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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2013 11:30:36 GMT -5
Don't you dare leave. [smiles ironically] Quite a few of us can say things, no? As long as its done respectfully, opinions are allowed here. And we've always been grateful for your presence. {{HUGS}} Hoppers, some lovin' from me to you, too, bb:) I knew what you meant, what you wanted to say:) From me as well, Hoppers! HUGS YOU... 8-) Aleks..once again your writing touches my heart. Thank you, babe!  |
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Post by SophieB on Apr 7, 2013 11:31:57 GMT -5
BOBO - don't you go anywhere! We are all working through this....everything will look brighter soon. xx
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Post by Misha on Apr 7, 2013 11:34:33 GMT -5
Kinda off topic, but sorta not, since the main topic of discussion this weekend has been the breakup. Just wanted to share two of my favorite gay-themed web series that happen to deal with that subject. Maybe something to watch, if you're interested, during the downtime, while waiting for the next concert. The Outswww.theouts.tvThere are seven episodes of this extremely well-done series. It's so good! EastSiderseastsiderstheseries.comI have such a soft spot in my heart for one of the actors in this series. The first two episodes were uploaded to YouTube in December, but have been set to private now because they'll be premiering the first three episodes on LogoTV.com on April 23, with a new episode every following Tuesday. In the meantime, here's a trailer. I am absolutely in no way implying or remotely suggesting that the scenarios in these series reflect or resemble in even the slightest way Adam and Sauli's experience or relationship. Just a little Sunday afternoon pimpage. |
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Post by 4Ms on Apr 7, 2013 11:34:34 GMT -5
However  I still feel like bopping Adam over the head anyways. [grins] Perhaps for no other reason that I've always harbored a tremendous secret desire to mess up his hair. #I'mhavingadayanditsgonnagetworse #indulgeme I'd offer you a lolly, but you've got the bag which OMG just gave me a mental image of you whacking Adam over the head with! Adam, if you're listening, I've always loved the coloring of my Italian relatives.Dual citizenship could prevent a lot of problems and I'd like your next boyfriend to be bilingual and one of the languages to be English.
BUT, don't rush into anything.
I have a lot more suggestions and you haven't heard them all yet.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2013 11:34:47 GMT -5
Glampoon...I was hoping you would post!! Been looking for a male perspective..'chill the fuck out' works for me!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2013 11:36:49 GMT -5
glampoon is the most mature person on this board. Yes, he is! I'd like to thank the academy :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D |
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Post by bobo on Apr 7, 2013 11:38:43 GMT -5
Holst – nonchallance - mys*&@^#r I know I shouldn't have posted anything yesterday night when I got home. I was a bit drunk and I got provocated by some posts and didn't express me clearly. I just wanted to point out how little we know when we make assumptions. I feel some hostility here now and maybe I should leave. The hostility comes from "I know stuff but can't share it." If you do indeed ever have a secret, best to just not say a word or hint at it. I am very well aware where the hostility comes from and maybe I deserve it and I'm sorry. And I didn't exactly say that I have a secret I don't want to share. I wanted to say that different people know different things and that's why they might have different perspectives on some things we actually don't know anything about. ETA: I write in English so slowly that I didn't have time to notice your previous post before I sent this. |
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Post by whatyasay on Apr 7, 2013 11:38:48 GMT -5
Holst – nonchallance - mys*&@^#r I know I shouldn't have posted anything yesterday night when I got home. I was a bit drunk and I got provocated by some posts and didn't express me clearly. I just wanted to point out how little we know when we make assumptions. I feel some hostility here now and maybe I should leave. I've been lurking this morning but stepped away to get ready to go spend time with my family and returned to see your post bobo. You should NOT leave. I thought your post was heart-felt with no recriminations! You are part of this community! |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2013 11:39:30 GMT -5
The hostility comes from "I know stuff but can't share it." If you do indeed ever have a secret, best to just not say a word or hint at it. That's not what bobo said. She said that we (including herself), know nothing, but there might be Finnberts who know more. I assume this was in contex of tabloids getting "inside info" and talking about Adam's and Sauli's life out of public eye. Like dominance and jealousy. And I assume , that the reason why she thinks there might be people like is, that Adam and Sauli spent a lot of private time with many Finns, and some of them might not be so loyal after what has happened. (Like somebody is leaking Adam's FB). Plese correct bobo, if I am wrong. And send you happy thoughts. This is so hard for many for different reasons. I saw people in Twitter, that haven't eaten of slept since announcements. Logging off again.. I've always thought the dominance and jealousy piece that keeps being brought up re "the incident" was due to "Broken Finnish" on Adams part. Then again another incidence where "nothing is known". |
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Post by happy on Apr 7, 2013 11:40:33 GMT -5
Q3 was very wise with her essay about how we each see the world through our own personal lens. My last breakup was many, many years ago and I was devastated. A couple of months later I met a wonderful guy who became my husband. So yes, Adam and Sauli seemed great together, but who knows what better things may lie ahead. Adam seems to be doing what I did way back then -- I licked my wounds, picked myself up, and got out and about. I hope he finds what he seeks (whatever that is!).
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I still feel like bopping Adam over the head anyways.
