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Post by aspen on May 11, 2011 9:40:47 GMT -5
[snickers at Hoopla] The carpetbag is buried under a pile of laundry. There are so many I can't even figure out which one. With my luck it will be the one with all the mud and spilled Elmers glue.  SAY NO TO DRUGS !!! Don't you think tequila lollies would work just as well with this riled up crowd? Maybe lace them with a little valium, ha. |
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Post by aspen on May 11, 2011 9:42:22 GMT -5
So..... I hear there was drama?? ;D Yep rumor has it Adam has a new hair do and we are guessing what it is :  : But I think we started the rumor, right? |
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Post by Sunflower on May 11, 2011 9:43:51 GMT -5
Maybe because if I had a 30 yr old wife who didn't know how to keep what is private PRIVATE, I might be a little perturbed. Life is all about knowing when to keep your mouth shut, esp if you have no right to open it and in this case I don't think she does if our speculation is right. It's not like the bully beating up your child these are 2 grown men who would have undoubtedly worked it out without "mom" sticking her nose in. Now fuel has been added to the fire and whatever Monte does it looks like he is siding with one or the other. I think the whole thing would have gone away if we all had let it. It not only would have gone away and been solved by Adam and Monte, bout we wouldn't even know about the discord. And IMO, we shouldn't know about it. But because of Lisa, and only Lisa, the whole world knows! Exactly! There are always disagreements, it comes with the territory. If they cannot be resolved they can still part ways and may be work together at a later point. But publicly burning bridges was probably the stupidest thing Lisa could have done. I read Hoppers' comments last night and I can understand her frustrations but what she did was totally counterproductive. Whatever the original problem was, she just made it a hundred times worse. |
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Post by rad1109 on May 11, 2011 9:44:42 GMT -5
When all else fails @adam_pictures always makes me happy...stupidly so... mobile.twitter.com/adam_picturesRats I can't figure out how to post the pic of Adam & Sauli at the NNN |
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Post by HoppersSkippersMiners on May 11, 2011 9:48:58 GMT -5
I love your post Chunkey!!  Because no matter what the reason or cause, taking this out on twitter is sooooo wrong! We're not talking about a teenagers or a 20 something. This is a woman in her 30s. It IS passive aggressive! Would any of us go on twitter and release a tirade against our husband's, wife's, or significant other's boss?? I am betting the answer is 100% no. <snip> Personal opinion alert! I have a kid, but have an outside job. I have friends who are stay-at-home-moms, though, and IMO there really has been a shift in communication methods over the last number of years. If you're a stay-at-home-mom (like Lisa) there just aren't that many other mothers in the neighborhood to physically talk to anymore. So many people work, or just don't socialize. The internet has become the new "coffee klach". And yes - in the traditional coffee klach you DO kvetch about your spouse, your spouse's boss, and all the stuff that bugs you as you're stuck at home with small people with smaller vocabularies and a tendency to shriek nonstop for hours. But the internet complicates things. It allows you to talk with other blessed ADULTS about things, even if you can't leave your front door. And that's such a wonderful, wonderful thing. My stay-at-home friends use facebook and twitter as a sanity lifeline. Particularly since the likelihood of seeing an actual grownup other than your husband at some too-late hour of the night is slim to none. BUT....the Twitterverse is completely open. It gives the ILLUSION of a circle of friends, but allows far far more than friends access. However, when you're living minute to minute taking care of the latest need, its easy to forget that. I've had friends say WAY too much stuff on Facebook that would have been perfectly ok to say directly to me. But they don't see me. I'm not physically there. So they leave an electronic message that a lot more people can see than me. That can be interpreted in a myriad of ways other than what was intended. IMO, Lisa was tired and did something amazingly stupid in the heat of a bout of frustration, BECAUSE Twitter seems like a quiet circle of friends under most circumstances. But, as peeps know once you can think clearly, its not. |
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Post by aspen on May 11, 2011 9:49:23 GMT -5
Platinum blonde with dark eyebrows looked totally hot on Billy Idol, Adam is better looking so hoping for that look WITHOUT the pomp!  [/img][/quote] youtu.be/vbVDVHU8Q7gGod, I was so hot for Billy Idol back in the day. I went to Rock 'n Rio with 5 friends. Never again too many people and craziness but got to meet (and be propositioned by) Billy so trip worth every penny. That's OT, but fond memories, like Adam was sharing with the photos. I know that's a stretch. How about blonde hair connection? How about Billy's sexuality was often called into question? No? Okay, I'll drop the rationalizations. |
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Post by cookie on May 11, 2011 9:51:49 GMT -5
When single people have no else to hang with they're at your front door...when a new relationship or something more exciting is going on they try to fit you in their schedule. I know because my son sent me an email telling us when he & his boyfriend are available this summer since they got a time share on Fire Island! He also told me he's flying home for a weekend because he has a wedding to go to, not if his bedroom is still available....so I know exactly what I'm talking about because of experience. BUT, he sputters, that's life. When I came home from college for weekends my parents would have to leave note on my pillow, if I even used it, to tell me things. I loved them more than life itself but I wanted to see my friends. It didn't mean I loved them less it just meant I wanted to PLAY and they understood that. It's fazes, intervals, but your friends understand that you are not leaving them behind, you are just in a different place for a while. True friends don't feel slighted. How about if Adam felt slighted if Monte didn't want to go out with him every night because he wanted to spend time with Lisa and the kids? Would we think Monte was less of a friend? No, we'd understand it had become a difference in lifestyle at the moment. All that being said, I still think it's about the 2 upcoming gigs. Bathing suit time. You're probably glad to be rid of me. I can't speak for anyone else, but I actually would love it if you could hang out more. We benefit from the "cool guy" perspective. You've been on fire this morning! |
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Post by wonderstruck on May 11, 2011 9:55:14 GMT -5
Ya know, I think a little context is a good thing. Seems all the evidence we've seen from the last two years points to Adam being very loyal, supportive, and loving to his friends. We've remarked on his ability to stay friends with his exes, on the fact that people from his past have respected his privacy even when it would probably be financially rewarding to spill details. I couldn't have said it better myself. Adam has proven time and again what a great friend he is and how much loyalty he has given and received. Yeah, I can't even imagine how silly it would be if it were really about not showing up to a gig. If that is what it's about I'd be curious to know if Madonna was there? : Expectations rarely meet reality so IMO it's how people react when that happens that show their true character. If Lisa went on her rant without Monte's knowledge that's ridic...if it was with his blessing that's even more ridic. Either way my opinion of Monte and his involvement in any future career moves with Adam is forever altered. I personally don't want to see him on tour with Adam or involved with Adam again. That kind of drama has no place in Adam's career IMO. |
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Post by aspen on May 11, 2011 9:55:36 GMT -5
Gotta hit the road until this afternoon, but just noticed the following current stat: 35 Members, 114 Guests, 2 Invisible Users I wonder when is the last time we had this many people online/lurking before 9:00 am (CDT)!! See you later! What's an invisible user as compared to a guest? |
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Post by Deleted on May 11, 2011 9:56:10 GMT -5
HSM, I could be wrong, but with Lisa's involvement in the Fit magazine and her blog, I'll bet she has Mom message boards she is also involved in. I know my daughter does. Twitter is not the place to complain about your husband's boss.
I admire your attempt to shed some positive light on this for Lisa, but there is no way a 30+ year old woman should have done this. She's been on twitter for some time now. She knows full well it is public. From previous rants during the tour about Monte, she knows the fans will see it and respond. I just can't give her a pass on this. It was a really, really stupid thing to do.
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