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Post by tinafea on Jun 7, 2011 13:54:41 GMT -5
I got a bizarre PM accusing me of criticizing Adam and questioning whether I'm a fan of his. That's the welcome I get? Gotta say I'm hurt. I opened up to a bunch of people I don't know about my struggles with my daughter b/c it was suggested to me I check out this discussion. I know these suggestions came from people who meant well. I do appreciate them. Q3, thank you for replying to me. Yes, as MyS*&@^#r said contact Q3 and I would copy and paste the offending PM in your message. That is all kinds of wrong and needs to be looked in to. |
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Post by 8toinfinity on Jun 7, 2011 13:57:48 GMT -5
Lynne said: As I followed JD's tweets I mostly felt entertained (admittedly at his cluelessness) but also at the gentle way (IMHO) that Adam handled it. Then JD wouldn't stop and revealed some not so nice (again, IMHO) prejudices and I thought, STFU, leave Adam out of your drama. After reading Aloha, Q3 and Lynne's amazing posts, I have moved on to "a bit sickened and sorry for him" - per Lynne above. I was particulary touched by the comment that "I can never say the right thing" and the tearful "I didn't do anything different" in response to complimented behavior. I think those 2 exchanges said more to me than a thousand words. Thank you guys for sharing with us and teaching us.  I have to say, I think one of JD's "problems" is that he didn't have the wonderful support group that your families provide to your loved ones. I wish someone would sit down with him and explain that Twitter is the Devil even to people that DON'T normally have communication problems.  |
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Post by 5thelement on Jun 7, 2011 14:01:58 GMT -5
Thank you MyS*&@^#r and tinafea.
I don't know what to say. I'm trying to keep my eyes dry b/c I need to go to the bank and open an account.
Like Aloha said in her last post, I am determined to teach my daughter how to navigate through life socially. It's painstakingly difficult on so many levels. It's emotional, too. She's doing pretty good but it's still so so hard and emotional.
These public squabbles James gets himself into just confirm that I'm going in the right direction and it just compounds the importance for me to NEVER, ever get complacent on teaching my daughter.
I just read that James deleted all of his tweets about Adam and Daughtry. It's noon here on the west coast.
What a rollercoaster it is.
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Post by gelly14 on Jun 7, 2011 14:04:47 GMT -5
First let me thank Smokey for suggesting we come over and read the end of this thread. I've read all the JD "goings on" but never posted my opinion. Musically he's not my cup of tea anyway so he isn't anyone I would have interest in. I commend him for going after his dreams, that is something we should all aspire to. It makes me sad that I think he is ill equiped to handle it but there is nothing I can do about that. I do hold him accountable because we are ALL held accountable for our actions, I just choose not to make nasty remarks. The way I will hold him accountable is to not purchase his music, watch any video, or read any interviews. Aloha, Lynne, Q3 and the rest of you I appreciate your honesty and have real respect for the way you have handled the challenges that life's given you. I suspect we've all had challenges to overcome. Mine was being widowed at 25 with an infant and a preschooler to raise. What I love about this place is that we have something in common with Adam. We don't let negativity and difficulties get us down but focus on what is good. my mom became widow with my brother being 3 and me being 1. I could only see it from a child's POV but I still can totally admire your strength. You give me strength to fight. Thank you. |
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Post by aloha on Jun 7, 2011 14:05:41 GMT -5
I got a bizarre PM accusing me of criticizing Adam and questioning whether I'm a fan of his. That's the welcome I get? Gotta say I'm hurt. I opened up to a bunch of people I don't know about my struggles with my daughter b/c it was suggested to me I check out this discussion. I know these suggestions came from people who meant well. I do appreciate them. Q3, thank you for replying to me. Don't give up. One pm does not a community make. I loved your post and your insight. That person should not have questioned your love of Adam. I am sorry it happened. |
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Post by 5thelement on Jun 7, 2011 14:08:27 GMT -5
I got a bizarre PM accusing me of criticizing Adam and questioning whether I'm a fan of his. That's the welcome I get? Gotta say I'm hurt. I opened up to a bunch of people I don't know about my struggles with my daughter b/c it was suggested to me I check out this discussion. I know these suggestions came from people who meant well. I do appreciate them. Q3, thank you for replying to me. Don't give up. One pm does not a community make. I loved your post and your insight. That person should not have questioned your love of Adam. I am sorry it happened. Thank you. <3 |
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Post by tigerlily on Jun 7, 2011 14:11:24 GMT -5
As someone who taught sixth grade for years, I'd like to say that not all 12 year olds are alike. Not all of them lie or use lying and manipulation to get what they want.
ETA: Sorry, didn't mean to offend! I guess I didn't understand what you meant.
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Post by 5thelement on Jun 7, 2011 14:16:10 GMT -5
As someone who taught sixth grade for years, I'd like to say that not all 12 year olds are alike. Not all of them lie or use lying and manipulation to get what they want. That's not what I meant. |
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Post by JazzRocks on Jun 7, 2011 15:37:15 GMT -5
I am astounded by the number of people here who have had members of their families (or even themselves) diagnosed with AS or ADD. I had no idea it was that prevalent. Years ago it was probably under-diagnosed and was labeled "bad behavior".
After having read some of the symptoms of ADD I'm almost certain my DH had the condition. Too late now.
I find it amazing that this awesome thread happened because of a few tweets by James Durbin!
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Post by 5thelement on Jun 7, 2011 17:11:36 GMT -5
I am astounded by the number of people here who have had members of their families (or even themselves) diagnosed with AS or ADD. I had no idea it was that prevalent. Years ago it was probably under-diagnosed and was labeled "bad behavior". After having read some of the symptoms of ADD I'm almost certain my DH had the condition. Too late now. I find it amazing that this awesome thread happened because of a few tweets by James Durbin! I like that positive spin.  |
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