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Post by irish1139 on Sept 27, 2011 22:16:36 GMT -5
Adam has been acting so grown up lately regarding his relationship with Sauli, and expressing the fact that he was in love. Is this what we do when we are in love now? Maybe young people do these things and it is all right today. I don't know. I'm not a prude either. I love gay porn (not that the picture was porn) just want you to know I am not a prude. I just feel wrong and funny and scared about that picture.
God, I don't want to sound judgemental either. I have never been to a gay bar. Maybe that is what they do there and everything is okay. Just curious what others think I guess. Don't get too mad at me. I am just an old lady, not very hip anymore.
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Post by kapsiz on Sept 27, 2011 22:17:08 GMT -5
I have a question for you guys, and I know I will probably get blasted. That picture of Jonte and Adam is of course, gorgeous, but I wonder how Adam would feel if he saw Sauli penising it up with another guy and posing crotch to crotch with someone? Is that necessary to get a beautiful picture of two men? I think Sauli is the one taking the picture! ;D And, he understands that Hollywood is Adam's town & knows many people. Adam obviously asked Sauli to live in LA with him & Sauli accepted! I'm sure there aren't any petty jealousies going on there! *just saying*  ETA: This person is a friend of Adam's from before Idol! Adam wouldn't post a pic from HIS site that would make Sauli ?? their relationship or be uncomfortable! TRUTH!   |
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Post by cassie on Sept 27, 2011 22:20:56 GMT -5
Chunkey, are you around. Give me your opinion. You are a smart, sassy girl. Am I being simple-minded. I am a lot older than you younger girls. I just know I would feel awful if that was my boyfriend. I'm not Chunkey. But, it seems that Adam and Sauli have a significant and close relationship, going by Adam's most recent comments. I"m thinking that Sauli can smile, watching all the boys (and girls) drool over HIS boyfriend, who has pretty much professed his love for Sauli publicly. He can stand back and say, "Yup, bitches. He's mine. He's going home with me. I'm the one who will wake up in his bed tomorrow morning." That pose is so much the Zodiac, club scene to me. Doesn't mean a thing. And, if Sauli had any trepidations, Adam would certainly not have tweeted it out. By now, Sauli must be very used to Adam being fawned over and groped. Part of the celebrity. No big deal. IMO.
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Post by psychedelic on Sept 27, 2011 22:21:14 GMT -5
Adam has been acting so grown up lately regarding his relationship with Sauli, and expressing the fact that he was in love. Is this what we do when we are in love now? Maybe young people do these things and it is all right today. I don't know. I'm not a prude either. I love gay porn (not that the picture was porn) just want you to know I am not a prude. I just feel wrong and funny and scared about that picture. I dont think the "penising it up " thing looks mutual..... Adam s just standing there and the other guy seems to be applying himself to Adam  and even if it were mutual, its just posing for a picture, I dont feel like theres anything wrong with that.. and um..... watching gay porn has nothing to do with being or not being a prude.... ??? |
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Post by rihannsu on Sept 27, 2011 22:21:15 GMT -5
Sauli was right by Adam last night when this picture was taken. Somehow I imagined Adam a little more possessive of his relationship. If that was my lover and he/she crotched it up with someone for a picture, I would be real uncomfortable. Me too. That pic surprised me - and not in a good way. Wonder how Sauli feels. More strangeness this day. ??? And yet we all seemed to think it was so incredible the Kris was comfortable enough with Adam to engage in full body hugs without reservation. It seems a bit ridiculous to presume possible infidelity based on a fully clothed posed photo in a public place. That kind of paranoid possessiveness would be indicative of a serious lack of trust. I really wish we could get past this idea that physical contact = sex. Touch is a very important key to emotional health and I think we have done ourselves a huge disservice with the hangups we have created around touching each other. I hope to hell I never see Adam doing the straight guy bro hug with the requisite foot of crotch separation with his friends. Bad enough when we have to see that kind of reservation in his interactions with straight guys. |
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Post by FanOfTheMan on Sept 27, 2011 22:21:26 GMT -5
Adam has been acting so grown up lately regarding his relationship with Sauli, and expressing the fact that he was in love. Is this what we do when we are in love now? Maybe young people do these things and it is all right today. I don't know. I'm not a prude either. I love gay porn (not that the picture was porn) just want you to know I am not a prude. I just feel wrong and funny and scared about that picture. It scares me too, like is he tired of Sauli? Sorry-just thinking out loud and not liking what I'm thinking. *sigh* ETA- Know what? I'm just thinking personally. I wouldn't like my husband in some crotchy situation like that with some female - like what in the hell are you doing so close to my man-that's my territory. And then if he tweeted out the pic - hell to pay. Maybe this is all different in some way that I don't understand :-/. |
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Post by irish1139 on Sept 27, 2011 22:26:19 GMT -5
I in no way inferred there was infidelity or even thought so. I just know Adam is protective of what is his. I was afraid maybe something was wearing off, and it made me sad.
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Post by momtomany on Sept 27, 2011 22:26:50 GMT -5
Could it be that this whole thing stems from the photo?
Could it be that Sauli felt insecure after seeing the suggestiveness in the photo, or in the interaction?
Could A&S have had a talk that boiled down to basic insecurity? We are true to one another, and then this 'flirtation' and photo happens? What makes you insecure? Or me?
I see your point, Irish. I haven't had many occasions where I've felt threatened or possessive. But, instantly the feeling comes to life when I see someone 'a little too close' to the one I love. He may not have a clue; but my radar goes up and I feel uncomfortable. Insecure. Sauli could have had a moment like that, and brought it to Adam.
Food for thought. Whatever the outcome, I see the reality and the humanity in the man who is always wanting to know more, about us, and about himself.
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Post by kathleenpf on Sept 27, 2011 22:27:00 GMT -5
Adam has been acting so grown up lately regarding his relationship with Sauli, and expressing the fact that he was in love. Is this what we do when we are in love now? Maybe young people do these things and it is all right today. I don't know. I'm not a prude either. I love gay porn (not that the picture was porn) just want you to know I am not a prude. I just feel wrong and funny and scared about that picture. God, I don't want to sound judgemental either. I have never been to a gay bar. Maybe that is what they do there and everything is okay. Just curious what others think I guess. Don't get too mad at me. I am just an old lady, not very hip anymore. Aww, irish, i don't think there is cause for concern. I see jonte striking a pose and Adam standing behind him looking fierce. I may be wrong but i think jonte is a good friend of Adam's...i know Adam tweets about him enough lol Honestly, I don't see anything very sexual in this picture at all. I think Sauli is just fine with it. Really. |
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Post by cassie on Sept 27, 2011 22:28:27 GMT -5
Adam has been acting so grown up lately regarding his relationship with Sauli, and expressing the fact that he was in love. Is this what we do when we are in love now? Maybe young people do these things and it is all right today. I don't know. I'm not a prude either. I love gay porn (not that the picture was porn) just want you to know I am not a prude. I just feel wrong and funny and scared about that picture. It scares me too, like is he tired of Sauli? Sorry-just thinking out loud and not liking what I'm thinking. *sigh* Don't want to sound like I am telling you what to think or feel. My thought is that we know that Adam is a kind and caring person who is very loyal to his friends. Even if things were rocky with Sauli, I cannot imagine him flirting and flaunting himself in front of Sauli. That just doesn't fit with anything I know about him. I guess I trust Adam to be kind and considerate. |
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and even if it were mutual, its just posing for a picture, I dont feel like theres anything wrong with that.. and um..... watching gay porn has nothing to do with being or not being a prude.... ???
