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Post by Catzmadam on Apr 14, 2011 23:33:31 GMT -5
Oh dearest glittergma... {{{HUGS}}}  and a BIG dose of this coming your way...  |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2011 23:37:43 GMT -5
glittergma, crying is OK. You need it now. Crying is not a bad thing. It's Ok for you to be "Broken Open" too. Big hug coming your way! (((((glittergma))))  |
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 14, 2011 23:50:05 GMT -5
I think it's part of their kink meme to keep sex salacious, sekrit and durty. I'll admit I've never comprehended this mindset. Sex is just sex. Yes, its best to wait until you're old enough to handle the emotional issues it brings, but there's nothing "dirty" about it. (Well unless you're in the woods on a leafpile!) ;D ETA: Um, I've obviously missed something. Going back a few pages. brb. ETA2: Oh glittergma, {{{HUGS}}} to you and your family tonight. |
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Post by lynne on Apr 14, 2011 23:50:35 GMT -5
Glittergma...sorry to hear your news.
Hope your son gets good relief. I had an epidural shot like that in December, and I am still getting relief from it. It took about a week and a half, though, for me to feel the full effect of the procedure. I was is severe pain before the shot, and now the pain is manageable. Hang in there!
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Post by Catzmadam on Apr 14, 2011 23:56:46 GMT -5
(Well unless you're in the woods on a leafpile!) ;D Yer know the rules - photos or it didn't happen  |
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Post by glittergma on Apr 15, 2011 0:05:15 GMT -5
Oh you guys!!! TY so much!! You don't know how much I appreciate all your good thoughts. I know it's ok to cry. LOL!
My Dear Mom always called me the *family cryer*. (as tears run down my face). So weird to be happy & sad at the same time, but it's IIHY time on my CD. I'm so fucking crazy!!
My poor girl was so sad when she called me, but she did give me lots of love too. She is SO special. My son is so lucky, as she is. They have a wonderful relationship. And, they show me love all the time. My son is such a *hands on* Daddy. I so love that, and wish he could have had that kind of Dad.
Listening to Adam, and really *hearing* him makes me smile through tears.
My sons' only Gpa (on their Dads side) is not doing well either. He's in the hospital and may have to go to a nursing home. Ex is not dealing with this at all. As usual, he's thinking of himself, not his Dad. Have to say *GRRRRRRRRR*. Sorry, but he's a loser. Totally selfish person. But, I do feel for my sons & their Gpa.
I so thank you all for all the kind words. Amy's Grandma was such an awesome woman and we bonded so much. She would always tell me how much she appreciated me being there for Amy. How happy she was that Amy & Trey were together. How, she knew I would always be there for Amy when she was gone.
She was amazing. I feel like I lost my Mom again. She was 10 years younger than my Mom. I know she is in a better place and with her daughter again, who died way too young.
I have to smile right now cause Adam just said *Freedom of Expression, people, FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION!!!* Adam has helped me through some of the toughest times in my life, right from the very beginning of discovering him. I still don't quite understand how one beautiful man can do this, but I am loving every minute of it.
He has brought the most beautiful people into my life..........ALL OF YOU!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!! I love you all so much!!!
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 15, 2011 0:06:08 GMT -5
(Well unless you're in the woods on a leafpile!) ;D Yer know the rules - photos or it didn't happen Pre-camera phone! (Thank goodness)  ;D |
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on Apr 15, 2011 0:08:17 GMT -5
More {{{{HUGS}}}}
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Post by Catzmadam on Apr 15, 2011 0:09:57 GMT -5
Yer know the rules - photos or it didn't happen Pre-camera phone! (Thank goodness) ;D *pfffft* I accept polaroids - remember them ;D #waitspatiently |
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Post by glittergma on Apr 15, 2011 0:13:42 GMT -5
Glittergma...sorry to hear your news. Hope your son gets good relief. I had an epidural shot like that in December, and I am still getting relief from it. It took about a week and a half, though, for me to feel the full effect of the procedure. I was is severe pain before the shot, and now the pain is manageable. Hang in there! Hi lynne! My sons main concern is that, he had surgery on the same disk 6 years ago. He's afraid that he will have to continue to have to have the epidural shot, that it's just a quick fix. I'm hoping not, but time will tell. He's been in pain since last year, and finally got something done about it. Working as a Chef isn't so easy, and he has to do a lot of lifting & twisting. He is aware he has to be careful not to reinjure himself as he won't feel the pain at this point. He so loves golf & surfing, but probably won't be able to do much of that for a while. It's so hard, when he's so far away. I miss being a hands on Mom. But, he's so happy where he is, so I just try to be happy for him. And, I am, just hate that I can't see him as much as I'd like. Ok, Live GN is over, going to listen to FYE and then try to get some sleep. I'm working OT as my coworker quit last weekend. It's a good thing. She was a very negative person, but workload has increased substantially and I'm wiped out! There was a time when I thought I'd be retired by now...LOL!! Guess not, but I do love my job. I have quoted Adam many times about *You get back what you give away*. It's so true when you work in LTC, and they actually get it!! Such sweetness in the elderly. So much to learn. Such happy times, along with the bittersweet. Life lessons....... |
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