowadays, at least the receptions I've ever gone to. When you have a old/young crowd together, the "party" begins when the older folks leave and the formal look is tossed aside... At Brooke's wedding one would expect a lot of dancing, yes?
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 22, 2011 15:56:57 GMT -5
PERFECT. alohaPF AlohaPF Yup RT @insomniac19: He should model. JFC RT @slightly_askew: unfffffff RT @mindchnger: HOT i52.tinypic.com/2gwb380.jpg I was just hoping someone would crop this....holy h*ll!!! MY GOD HE'S BREATHTAKING!!! GORGEOUS!!! Just beyond... I'm ded...
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 22, 2011 4:32:57 GMT -5
To Glamlinda, Fifitrix, Bud;P.S. Great banner pic, Q3/Reihmer!
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Post by PostFestumPF on Aug 21, 2011 18:56:31 GMT -5
@izla_sandz: #RumorsWhyAdamIsMissing He doesn't know he is missing. We always know shit before he does. Twitter is very entertaining tonight!!!
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