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Post by maria222pf on Dec 28, 2011 2:34:06 GMT -5
OMFG!!! I've not listened to BTIKMS for several days, just cause.....cause I want to savor it, I guess. So....I've just listened to it over and over....and still am.......... OMFG!!!!!!!!!!! Holy flippin' *whatever* hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!! I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOO IN LOVE WITH THIS SONG I CAN'T EVEN SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My soul is so gone........OMG!!!!!!! It's just not fair..hahahhaa!! It's so addictive!!! I am totally helpless.........OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Super HIT!!!!!!!!!!! No doubt about it!!!!!!!!!!!! OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!! It exhaust me and enlightens me...................I get kinda dark...let it go too far,................ OHHHHHH I'm dying here.............. soooooooooo gone....can't type anymore........ HOLY HELL HITTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!! Your enthusiasm always brings a smile to my face   |
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Post by tigerlily on Dec 28, 2011 2:37:26 GMT -5
While I in NO WAY agree with Harvey that this INCIDENT ;D can be referred to as domestic abuse, I can see his point concerning the warped views from society as a whole when it comes to domestic abuse among same sex partners. I assume the public might also view physical abuse to be less worrisome or valid in lesbian relationships, due to the fact that a woman is beating up another woman. It must be especially difficult for abuse victims in same sex relationships. So I can tell that I am not explaining myself well and so am coming off all wrong in some instances. This is definitely a topic which can be discussed at length. I'm kind of rambling...just thinking out loud! The past week and the different opinions and the input from fans and others in the public have caused me to think about some things I've never considered before. I agree, in theory, but I've been wondering over the last week if this means gay men are allowed a certain amount of physical fighting in their relationships that wouldn't be allowed in opposite-sex relationships. I'm not sure about this and wonder how the majority of gay men view fighting (when it crosses over to a physical nature) inside of their relationships? Yeah- I feel the same. I'm not worried about Sauli and Adam and what went on in Finland. I haven't watched the long TMZ video either, but Harvey's question did make me think and led me to some questions that remain unanswered at this time. |
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Post by Catzmadam on Dec 28, 2011 2:40:32 GMT -5
Thanks for directing me to ZM - have voted and now listening to countdown - #15 - ... hoping to hear AL BTIKM at the top... Must say I love listening to NZ radio  Glad you're enjoying it bb  I must be honest tho, I'm only listening to vote and hear Adam. Hopefully he'll be #1 tonight. BTW, my brother & his wife, my nephew, his partner and new son live in Coombaba on the Gold Coast. I also went to school, for a whole week, a gazillion years ago at Redcliffe High in Brisbane  |
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Post by glittergma on Dec 28, 2011 2:42:06 GMT -5
 I have to Bert!!!!!!!!!! BTIKMS brings me to tears tonight!! I totally love this song!!!! I've stayed away for a while, but I love you all!!! Wishing you all Happy Holidays!!! I know/late...sorry bout it. LIfe is like that sometimes. But I think of you all, everyday...always and forever. Adam is my release........that voice......OMFG!!! And, how hard is it to look at that beautiful man?? He has kept me safe for 2+ years. ILHSFM.............. And, ty you all for all you do here. I haven't contributed much for a long time. Will try to do betterer on that one. RL has been bitter lately. *shrugs* I might be old, but I will hang in there. You all rock!!!!!!!!!! Luv and Hugs!!!!!!!!!!  No one has ever touched me like Adam Lambert....EVER in my life... And, I am so very happy that HE did!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This song is so going to be a total HIT!!!!!!!!!! No doubt about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by ksha518 on Dec 28, 2011 2:48:35 GMT -5
For sure. I wasn't referring to "THE INCIDENT" [dun dun dun] either when talking about wrestling for fun. But I guess that if I were to follow the analogy then it might not be that different from two brothers fighting in public to the point that the police have to be called. My point was more that when two men do anything, it will be different than when a man and a woman do something similar. While I in NO WAY agree with Harvey that this INCIDENT ;D can be referred to as domestic abuse, I can see his point concerning the warped views from society as a whole when it comes to domestic abuse among same sex partners. I assume the public might also view physical abuse to be less worrisome or valid in lesbian relationships, due to the fact that a woman is beating up another woman. It must be especially difficult for abuse victims in same sex relationships. I don't want to take the thread too far off topic (we're probably on to the next day's thread anyway...), but I feel a need to comment on this. Tigerlily, I agree with everything you said here and in your previous post stating that the fact that Adam and Sauli are in a romantic relationship changes the fighting to something different than two guys wrestling for fun. But I also agree that(for a whole bunch of reasons, including the fact that they both participated) it should NOT be categorized as domestic abuse. I want to add (and this does not really relate to Adam, but is just another aspect of this topic), that there are men in relationships in which the woman is the abuser. People are aware of this, but I am sure it is difficult for some to understand. And there are very few resources for single fathers in a situation in which the mother is the abuser (physically and emotionally) and is using the child as leverage. I've had previous personal experience with this through one of my sons. I think it is so easy to generalize and label (and I'm as guilty as the next person of doing those things sometimes), but the reality of things is usually more complicated than many people want to acknowledge. I know that it was same sex relationships being discussed, but this is another case, IMO, where many people would question the existence or validity of this type of abuse when in fact it does exist and can be devastating. So...important subject matter, but inappropriate and wrong to use Adam as an example. But I will also say WE DON'T REALLY KNOW (and shouldn't know, IMO) the actual dynamics of Adam and Sauli's relationship. ETA: I see the topic is still ongoing -- hadn't seen the latest posts when I wrote this. And I didn't watch the TMZ video either, haha. |
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Post by glittergma on Dec 28, 2011 2:49:51 GMT -5
Please view this as constructive criticism from someone who has lurked on PF then on here. Certain days The Diary of Anne Frank is a musical comedy compared to the angst that goes on here about nothing. I know criticizing is not permitted but it is impossible for me to keep my mouth shut tonight. Some of you love to wallow in misery and worry. Tonight with real life kicking my ass it was just too much to deal with perceived problems when so many authentic ones abound. If Adam worried half as much as some of you he would need a crisis negotiator to talk him down from the HOLLYWOOD sign. I know, DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT ME IN THE ASS. [grins] I'm gonna have to remember the phrase "certain days The Diary of Anne Frank is a musical comedy..." from here on out! Gonna be a keeper. In all seriousness, though, sorry your RL day sucked so badly. Have a lolly.  Hoppers,I know you're already gone, but doesn't this sound somewhat *familiar*??? hehehe As in Hal..fie???? Might just be me, but I am thinking so...or maybe just hoping so. Who knows????? *Better Than I Know Myself* ??????????? So wrapped up in this song right now...can't even talk about it...wow... |
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Post by glittergma on Dec 28, 2011 2:55:24 GMT -5
OMFG!!! I've not listened to BTIKMS for several days, just cause.....cause I want to savor it, I guess. So....I've just listened to it over and over....and still am.......... OMFG!!!!!!!!!!! Holy flippin' *whatever* hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!! I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOO IN LOVE WITH THIS SONG I CAN'T EVEN SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My soul is so gone........OMG!!!!!!! It's just not fair..hahahhaa!! It's so addictive!!! I am totally helpless.........OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Super HIT!!!!!!!!!!! No doubt about it!!!!!!!!!!!! OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!! It exhaust me and enlightens me...................I get kinda dark...let it go too far,................ OHHHHHH I'm dying here.............. soooooooooo gone....can't type anymore........ HOLY HELL HITTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!! Your enthusiasm always brings a smile to my face LOL!! TY mariaPF!! Sometimes I think I get a bit *crazy*, but Adam just does that to me. That's why I can't listen to him everyday cause I would lose my mind...totally!!! ahhahahaahha!! Glad I can make someone smile though!! heheheheeeee!! I'm just so loving this awesome man!!!!!! Can't help it!!! What's not to LOVE??????????????? OMG...this song...BTIKMS????? Major fucking AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Post by ksha518 on Dec 28, 2011 3:03:48 GMT -5
I agree, in theory, but I've been wondering over the last week if this means gay men are allowed a certain amount of physical fighting in their relationships that wouldn't be allowed in opposite-sex relationships. I'm not sure about this and wonder how the majority of gay men view fighting (when it crosses over to a physical nature) inside of their relationships? I'd be curious to know that as well. I'm sure there would probably be a variety of opinions, but I wonder what the majority would say. Until the subject was brought up here, I hadn't really thought that there would be more tolerance of physical fighting between gay men in relationships than between heterosexual couples. Now I'm wondering, although I'm still skeptical. |
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Post by ladyoz on Dec 28, 2011 3:04:15 GMT -5
Thanks for directing me to ZM - have voted and now listening to countdown - #15 - ... hoping to hear AL BTIKM at the top... Must say I love listening to NZ radio Glad you're enjoying it bb I must be honest tho, I'm only listening to vote and hear Adam. Hopefully he'll be #1 tonight. BTW, my brother & his wife, my nephew, his partner and new son live in Coombaba on the Gold Coast. I also went to school, for a whole week, a gazillion years ago at Redcliffe High in Brisbane Yeh .. I am enjoying it .. listening to the countdown on my IPod as I'm cooking dinner and visiting the computer every few minutes to throw another vote AL's way ... WOO -- he's on now ... sounds GREATI have a lot of Kiwi friends on the Coast ...Waitangi Day is a pretty big celebration here and boy do the Kiwi's know how to partay !!! : )
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Post by glittergma on Dec 28, 2011 3:08:18 GMT -5
I just cannot get over this song!!!!! I'm DED!!!!!!! So much emotion...it's killin' me...for sure!!!!!!!!!!!! OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have to go to bed. I can't ...I just can't.......... The album is gonna kill me, for sure. (if I can even buy it). This is crazy...and so am I. Sorry bout it! I've just never, ever been a TRUE fan before.l I love lots of music...BUT...this is so different. And, I LOVE every flippin' minute of it!! That VOICE!!!!!! OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ILHSFM!!!!!!!!! I know...I know....I'm not alone...Thank the Universe.......... And, thank all of YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am just beyond it all..........need sleep. Hugsssssssssssss!!!!!!!! |
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