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Post by annala on Mar 25, 2013 10:08:38 GMT -5
Mayumi - Just want to add my condolences.
I don't post much on this site, but I read Adamtopia every day. I never met your husband, but on reading all the various posts I always had a sense of how wonderfully supportive your husband has been for you for all things "Adam". That's a beautiful thing.
We recently lost a family member. and now that several weeks have passed, we reflect now on how special this person was and how he touched not only his immediate family, but also others just by being himself. From what I've read from you and other Atopians on this site, it sounds like your husband also had this very special quality.
You have a lot of support from the Atopian family.
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Post by butterfly on Mar 25, 2013 10:09:35 GMT -5
Mayumi!
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Post by satisfied on Mar 25, 2013 10:14:18 GMT -5
kay - Perfect.
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Post by theosgma on Mar 25, 2013 10:24:02 GMT -5
Thank you to all who have reached out to send love and support to Mayumi and her family. At her request, I have set up a charity:water campaign in her husband's honor. Information is posted in the Member News site atop.proboards.com/post/384193/thread
Oh wonderful! I had posted on the member list about a group donation to a stroke foundation but having her preference is much better. Thank you for that.
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Post by theosgma on Mar 25, 2013 10:27:30 GMT -5
Dear Mayumi
I wanted to send support, love and all my best wishes for serenity in the face of your loss. Your husband was a complete sweetie. I only met him once but his gentle loving presence was totally felt by even a stranger. I am sure that presence transcends the physical and his love is even more incandescent and permeating now that he is universal.
In light,
theosgma
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Post by adamrocks on Mar 25, 2013 10:29:00 GMT -5
I want to thank all those who brought the tour a lot closer for those of us who sat at home so wishing we could be there. Those that posted the pictures of the lines, the snow and the venues helped to make me feel a little bit like I was there myself. I was totally silently encouraging BETTY on as she cast off across the water. I was anxious when I heard about all whose flights were cancelled--picturing you haggard but determined, relaxing when you proved nothing could keep you away. I relished the excitement of your final posts before heading for your flights, trains, and cars. And I also hurt for JANUARY SNOW imagining the feeling of having the concert taken from her. I was touched by the generosity of those who sacrificed to stream concerts for people who are somehow strangers but family members at the same time. I marvelled as I was able to celebrate from afar with others from so many places across the globe with nothing but a twitter list and our collective excitement. I was so thankful for the hospitality of foreign audiences who showered Adam with the love I could not. I felt like Adam was wrapped in a hug when he arrived in Finland, a country I now feel so akin to myself, finally getting the admiration he deserves. I loved hearing about the fan gatherings and picturing those that I have no visual for, only a personality, and adding "dancer" to my LILY image. I couldn't wait to hear from all the recappers who let us live it vicariously and gave us the eyes to know which direction Sauli was from the stage or what the make-up of the audience was, and especially from AYLEIM, and other Adam-virgins, who found out that Adam did actually manage to live up to blown-up expectations. And whose heart didn't leap at the airport tweet from ALBIKU who's first time with Adam turned out to be so fatefully special? Then there's those that posted the videos and archived them all so I can relive it in the future. And VIRG1877 who somehow managed to organize the gazillion pictures as a gorgeous souvenir to us all! Really guys, for not getting to go to a concert myself, I feel like I experienced this tour. I thank you all for that from the bottom of my heart. And thank you ADAM, for being the reason behind so much goodness. I can't remember who first posted this pic but I have to use it here! Kay...
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Post by murly on Mar 25, 2013 10:33:02 GMT -5
My heart is breaking for you, Mayumi. No words can make it better, but I hope you can feel the love that your Atop family is wrapping around you.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2013 10:33:21 GMT -5
Did you know that when the inter-racial marriage issue was brought before the court that (at that time) 70% of the population was against inter-racial marriage. Interesting parallel to what is happening this week re civil rights (imo). The Sunday a.m. pundits were debating the court's involvement vs. a popular vote and this point was brought up. The Gallop poll question about interracial marriage was not about legality -- it was approval. Very different. When the US Supreme Court ruled on Loving vs. Virginia (1967), interracial marriage was legal in the majority of the US. There is a summary map of legalization dates here: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_StatesEven is some states that had laws on the books (Delaware for example), they were not being enforced in 1967. The question Gallop asked was "Do you approve or disapprove....": www.gallup.com/poll/28417/most-americans-approve-interracial-marriages.aspxBig difference between approving of something and thinking it should be legal. If the gay marriage question was framed in the context of approval, it would lose. But framed in the context of the right, it has the support of 54% of Americans. Interesting. There is a big difference and I appreciate knowing the difference now. I think the point I was trying to make was that the court does argue and make decisions that are against the popular view. Legal but not being enforced? -- still reads as a disconnect to me. I'm suprised that only 54% of us support the right for same sex couples to marry. I just don't understand how some of us can enjoy civil liberties that others don't.
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Post by FanOfTheMan on Mar 25, 2013 10:38:25 GMT -5
{{{Mayumi}}}
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Post by smokeyvera on Mar 25, 2013 10:39:39 GMT -5
If any of you would like the viewing and funeral arrangements for Renee, Mayumi's husband, please PM me.
I had sporadic internet for the last 3 days, so I feel fortunate to have some information.
Mayumi, ((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))
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