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Post by mszue on Aug 2, 2011 11:21:39 GMT -5
I know it is not our business, and I expect that they have discussed, or at least made their opinions known to each other, but I can't help wondering if the 'I don't see marriage in my future' might be hurtful to Sauli. I remember feeling really sorry for Drake having to be seen as Adam's boyfriend at the same time as he made it abundantly clear, multiple times, that he was only ever in love once and that it was not his present [drake] relationship. How to hurt someone!!! Sometimes complete honesty may not be the kindest option.....who knows...just empathizing...
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Post by chunkeymonkey81 on Aug 2, 2011 11:28:26 GMT -5
Ah, thanks Star Magazine for bringing back the openly gay singer thing. From now on I am going to address every popstar with the 'openly" prefix...such as Lady Gaga the openly meat wearing singer, Katy Perry the openly whipped cream boob squirting singer and Kesha the openly tone deaf singer.....fabulous.
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Post by kathleenpf on Aug 2, 2011 11:29:42 GMT -5
I know it is not our business, and I expect that they have discussed, or at least made their opinions known to each other, but I can't help wondering if the 'I don't see marriage in my future' might be hurtful to Sauli. I remember feeling really sorry for Drake having to be seen as Adam's boyfriend at the same time as he made it abundantly clear, multiple times, that he was only ever in love once and that it was not his present [drake] relationship. How to hurt someone!!! Sometimes complete honesty may not be the kindest option.....who knows...just empathizing... IDK, I mean how do we know that Sauli is even interested in marriage? IMO, a relationship can be just as meaningful without a marriage license. As for Drake, again, we have no idea about his feelings. Maybe both he and Adam talked about how they felt and neither was in love. I just don't see Adam being casually dismissive of those he cares about. JMO  |
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Post by mahailia on Aug 2, 2011 11:34:40 GMT -5
I know it is not our business, and I expect that they have discussed, or at least made their opinions known to each other, but I can't help wondering if the 'I don't see marriage in my future' might be hurtful to Sauli. I remember feeling really sorry for Drake having to be seen as Adam's boyfriend at the same time as he made it abundantly clear, multiple times, that he was only ever in love once and that it was not his present [drake] relationship. How to hurt someone!!! Sometimes complete honesty may not be the kindest option.....who knows...just empathizing... IDK, I mean how do we know that Sauli is even interested in marriage? IMO, a relationship can be just as meaningful without a marriage license. As for Drake, again, we have no idea about his feelings. Maybe both he and Adam talked about how they felt and neither was in love. I just don't see Adam being casually dismissive of those he cares about. JMO ^^^^^THIS! I don't think Adam would say anything publicly that would hurt Sauli, so I think they both feel this way, JMO. |
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Post by melliemom on Aug 2, 2011 11:37:49 GMT -5
I found this posted on DDD - very interesting, quite different from Adam's rendition. YT comments are full of "who's version is better" debate ;D [/quote} I love the mashup of the two of them the very best |
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Post by mszue on Aug 2, 2011 11:42:29 GMT -5
I know it is not our business, and I expect that they have discussed, or at least made their opinions known to each other, but I can't help wondering if the 'I don't see marriage in my future' might be hurtful to Sauli. I remember feeling really sorry for Drake having to be seen as Adam's boyfriend at the same time as he made it abundantly clear, multiple times, that he was only ever in love once and that it was not his present [drake] relationship. How to hurt someone!!! Sometimes complete honesty may not be the kindest option.....who knows...just empathizing... IDK, I mean how do we know that Sauli is even interested in marriage? IMO, a relationship can be just as meaningful without a marriage license. As for Drake, again, we have no idea about his feelings. Maybe both he and Adam talked about how they felt and neither was in love. I just don't see Adam being casually dismissive of those he cares about. JMO I hear what you are saying...and you may well be right....but he was casually dismissive of Drake I suspect....I remember a tweet from Drake referencing 'Loaded Smile'....and that was not about marriage but about love. If Drake went along with a 'love-less' relationship, I would expect it would have been either for the political statement of the relationship or for the publicity but he has not used either of those options so I would assume he really cared. I am not trying to be provocative in any way and I never felt any particular connection for Drake, along with agreeing that the relationship never seemed to have any spark. But that may be because Adam made it abundantly clear that his feelings for Drake did not run particularly deep. Maybe I need to quit thinking out loud!! : ???  |
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Post by chunkeymonkey81 on Aug 2, 2011 11:46:32 GMT -5
IDK, I mean how do we know that Sauli is even interested in marriage? IMO, a relationship can be just as meaningful without a marriage license. As for Drake, again, we have no idea about his feelings. Maybe both he and Adam talked about how they felt and neither was in love. I just don't see Adam being casually dismissive of those he cares about. JMO I hear what you are saying...and you may well be right....but he was casually dismissive of Drake I suspect....I remember a tweet from Drake referencing 'Loaded Smile'....and that was not about marriage but about love. If Drake went along with a 'love-less' relationship, I would expect it would have been either for the political statement of the relationship or for the publicity but he has not used either of those options so I would assume he really cared. I am not trying to be provocative in any way and I never felt any particular connection for Drake, along with agreeing that the relationship never seemed to have any spark. But that may be because Adam made it abundantly clear that his feelings for Drake did not run particularly deep. Maybe I need to quit thinking out loud!! : ??? Oh come on now! Everyone knows Adam and Drake were tru wuv! How could anyone NOT love a man who could make such epic bitch faces and rock a twink tank so flawlessly or make a painting of saggy orange boobs so expertly?!?!?! |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2011 11:47:52 GMT -5
I know it is not our business, and I expect that they have discussed, or at least made their opinions known to each other, but I can't help wondering if the 'I don't see marriage in my future' might be hurtful to Sauli. I remember feeling really sorry for Drake having to be seen as Adam's boyfriend at the same time as he made it abundantly clear, multiple times, that he was only ever in love once and that it was not his present [drake] relationship. How to hurt someone!!! Sometimes complete honesty may not be the kindest option.....who knows...just empathizing... IMO, that was the only answer he could give. He had just refused to say anything about Sauli. If he had given any other answer, it would have been interpreted as "thinking about marrying Sauli." Even if they are thinking of getting married tomorrow, he still gave the right answer.  There's a lot of space between "love-less" and "in love" . To assume that it has to be one or the other is a little strange, IMO. There's all the time of giving a relationship time to develop. And for 5 months of the Adam and Drake relationship, Adam was on Idol, with very few chances to be together. Then the tour for another 3 months. So not having the chance to fall "in love" makes complete sense to me. |
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Post by kathleenpf on Aug 2, 2011 11:49:18 GMT -5
Maybe I need to quit thinking out loud!! : ??? No! It makes for good discussion! I think that people can be in a relationship and acknowledge that it's not a serious one. To be honest I have no idea what Adam and Drake's relationship was like. I just don't see Adam as a casually cruel person and both he and Drake have remained friends and both seem to have moved on just fine. |
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Post by adamrocks on Aug 2, 2011 11:50:16 GMT -5
I know it is not our business, and I expect that they have discussed, or at least made their opinions known to each other, but I can't help wondering if the 'I don't see marriage in my future' might be hurtful to Sauli. I remember feeling really sorry for Drake having to be seen as Adam's boyfriend at the same time as he made it abundantly clear, multiple times, that he was only ever in love once and that it was not his present [drake] relationship. How to hurt someone!!! Sometimes complete honesty may not be the kindest option.....who knows...just empathizing... IDK, I mean how do we know that Sauli is even interested in marriage? IMO, a relationship can be just as meaningful without a marriage license. As for Drake, again, we have no idea about his feelings. Maybe both he and Adam talked about how they felt and neither was in love. I just don't see Adam being casually dismissive of those he cares about. JMO Adam and Sauli both have careers that they are still establishing and need to devote a lot of time and energy on them. They seem very committed to each other but maybe both feel their lives are not at the 'marriage' stage. They have a lot of time for continued growth in their relationship and, like any other couple, they can make the decision to marry or not when the time is right for them. I really don't feel Adam's statement in the article would be hurtful to Sauli...I just feel they're on the same page about this. JMO HAPPY BIRTHDAY, FEELALIVE!![/size] Hope your day is filled with everything you like to do! MOMTOMANY I PM'd you. |
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