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Post by whatfun on May 3, 2011 5:31:00 GMT -5
I know that I might start a major storm here, but I have this awkward feeling about this relationship. Maybe it's because Sauli doesn't communicate in any way about his feelings for Adam except just being there. Hope that he will some time soon acknowledge that the feelings are mutual, rather then Adam's one- sided expressions of love! I'm pretty sure most of us have been in these kind of relationships some time in our lives - I can't have been the only one! Be kind everyone Adam posted this photo, not that I know that Sauli didn't give 100% approval! Just wish that there would be 2 people talking about a relationship, not just Adam. Love the photo but just because they look serious about each other doesn't mean nothing until Sauli makes the same kind of statements Adam is putting out there. Sauli does not have to be mute...All relationships are not super secret, most people love to talk about the people they love! Can't understand where Adam would talk about it, but Sauli would not... I'm not asking for intimate details, just not the passivity that Sauli seems to be condoning on his side of this relationship. He doesn't need to be a fame whore, but just being arm candy is also not what Adam said he wanted for a lasting relationship...I'm not worried for me, just Adam. Want that man to be happy! What I say, or anyone else here will say wouldn't change their lives..just hoping for the best! #entitlementisnotsexy Srsly.
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on May 3, 2011 6:41:52 GMT -5
[yawningly stumbles in, wearing moderator hat]
Ok - replying too late, but just a reminder y'all that everyone here is entitled to their opinions.
Feel free to provide counter-opinions of your own, but no pile-ons against a fellow member because of their personal opinion allowed.
Thanks!
[crawls back into bed for another 20 minutes of shut eye]
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Post by whatfun on May 3, 2011 7:34:26 GMT -5
[yawningly stumbles in, wearing moderator hat] Ok - replying too late, but just a reminder y'all that everyone here is entitled to their opinions. Feel free to provide counter-opinions of your own, but no pile-ons against a fellow member because of their personal opinion allowed. Thanks! [crawls back into bed for another 20 minutes of shut eye] Sorry I find the thought that Sauli or Adam himself owe a fan anything in order to somehow prove their relationship to that fan's satisfaction completely and totally ridic. And offensive.
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Post by cattibrie on May 3, 2011 8:31:58 GMT -5
Adam posted this photo, not that I know that Sauli didn't give 100% approval! Just wish that there would be 2 people talking about a relationship, not just Adam. Love the photo but just because they look serious about each other doesn't mean nothing until Sauli makes the same kind of statements Adam is putting out there. Sauli does not have to be mute.... So you want a public statement from Sauli to you? I bet the people who are calling Sauli a famewhore would have a field day with that. Why would he want to talk about their relationship to strangers? I bet Sauli talks about his love for his boyfriend a lot, but just not in public. He's not really a public figure, not like Adam anyway and I think it's a wise choice not to talk to the press or in other ways either to the public. He doesn't have many fans, who he could owe any statement about his love life. I think that Sauli staying in the US speaks a lot of his feelings. He's far away from home. And also we don't know how he declares his love to Adam. I bet Adam's tweets are telling us that Sauli has been open about his feelings.
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on May 3, 2011 8:57:37 GMT -5
[wanders in with coffee; grins]
I see you cattibrie!!
WELCOME!!
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Post by gelly14 on May 3, 2011 9:07:17 GMT -5
cattibrie
First of all I agree in everything you say except this. No one owes nothing. Adam CHOOSES to share a moment with us and we are grateful that he does.
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Post by cattibrie on May 3, 2011 9:28:38 GMT -5
cattibrie
First of all I agree in everything you say except this. No one owes nothing. Adam CHOOSES to share a moment with us and we are grateful that he does. I agree with you totally. I just said it if someone thinks that public figures owe it to their fans or something. I don't think that. I believe it's their life and their choices.
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Post by cattibrie on May 3, 2011 9:29:38 GMT -5
Thanks for welcoming me! So happy today
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Post by wal on May 3, 2011 9:30:07 GMT -5
Welcome, cattibrie!!
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