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Post by aloha on Feb 18, 2011 22:42:21 GMT -5
Well, I love your attitude, BB, and in a perfect world, wish I could do it. (I'm way too emotional for that.) But the political events of today have proven that "live and let live" doesn't often cut it. We have people literally stripping the fundamental rights out of more than half of the U.S. population. How can we just shrug that off? I know that these are two different things, but they are most certainly intertwined. We need to stand up and say, "I will not tolerate this BS anymore." And keep saying it until we are heard. Geez, sorry for spamming, but ITA. I've been following the events in the Middle East, and what strikes me is that the status quo is only acceptable as long as everyone passively allows it to be. And with social media, we don't need to wait for one charismatic leader to speak for everyone against TPTB. I'm not saying that every battle is worth fighting, and every hill is worthy of dying upon. And I know that changing people's minds is often difficult if not impossible. But for me, I'm all for speaking what I feel, rather than feeling powerless to change what is. It's all I can do, most of the time. But it's everything, sometimes. We're of one mind here. I can let an ignorant comment slide by sometimes, but I no longer go out of my way to avoid expressing disagreement and/or disappointment with ignorance or bigotry. In Adam's case, though, I do try to avoid the endless rehashing.. and choose certain things to respond to. Just my attempt to pace myself, otherwise I'd just go over the edge from all the crazy hate and injustice and ignorance. We can tag team. Yay, Susie! |
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Post by chunkeymonkey81 on Feb 18, 2011 22:43:04 GMT -5
I mean I think there are legitimate times to stand up and be heard, but I also think there are many times people jump the gun.. OMG I totally agree with this!!!!!!! LOL YOUR REPLY TOTALLY MADE ME LOL AND MAYBE IT'S BC I HAVE BEEN UP SINCE 4 AM AND I AM SUPER TIRED BUT I DUNNO MAN. I HAVE STIRRED THE POT YO. OH MAN. |
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Post by aloha on Feb 18, 2011 22:45:10 GMT -5
OMG I totally agree with this!!!!!!! LOL YOUR REPLY TOTALLY MADE ME LOL AND MAYBE IT'S BC I HAVE BEEN UP SINCE 4 AM AND I AM SUPER TIRED BUT I DUNNO MAN. I HAVE STIRRED THE POT YO. OH MAN. I like a little pot stirring. Things are never boring in Adam land. |
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Post by cayman on Feb 18, 2011 22:45:32 GMT -5
Yes!!! I'll show this to Adam. We're on dessert, now. He loves chocolate. If I remember correctly, he has also mentioned ice-cream. Dreyer's Silk Chiffon, something like that I think. If you ask me what ice-cream my kids like the best :  : : : crap, I am truly addicted. |
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Post by birdieeve on Feb 18, 2011 22:45:34 GMT -5
Hi all-
I haven't posted in AGES, although I've been lurking the whole time. I usually think of something to post and then find that one of you amazing ladies (and gents) has said exactly what I was thinking, only more eloquently. But I have to pop in and say that I so appreciate the level of discussion here, and appreciate everyone's willingness to find a balance (4EverAdam - I was inspired by what you posted!!) between the silly, the sexy, the snarky, and the smart. So, hi all, and thank you for creating such an amazing community!
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Post by mika on Feb 18, 2011 22:46:04 GMT -5
Maybe I am just a terrible person if I think that no pressing social issues will ever be solved in the comment sections on the internet? LOL. If that's not the case then get thee to youtube now because we have ALOT of work to do. Now you went and made me smile. And you are terrible - I'm getting the comfy chair right now. |
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Post by aloha on Feb 18, 2011 22:47:50 GMT -5
Yes!!! I'll show this to Adam. We're on dessert, now. He loves chocolate. If I remember correctly, he has also mentioned ice-cream. Dreyer's Silk Chiffon, something like that I think. If you ask me what ice-cream my kids like the best : : : : crap, I am truly addicted. Hmmmm. You mean French Silk ice cream, right? I know that was just a typo. 8-) Oh, kiddies, while we're here, let's give Adam some more hits. www.vevo.com/watch/adam-lambert/fever-vevo-presents/GBE431000288 |
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Post by cayman on Feb 18, 2011 22:48:55 GMT -5
Damn! That is a big loss for the LA Times, for Adam fans, and for Adam support in the LA area. :( Come out of retirement, go apply for this opening. She has been a HUGE Adam supporter, crossing fingers next person is at the very least, open minded. |
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Post by chunkeymonkey81 on Feb 18, 2011 22:50:07 GMT -5
I am wondering why as fans we waste so much energy on people who don't like Adam for whatever reason? Haterz gonna hate, homophobic or not, and that won't stop my enjoyment of the music. I am not gonna waste my time arguing with other people to see things my way. I may have my own ideas on why things are how they are and my own gripes but I am not going out tring to make others see things thru my eyes. It seems so futile and just a way to rile people up(on both sides) that ultimately accomplishes nothing. Maybe I'm wrong, I just hate seeing ppl get all up in arms and upset over random people who are probably not worth their time. Not trying to knock anyone, I understand if it's something someone feels passionately about, I am just curious as to the reasons people have. Esp because I feel like this fandom in particular feels a need to jump to his "defense" over any little thing. I guess I just feel like, well, not everyone likes everyone and well.....that's okay. That's life. Focus on the the fact that YOU like it and that's all that matters. Ok I must be tired because I am getting all *thinky* BTW Susie, you did make your point very well though. So...two snaps for you guuurl! For me, I think it's because I feel most of the haters, are haters because Adam is gay. They may say he's flamboyant or not their style, but I really think it's just code for "too gay for me." Which, btw, amazes me! I see things like, Matt Belamy performing in a silver sparkly suit with silver shoes on at the Grammy Awards and no one thinks it is over the top. I see Mick Jagger prancing around the stage, as Mick does, and everyone thinks it cools. Then I read an article saying, "Should Adam Lambert tone it down" and the only difference I see between Adam and the other 2 men is that Adam is the gay one. I've stopped responding to most on-line sites that say stupid things about Adam, because I just don't want to fuel the haters. But it still hurts because I know he deserves better and I can't understand why everyone doesn't appreciate his talent. Why does it have to be so hard for him? No it's not fair, he has to work harder than everyone else...but things will change even if slowly. Doesn't make it fair. I guess my opinion is that nothing will ever further equal rights for all by "fighting" (or posting well written repsonses in most cases) in comment sections or whatnot on the internet. Let's face it, the anonymity of the internet BRINGS OUT THE JACKASSERY of people to super high levels and just....people are assholes on the web and live to fight there. I don't think that will ever change and to me it seems a pointless endeavor. LOL. But soldier on guys because maybe I am dead wrong here and my cynical heart will grow three sizes. Actually I'd like to be proven wrong.  Ok I am gonna take off before ya'll hate me oh man |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2011 22:51:35 GMT -5
Damn! That is a big loss for the LA Times, for Adam fans, and for Adam support in the LA area. :( Come out of retirement, go apply for this opening. She has been a HUGE Adam supporter, crossing fingers next person is at the very least, open minded. Not me, but how about SusieFierce? She's a very talented writer. Susie, there's an opening at the LA Times for a music and Idol reviewer. |
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