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Post by outlawbooster on May 11, 2011 9:22:35 GMT -5
You're assuming Monte is not happy with Lisa, Gelly. What makes you think that he's just unhappy with his wife? Glad it's so obvious to you, you really think that song was to bash his wife? He must love Adam a lot.... Maybe because if I had a 30 yr old wife who didn't know how to keep what is private PRIVATE, I might be a little perturbed. Life is all about knowing when to keep your mouth shut, esp if you have no right to open it and in this case I don't think she does if our speculation is right. It's not like the bully beating up your child these are 2 grown men who would have undoubtedly worked it out without "mom" sticking her nose in. Now fuel has been added to the fire and whatever Monte does it looks like he is siding with one or the other. I think the whole thing would have gone away if we all had let it. I have to agree, those MEN would have worked it out without that stupid MOM interfering with PRIVATE issues like her husbands lively- hood. She must be a hunter. |
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Post by Deleted on May 11, 2011 9:21:47 GMT -5
I love your post Chunkey!!  Because no matter what the reason or cause, taking this out on twitter is sooooo wrong! We're not talking about a teenagers or a 20 something. This is a woman in her 30s. It IS passive aggressive! Would any of us go on twitter and release a tirade against our husband's, wife's, or significant other's boss?? I am betting the answer is 100% no. As far as how Tommy would take this, he tweeted Adam last night so he is probably fine. He is playing with Monte right now ( as is Warren) though, so he is clearly "in the middle." But Tommy is such a lovable guy, I think he can love both the guys and navigate the friendship of both. Oh, and my opinions on the tweet pics that Adam sent out last night? He and Sauli looking at old pictures together, nothing more. |
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Post by aspen on May 11, 2011 9:24:04 GMT -5
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 Funny...I got the impression from your posts that you know Adam... Real friends are happy that he has someone to share his life with. My best friend for life lives in London for 25 years now. She is still my best friend even though I gont go to the movies with her and I see her twice a year. |
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Post by outlawbooster on May 11, 2011 9:25:01 GMT -5
The complete quote was that I hope that the hunter reference was not directed at Lisa BECAUSE of how everyone on the GNT tour worked together....not that they couldn't be replaced.... My comment was in regards to the statement that the GNT "wouldn't have been the same without all the hard work from the troupe". My point was that there could have been other band members and dancers, and the GNT would have been the same because of ADAM! Others could have and would have filled in the spots, worked just as hard, and been there to help make the tour just as successful. An Adam Lambert tour has to have Adam, but other than him, the players are replaceable. So much for the "little people" in Adam's world... |
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Post by aspen on May 11, 2011 9:28:31 GMT -5
I have friends I used to hang out with almost every day who I now see once a year, one who I see once every 4 or 5 years. When I do see these friends, it is as if it was yesterday that we were together. It's what happens when you are grown up and your life takes you in different directions. Did't you ever whine in hs or college that someone didn't have time for you now that they had a girlfriend/boyfriend, new interest, etc, etc? If you say you didn't I don't believe you. I'm a guy, really girls, I'm a cool guy, not a whiny guy, but I know I felt that way. Relationships change but it doesn't mean you are burning bridges. Arrrgghhh. I must shut up and get dressed for work - ha, that's a bathing suit so I can stay a little longer. And on the Tommy fan service thing, I think Adam has moved on from that, you know less rhinestones more leather mentality, and if he does do it once or twice it will be with a wink and a nod to the audience saying, "Remember this? Fun, right?" But us regular folks know when we make new friends they are just friends, not because we're rich & famous and they'll get vicarious fame....something that I know none of us Adam fans would want for him. And I am NOT talking about Sauli! I'm talking about friends....so it's nice to have friends from before FAME! But can't someone be your friend without having to see them every day or week or month? And if someone is your friend, they understand that things don't always work out the way we want. If you have 4 tickets to Paris and 7 friends, do you lose the friends who don't get to go? If you do, shame on them. Proximity should not define friendship. |
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Post by Deleted on May 11, 2011 9:32:02 GMT -5
You're assuming Monte is not happy with Lisa, Gelly. What makes you think that he's just unhappy with his wife? Glad it's so obvious to you, you really think that song was to bash his wife? He must love Adam a lot.... Maybe because if I had a 30 yr old wife who didn't know how to keep what is private PRIVATE, I might be a little perturbed. Life is all about knowing when to keep your mouth shut, esp if you have no right to open it and in this case I don't think she does if our speculation is right. It's not like the bully beating up your child these are 2 grown men who would have undoubtedly worked it out without "mom" sticking her nose in. Now fuel has been added to the fire and whatever Monte does it looks like he is siding with one or the other. I think the whole thing would have gone away if we all had let it. It not only would have gone away and been solved by Adam and Monte, biut we wouldn't even know about the discord. And IMO, we shouldn't know about it. But because of Lisa, and only Lisa, the whole world knows! |
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Post by wonderstruck on May 11, 2011 9:32:03 GMT -5
When single people have no else to hang with they're at your front door...when a new relationship or something more exciting is going on they try to fit you in their schedule. I know because my son sent me an email telling us when he & his boyfriend are available this summer since they got a time share on Fire Island! He also told me he's flying home for a weekend because he has a wedding to go to, not if his bedroom is still available....so I know exactly what I'm talking about because of experience. Outlaw, you know what you are talking about based on the people in YOUR life, not based on the people in Adam's life or even Adam himself. Adam seems, to my observations, to include his friends in his life even in light of his new relationship. However, Monte has four children, two of which are at an age where you can't just tote them around in baby sacks. |
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Post by Deleted on May 11, 2011 9:36:33 GMT -5
There might be a lot of celebrities that can be accused of discarding old friends. But from all indications and everything we have witnessed, Adam certainly isn't one of them! If anything, maybe he has taken too many friends along for the ride.
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Post by PastaBaby on May 11, 2011 9:36:33 GMT -5
This whole situation hurts me so. I love Monte. I love Adam. (And I love Tommy too.)
I’ve tried not to make any statements but I just can’t hold it in any longer.
What Lisa did is just so wrong. Being no stranger to controversy, this just reminds me of the run-ins I have had w/peeps who have no idea how to resolve an issue or don’t even care too. They think “whoever screams louder is righter".
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Post by NoAngel on May 11, 2011 9:38:41 GMT -5
Ya know, I think a little context is a good thing. Seems all the evidence we've seen from the last two years points to Adam being very loyal, supportive, and loving to his friends. We've remarked on his ability to stay friends with his exes, on the fact that people from his past have respected his privacy even when it would probably be financially rewarding to spill details.
In the light of day, this seems to be about more than Adam not showing up at Monte's gigs, but we may never know. I see absolutely no reason to assume that Adam is going to change his personality and stop being a good person and supportive of his friends. And I see no reason to assume that things will stay status quo forever when Adam has to move forward in his career.
Adam can't be all things to all people, and things like this happen when expectations don't meet reality.
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