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Post by augenpoesie on Apr 6, 2013 19:20:31 GMT -5
I could so hear Adam singing this song in my mind. He would just kill it, both musically & emotionally! I was so fine with the break up (having grieved way back in January) until this song!  OMG - why did I listen to this song? It broke my heart... but in the most beautiful way |
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Post by nica575 on Apr 6, 2013 19:22:46 GMT -5
After reading the last several pages I want to say something that is a huge generalization but somehow it feels applicable:
Warning: I am addressing the ladies (sorry gents, I don;t see you posting anyway)
remember the men are from Mars, women are from Venus? So: We, the women from Venus, are dealing here with the two men from Mars. And most of us as expected are doing it from the Venus POV... - all assumption of course...
Do you remember being young and dating and realizing at some point that the boys are in it for "the fun" and you are in it for "the serious"??? Or, if it didn't happen to you - did you observe this in other couples? Did you ever break a relationship because you realized that you are "wasting" your time? Or, if not you - do you know anyone who did just that? Have you or have you known a couple that was much happier because BOTH were just "having fun" and had no intentions of building a family?
My point is that all these discussions re "current bf", "ran its course", etc... are somehow "wrong" for YOU because you are coming from some specific VIEW OF HOW IT SHOULD BE. While in reality - we have no idea how it is or was for Adam and Sauli, and it may very well be that they both KNEW ALL ALONG that it is all great while it was working and had NO PLANS FOR ANYTHING MORE than that.
CHANGE IS GOOD!!!! Break ups are very difficult in the short term but are RIGHT in the long term, because they have a reason and a cause and it is often BRAVE to LET IT GO.
CELEBRATE THE COURAGE! CELEBRATE THE FUTURE!
JanuarySnow and momtomany - great job!!!!
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Post by adamrocks on Apr 6, 2013 19:38:08 GMT -5
To all who have come back to join us...  I really haven't commented on Adam and Sauli ending their relationship. It's hard for me to see Adam feeling he needs to comment on this very personal and private situation at all. He owes me nothing but great music and charismatic performances!! I wish for Adam in his personal life that he has peace inside and feels the loving support of family, friends, and fans. And I want him in a good space so the creative juices can flow for album3 and all the performances that lay ahead. It's a shame that their relationship ended but they had some very good memories together that helped them both grow during some challenging times. I feel they are both better for having loved each other. Life is ever changing and renewing itself...that's my reality of it. I want for Adam to be happy, creative, and productive. And I wish the same for Sauli. I am an AFL fan and I will ride the roller coaster every step of the way with Adam.  |
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Post by nica575 on Apr 6, 2013 19:51:23 GMT -5
Mys*&@^#r, we are agreeing on the timeline, that they moved into the condo and then things turned out differently mid/late January. I did not write that last paragraph that you quoted, two posts got mixed up / merged there. I agree that the condo is location wise good for Sauli who can walk everywhere, but I do not think that condo living is really emotionally all that great for Adam. Too close to hotel anonymity, sterility and coldness and Adam has to do that stuff all the time during travel. But obviously they made that decision together and I presume the lease is for at least a year. Perhaps Adam buys something in Tokyo or Shanghai or London this year and gets started there. The condo is just his LA hotel right now, imo. Just my guess of course. The condo isn't a hotel though. It is very nice. I would guess that one reason for the move was to make it easier for Sauli to get around when Adam was gone. And as smokeyvera said, no worries about upkeep or having an empty house while he is gone. Makes sense to me! Perfect for his lifestyle! just to chime in in "defense of condo living".... :D - it all depends, you know... I don't understand the "coldness and anonymity" thing at all... I live in a condo and I would NEVER want to live in a house... I would be afraid that someone can literally "walk" into a window... an apartment can be as big and as luxurious as any house. and if you live on a high floor you also may get lucky and have an unbelievable view - like Adam does. It is your home, you usually know you neighbors, some buildings have parties in the lobby - same as your block parties and you might have amenities that you do not have to worry about maintaining - you pay the building to do that... so city mouse vs country mouse here...  |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2013 19:59:45 GMT -5
Thank you JanuarySnow for the wonderful quotes from Milne. I stole one for my signature. It's how I usually feel when I go back and read one of my posts!
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Post by ladyoz on Apr 6, 2013 20:03:23 GMT -5
I could so hear Adam singing this song in my mind. He would just kill it, both musically & emotionally!
mys*&@^#r50 the same thing happened to me .. I was okay also, until I listened to "Sons Of Midnight - It Was Worth It: http://youtu.be/MPvyXCN6eks but I am happy that Adam tweeted about this group, the music (and singer) is very good ... the song is what I need right now ... How funny though = looked them up to see what's available on Itunes in Australia and LOL they are an Aussie group even funnier ... they are based just up the road from me in Brissie - ( small world)
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Post by lilly on Apr 6, 2013 20:03:50 GMT -5
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Post by Q3 on Apr 6, 2013 20:04:13 GMT -5
This looks similar to some of the same things that were said after the Finland incident -- at that time Sauli's friends said Adam was very/too jealous and possessive of Sauli. I think that this is possibly true and the difference between very & too can be in the eye of the beholder. There is at least one error in the article -- " A
couple of weeks ago, Adam concerts in Finland, and immediately reached
wonder why the couple flew back to the U.S. on different machines."
But Adam went to Austria for some Life Ball promo work not the US. Sauli had to get back to LA to start work on his TV show.
I guess this is a tabloid and I know it's google translated but I hope this isn't the beginning of negative press against Adam because of the breakup. Certain US and European sites could very well pick up from this and run with it. Cause that's what tabloids do. I'm not so sure about Adam's jealousy and possessiveness. After all he didn't seem to worry when they were apart for long periods of time during his international and domestic travels. As for the Helsinki "incident" we don't really know the true story of what happened other than they were both drinking too much. I certainly wouldn't hang my hat completely on what Sauli's friends said. This is a tabloid that has never been Adam friendly or representative of "the press". So far, the coverage has been balanced and mostly positive about both of them. |
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Post by whatyasay on Apr 6, 2013 20:06:00 GMT -5
@earth_Pics The Blue Footed Boobie. pic.twitter.com/Rj7r0eGy0y  This made me think of Adam from last night (hope this post works, my posts earlier were odd) I have not commented on the breakup as life is full of change. Have to say, though, that today's postings have made me a bit sad. |
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