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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2013 10:04:30 GMT -5
Aside from the assumption regarding who broke up with whom, I'm amazed that anyone would just assume Adam has somehow behaved immaturely based on what little we know. Life is not one size fits all - and we don't all have stage direction. Being 31 doesn't automatically mean its time to find a life partner. The fact that the person you are with is a good person does not alone make them the right person for you. I broke up with someone I did and do adore in my early thirties - it wasn't the love I wanted for myself and actually I needed to still work some things out in my own life. 10 yrs later in -omg - my 40s I found the person I'd hoped for and I was ready. That isn't a template - I know some here met their life partners at very young ages - others are single by choice and actually happy too - imagine. I can't imagine why Adam would merit a smack of any kind. And if he were my brother - regardless of what happened or who did or didn't do what - it can't be the easiest time for him (and add public scrutiny to that) my heart would ache for him. I would want to hug him a lot - and maybe feed him lol. But everyone is different no?
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Post by Kamar on Apr 7, 2013 10:08:51 GMT -5
All we know is : NOTHING . We know absolutely nothing or anything about anything of nothing . (wtf did i just write ? oh well hope i make sense)
So please , guys , don't make scenarios in your heads , it's not good . It's not healthy . The only ones that should worry about WHAT HAPPENED are Adam and Sauli , as they are the ones who know what happened .
We , as fans , must only worry about Adam and Sauli , whether they are ok or not . We must not worry and think about WHAT HAPPENED , making assumptions and stories in our heads and blaming one , or the other . None of our business.
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 7, 2013 10:13:29 GMT -5
However  I still feel like bopping Adam over the head anyways. [grins] Perhaps for no other reason that I've always harbored a tremendous secret desire to mess up his hair. #I'mhavingadayanditsgonnagetworse #indulgeme |
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Post by rama on Apr 7, 2013 10:17:10 GMT -5
I am still sad because the fun of following these 2 was a nice outlet from real life. But this is my problem. I really do believe that they are fine based on the pictures we've seen. I remember after GNT when Adam did not look happy. He does not have that look now. So I am going with the belief that this was mutual and they are both okay.
I met my husband of 27 years when he was in his mid thirties and 8 years older then me. No way was he ready to settle down before then. Adam is still young.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2013 10:17:52 GMT -5
All we know is : NOTHING . We know absolutely nothing or anything about anything of nothing . (wtf did i just write ? oh well hope i make sense) So please , guys , don't make scenarios in your heads , it's not good . It's not healthy . The only ones that should worry about WHAT HAPPENED are Adam and Sauli , as they are the ones who know what happened . We , as fans , must only worry about Adam and Sauli , whether they are ok or not . We must not worry and think about WHAT HAPPENED , making assumptions and stories in our heads and blaming one , or the other . None of our business. Very wise words imo.....this will be my new mantra "all we know is nothing". |
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 7, 2013 10:21:09 GMT -5
So please , guys , don't make scenarios in your heads , it's not good . It's not healthy . [pouts with satire] Awww, but it's fun. In a sado-macho-kiss-tic [yes, that's irony] sort of way. #amIsortachannelingTeddyyet? |
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Post by nica575 on Apr 7, 2013 10:24:51 GMT -5
Sorry about the above post. I did it on yesterday's thread and didn't know how to bring it here so I copied and pasted. Please note I just wanted to agree with iilove post. Sorry for making a mess. I will go back to lurkdom. - you did wonderfully! Keep posting! |
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Post by Kamar on Apr 7, 2013 10:26:14 GMT -5
So please , guys , don't make scenarios in your heads , it's not good . It's not healthy . [pouts with satire] Awww, but it's fun. In a sado-macho-kiss-tic [yes, that's irony] sort of way. #amIsortachannelingTeddyyet? It may be fun . The main key is to know the facts from the fiction I like your word : sado-macho-kiss-tic , tee hee |
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Post by maya on Apr 7, 2013 10:26:52 GMT -5
Beautifully written, Aleks.  Hope Adam will have a chance to read this. |
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Post by bobo on Apr 7, 2013 10:28:11 GMT -5
Holst – nonchallance - mys*&@^#r
I know I shouldn't have posted anything yesterday night when I got home. I was a bit drunk and I got provocated by some posts and didn't express me clearly. I just wanted to point out how little we know when we make assumptions.
I feel some hostility here now and maybe I should leave.
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I still feel like bopping Adam over the head anyways.
